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MsTammy MsTammy

Cambridge, Ontario Canada

Is that person into you or even interested
I am sure we have all gone through this in our lives, whether from aquaintances, friends, co-workers, etc..conversing You are on good terms with someone, that you flirt and joke around s*xually.
When do you know that person is willing to go beyond friends? I am friends with this guy and we have lots in common, and each of us is what we are looking for in a serious relationship. But he does not make the first move, because he always gets turned down when he does, and I also have been turned down if I show interest. But he has said things that makes me wonder "Is it because we are comfortable with each other, he can say things, but yet seems to go out to do things that I find attracted to.(Eg,I like long hair, that he knew, and he decides to grow it out. Also now he says if I stay the night watching movies that he likes a hand job to wake him, or if I want to grab a shower, he'll wash my back.) Is this just in my head, innocent flirting or willing. But he had just had a bad "breakup"(?) with his roommate that he ditched our friendship for,scold Is it rebound, or what. I don't want to make the move in case I did assume wrong, scared if I did assume right, but don't want to be a rebound. He says he never had a one night stand, and doesn't want one, and I just don't know. If anyone can give me feedback, good and bad, I'd like to hear what you have to say and thinkprofessor frustrated
Lilith10

unknown, Alberta Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
MsTammy: I am sure we have all gone through this in our lives, whether from aquaintances, friends, co-workers, etc.. You are on good terms with someone, that you flirt and joke around s*xually.
When do you know that person is willing to go beyond friends? I am friends with this guy and we have lots in common, and each of us is what we are looking for in a serious relationship. But he does not make the first move, because he always gets turned down when he does, and I also have been turned down if I show interest. But he has said things that makes me wonder "Is it because we are comfortable with each other, he can say things, but yet seems to go out to do things that I find attracted to.(Eg,I like long hair, that he knew, and he decides to grow it out. Also now he says if I stay the night watching movies that he likes a hand job to wake him, or if I want to grab a shower, he'll wash my back.) Is this just in my head, innocent flirting or willing. But he had just had a bad "breakup"(?) with his roommate that he ditched our friendship for, Is it rebound, or what. I don't want to make the move in case I did assume wrong, scared if I did assume right, but don't want to be a rebound. He says he never had a one night stand, and doesn't want one, and I just don't know. If anyone can give me feedback, good and bad, I'd like to hear what you have to say and think


wave Hiya MsTammy grin
I think there's always a risk involved with new relationships.
If we don't take that risk we will never know.
I would ask outright what are the boundaries in the relationship and talk about where it is going..if its not what your looking for, I would run laugh
Doesn't sound to me like he respects you though, and its a huge possibility your the 'rebound' until he does his own healing inside.
Make the move..if that's what you want then you'll know for sure instead of wondering what if..dunno jmo
Good Luck to you and I wish you all the bestgrin canada
MsTammy MsTammy

Cambridge, Ontario Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
Thanks for input..I'm unsure what or if I should make move and I have asked why he says things like this and he doesn't really reply.. just hedges around questions..and I am scared if I did it's because it's a rebound and ya...I feel like there is more bounderies need to be set...thank you
musicfreak musicfreak

Paradise City, British Columbia Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
@Tammy It sounds like this guy is playing games. I think if he was really interested in you he wouldn't have been with his roommate. If a guy is really interested he'll do whatever he can to be with you. I would move on. Good luck.
pedalguy59

Burlington, Ontario Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
musicfreak: @Tammy It sounds like this guy is playing games. I think if he was really interested in you he wouldn't have been with his roommate. If a guy is really interested he'll do whatever he can to be with you. I would move on. Good luck.


Ah crap, where did she go?moping
Corazon53

Fredericton, New Brunswick Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
I'm just happy that someone take's an intrest.Lotta people crave attention but yet are to shy to go after it.You're 1 lucky ladythumbs up
musicfreak musicfreak

Paradise City, British Columbia Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
pedalguy59: Ah crap, where did she go?


I'm still here Pedal. I turned my profile off so I wouldn't be distracted as I had some things to do! It was nice to have a break and not read the gibberish stuff on here. roll eyes One of these days I will delete it for good!doh

Hope you're well.
pedalguy59

Burlington, Ontario Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
musicfreak: I'm still here Pedal. I turned my profile off so I wouldn't be distracted as I had some things to do! It was nice to have a break and not read the gibberish stuff on here. One of these days I will delete it for good!

Hope you're well.



cool keep on rockinhead banger Bloody shame about no Canadian teams
to fight for the cupmoping I don't know how long you have been
here, but a break is good.thumbs up I am not unwell thank you.laugh
musicfreak musicfreak

Paradise City, British Columbia Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
pedalguy59: keep on rockin Bloody shame about no Canadian teams
to fight for the cup I don't know how long you have been
here, but a break is good. I am not unwell thank you.


I don't know what I'm going to do with no Canadian teams in the playoffs!uh ohblues It sucks! I'll probably still watch though. I'm sure they'll be a few series I'll get into if not there's always the Blue Jays! I'm going to watch them more this year.

I'm always rockin! That'll never change!winkhead banger
pedalguy59

Burlington, Ontario Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
musicfreak: I don't know what I'm going to do with no Canadian teams in the playoffs! It sucks! I'll probably still watch though. I'm sure they'll be a few series I'll get into if not there's always the Blue Jays! I'm going to watch them more this year.

I'm always rockin! That'll never change!


wave Rock n Roll Hoochie Coolaugh Lordy mamahead banger
MintyFeet

Longchamps, Buenos Aires Argentina

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
If a man is interested he will make the first move.

Don't fall for those who do not write unless you write first, do not fall for those who don't make the effort to pick up the phone or push the button on Skype to give you a call.

A real man doesn't leave a girl waiting.

A real man doesn't forget a b-day.

And if he does there is sth called a calendar. Use it.
Kattte

Vancouver, British Columbia Canada

Re: Is that person into you or even interested
MintyFeet: If a man is interested he will make the first move.

Don't fall for those who do not write unless you write first, do not fall for those who don't make the effort to pick up the phone or push the button on Skype to give you a call.

A real man doesn't leave a girl waiting.

A real man doesn't forget a b-day.

And if he does there is sth called a calendar. Use it.



Does a 'real man' talk naked while on Skype? ( you mentioned that on a posting)rolling on the floor laughing
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