How would/do you do it? (6)
MysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 PostsI personally, don't want some other guy to be around my kid. Now is this wrong? At least until we've been together for a while.. like over 6 months, and we think it's going somewhere. I don't want my son ti see men coming and going. I don't want a replacement daddy or anything like that. Even though his dad isn't in the picture. I just don't want him to like/get attached to someone then we split. So how do you do it?
I don't disagree with your post but you sound as if you do go on tons of dates. 
How many men are you seeing that you would have to worry that your child is seeing men coming and going?
How many men are you seeing that you would have to worry that your child is seeing men coming and going?
I agree with your point,that's why I was single for 7 yrs.
I just let my girl see the few people that I talk to as friends if she asks who I'm chatting with.
I have let her talk to some trusted friends online when she has asked to,but she has only ever met one I dated in person.Come to think of it I've only dated one in person 
Just wait until you feel comfortable in introducing your son to the guy and then do it slowly.It sucks when kids get attached and then lose contact.
Best of luck.
I just let my girl see the few people that I talk to as friends if she asks who I'm chatting with.
I have let her talk to some trusted friends online when she has asked to,but she has only ever met one I dated in person.Come to think of it I've only dated one in person
Just wait until you feel comfortable in introducing your son to the guy and then do it slowly.It sucks when kids get attached and then lose contact.
Best of luck.
pentium: I don't disagree with your post but you sound as if you do go on tons of dates.
How many men are you seeing that you would have to worry that your child is seeing men coming and going?
How many men are you seeing that you would have to worry that your child is seeing men coming and going?
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MysticalUnicorn: I personally, don't want some other guy to be around my kid. Now is this wrong? At least until we've been together for a while.. like over 6 months, and we think it's going somewhere. I don't want my son ti see men coming and going. I don't want a replacement daddy or anything like that. Even though his dad isn't in the picture. I just don't want him to like/get attached to someone then we split. So how do you do it?
We all have a different way to deal with dating as a single parent, myself did not date at all because it was my choice, the most important part of all is that a mother does put their children first above all ,dating or not it is your choice and if your careful about who the child meets that is good because you are being careful for the benefit of your child.
your way is not wrong because its your decision to let or not let the guys u date to be around your kid or not. do what is right in your opinion.
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