I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure.................. (12)

Aug 12, 2008 3:35 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
This continual high's and low's, re-adjusting again, and again, etc ect.
I am close to giving up on the human race called men.

teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 3:46 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl: This continual high's and low's, re-adjusting again, and again, etc ect.
I am close to giving up on the human race called men.

Not yet, Jenny! What would we do without them?
They are our constant worries, our headaches, our best friends, our lovers, spouses, and yes real pain when they don't live up to our expectations, But if anything, men are here because we are nurturing souls, that are always there. Now you can be busy doing other things, more important things like looking after you. Start by getting yourself a nice bath, bubble beads and all, nice scent body wash, new shampoo, anything you wish, no denying yourself......shampoo that man right out of your hair.
Aug 12, 2008 3:51 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
Katine76again
Katine76againKatine76againMoncton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 115 Posts
I know what you mean! comfort Some days I feel like giving up as well. Had very bad experiences in my last few relationships and am tired of all the BS!

Now I am taking my time and in no rush. Take the time to get to know someone really really well first and if this man cares that much then he will respect that and not give up on me. Otherwise if they can't be patient, then they are not worth my time and energy!

Just do the same hun and enjoy your life and those who love and care about you most and the rest will fall into place when the time is right!

hug
Aug 12, 2008 3:55 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
eyesthatknowwhy
eyesthatknowwhyeyesthatknowwhyWhitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada88 Threads 1,405 Posts
hollandgirl: This continual high's and low's, re-adjusting again, and again, etc ect.
I am close to giving up on the human race called men.


NOOOOOO!!! Jenn - don't go to the dark side...just step back and take a regroup breather (we can do that)banana Keep your girl power...I am not kidding when I say that everything happens for a reason...every minute detail in life is all choreographed; we are just the dancers!!dancing you choose the dance...does that make sense? angel
Aug 12, 2008 4:26 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Good idea's girl I know your right.teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 4:28 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Yes Eyes you do make sense you All do really.
Your okay girlsteddybear
Aug 12, 2008 4:38 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
mychelle: Not yet, Jenny! What would we do without them?
They are our constant worries, our headaches, our best friends, our lovers, spouses, and yes real pain when they don't live up to our expectations, But if anything, men are here because we are nurturing souls, that are always there. Now you can be busy doing other things, more important things like looking after you. Start by getting yourself a nice bath, bubble beads and all, nice scent body wash, new shampoo, anything you wish, no denying yourself......shampoo that man right out of your hair.




Not sure if it was intended this way, but this sounds like ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME!

What sort of expectations? Are they realistic?dunno
Aug 12, 2008 4:55 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
What more can someone do then to make sure there is no ex in the picture. I tried to do just that, Still failed!
But it looks to me some people don't know their own hearts.
My profile is plain.

"Wishing to meet someone who knows what he wants and is smart enough to recognize it when he does"

There is not a word of "Spanish" in my profile
teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 5:59 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
kidatheart: Not sure if it was intended this way, but this sounds like ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME!

What sort of expectations? Are they realistic?

Well, each of us has our own expectations, whether they are realistic, I can only answer for myself. It would appear that if someone isn't interested in us then it may have been that we read far more into it than the other person did, or fate had something to do with it. But who exactly should be held responsible? Both have planned a get together in advance, and he/she cancels moments before, and you are still left scrambling with having to get someone to fill in, so the day doesn't go wasted, your money doesn't go down the drain and you still have your integrity intact.
I would say if you are not over your ex, then say so, so as not to lead anyone on a mistaken path. By golly, if all it takes is for your ex to show up to rekindle your lamp then obviously the flame had never been put out. There still were a lot of oil in that old week to keep it going..
Aug 12, 2008 6:05 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
mychella he said he had a long talk with the ex and both agreed it was over and done with.
As he said; no drama from both sites.
Tells me only two days ago that he wants me in his life forever!
Tells me two days after this, that he chose the ex. ???

Maybe forever is not meaning the same as I took it to be?
Anyway he has made his choice now.

Wishing them both happiness.teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 6:13 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
eyesthatknowwhy
eyesthatknowwhyeyesthatknowwhyWhitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada88 Threads 1,405 Posts
kidatheart: Not sure if it was intended this way, but this sounds like ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME!

What sort of expectations? Are they realistic?


Thoughtful question kid@purple heart ; realistic? everyone has their own reality, but I do think it really boils down to a healthy balance, nothing overboard, you know what I mean? Respect, humour, consideration, kindness, dignity...ya know? Sure you do - the same things that most "normal" men expect from women angel
Aug 12, 2008 6:14 PM CST I know it takes time to re-adjust again. I am tired of all this for sure..................
hollandgirl: What more can someone do then to make sure there is no ex in the picture. I tried to do just that, Still failed!
But it looks to me some people don't know their own hearts.
My profile is plain.

"Wishing to meet someone who knows what he wants and is smart enough to recognize it when he does"

There is not a word of "Spanish" in my profile



Jenny, it isn't anything you did wrong. I just think his timing, and the ex reappearing was really off. I think there are others that will enter your life, who will be more honest with their thoughts and feelings. Be kind to yourself!
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