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I met someone about 7 years ago.... we hit it off however, never did I take it as him coming on to me....just thought he was a nice guy.... (I am naiive like that...)
(we are in the same cottage community).......so, for about 2 years, I would see him and want to find out where he was staying....cause I wanted to know more of him.....never found him and so, I gave up....thinking I was taking this wayyyy more personal.....and I was never his type anyways.... (girls think like that)
for the next few years, I was focusing on other matters in my life and never thought about it again...
just recently, I bumped into him again ..... he makes it an effort to come and seek me and after 7 hours of talking...(yep SEVEN HOURS) he tells me that he's been crazy for me since the first day...........
however, my LUCK has it that he ended up being in a relationship and is now wanting to NOT be with her anymore..... it's been a struggle for about a year now and he's just not happy.....
I have an issue with this and told him that unless he is "free" I cannot take this further cause just in our talks, I am very interested.....however, we have talked over the phone MANY times, sent each other texts and pretty much say g'nite to each other every night for the last month or so...and g'morning.... with that,. I am starting to LIKE this guy ALOT....more than I probably think....
He DID tell me that for now, "we" have to take it easy cause it isn't fair for him and I to start something when he hasn't ended what is going on in his life at this moment......
he lives about an hour away from me ....... finally calls me one day and we make plans to meet...that he would love to have a beer with me and just sit and chit chat....ok, so I Am thinking "I am soooooooo ready for this...."
he comes over, we talk.....and talk.........aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand talk......for another SIX hours...about personal things, life, us, him, me....the whole enchilada....and it was actually COMFORTING to know that we can have great conversation and refreshing to know that relationships DO take time...and getting to know one another is the first step to MAYBE something wonderful???
I truly believe this was his way of telling me what was going on......and it was not with alterior motives..........(EG: just for a roll in the hay) Gotta give him KUDOS for at least having the common courtesy to talk to me face to face and not tell me over the phone....
I would have LOVED to take it further but I didn't......nor did he...
so, this is it.....
do I wait to see what develops out of this.....and halt any/all other dates that may pass OR do I take it with a grain of salt and carry on?????
Me NOT taking the initiative with him...does that make me a tease or does that make HIM wanting to know me further....
This is nuts cause I don't think I have LIKED someone as much as him.....in SUCH a long time...... and just SEEING him makes me weak in the knees....
worst part? never thought someone can make me feel like that again...weird huh?
ok, so any opinion is appreciated....
Cheers
Curvy