Finding the right person (26)

May 25, 2012 9:49 PM CST Finding the right person
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
Hit your hole in one.
The person who was made for you.
Someone who comes from where you are and doesn't try to improve you or expect more from you.
But most of us are blind to what's right before our eyes.
People direct us toward mr/mrs wrong.

Good endings make for a good new relationship and so it goes that a bad break up makes for a bad new relationship.
May 25, 2012 9:55 PM CST Finding the right person
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
daggyone: Hit your hole in one.
The person who was made for you.
Someone who comes from where you are and doesn't try to improve you or expect more from you.
But most of us are blind to what's right before our eyes.
People direct us toward mr/mrs wrong.

Good endings make for a good new relationship and so it goes that a bad break up makes for a bad new relationship.


It can and does happen at times and it looks like you have found your hole in one....It's imperative that we don't harbour fears from the past, be cautious, but so much that we put up inpenetrable barriers.

Having said this, I have been on my own for so long now, that I think I would be in shock if anyone showed any interest.laugh
May 25, 2012 9:55 PM CST Finding the right person
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
daggyone: Hit your hole in one.
The person who was made for you.
Someone who comes from where you are and doesn't try to improve you or expect more from you.
But most of us are blind to what's right before our eyes.
People direct us toward mr/mrs wrong.

Good endings make for a good new relationship and so it goes that a bad break up makes for a bad new relationship.
Sorry Daggy Im goin to rain on your parade, ever heard the saying "love is always where you leave it, not where you find it" Well, if only 90% of the time.
May 25, 2012 10:14 PM CST Finding the right person
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
If you find what you believe to be love and then break up, does that mean you failed at love?
I just think you were in love, but not with the right person for you.
Love is not the only criteria needed to find the right person.
Someone who brings out our best, are not perfect but perfect for us.
Someone who awakens your soul.
May 25, 2012 10:41 PM CST Finding the right person
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
daggyone: If you find what you believe to be love and then break up, does that mean you failed at love?
I just think you were in love, but not with the right person for you.
Love is not the only criteria needed to find the right person.
Someone who brings out our best, are not perfect but perfect for us.
Someone who awakens your soul.


Actually Daggy what defines love, may be only lust, but finding that "one" person well that a major challenge.. I've found a man, correction, he found me - a lost, frightened, confused person, but he saw through that, and gave me courage, when I needed courage, gave me a shoulder/hug when I needed that too - but most of all the things he gave me which I never had been before including that of MrX was to let go of all the insecurities, self-doubt, self destruction, the emotional turmoil - for the first time I feel calmness in my life, I embrass the challenges of the day, I embrass knowing I am strong, and gaining in confidence - that to me defines the person who is ... I feel safe, secure, happy and content... Is he my sole mate.. time will tell, and if I die tomorrow, I will be happiest of women for having been blest for meeting this man.. (Ps met him here on Cs)
May 25, 2012 11:22 PM CST Finding the right person
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
bubbles2012: Actually Daggy what defines love, may be only lust, but finding that "one" person well that a major challenge.. I've found a man, correction, he found me - a lost, frightened, confused person, but he saw through that, and gave me courage, when I needed courage, gave me a shoulder/hug when I needed that too - but most of all the things he gave me which I never had been before including that of MrX was to let go of all the insecurities, self-doubt, self destruction, the emotional turmoil - for the first time I feel calmness in my life, I embrass the challenges of the day, I embrass knowing I am strong, and gaining in confidence - that to me defines the person who is ... I feel safe, secure, happy and content... Is he my sole mate.. time will tell, and if I die tomorrow, I will be happiest of women for having been blest for meeting this man.. (Ps met him here on Cs)
That is great news Bubbles.
you must be chuffed and excited
May 26, 2012 1:05 AM CST Finding the right person
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
venere08: Great news, bubbles. I'm happy for you.

May what you have found, outlast you both.


Thankyouwine
May 26, 2012 1:27 AM CST Finding the right person
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
I believe during your life span you can fall in a love more than once I also believe nothing is forever... well that is actually true so peeps live every day like it your last , go with the flow , just let it all out yay peace bouquet australia grin

teddybear
May 26, 2012 1:35 AM CST Finding the right person
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
curly28: I believe during your life span you can fall in a love more than once I also believe nothing is forever... well that is actually true so peeps live every day like it your last , go with the flow , just let it all out


How true - except I now substitute love for lust - interestingly enough don't ask me how to describe what I feel right now - because I have no answer...
May 26, 2012 1:36 AM CST Finding the right person
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
He's beautiful Curly - wine
May 26, 2012 1:46 AM CST Finding the right person
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
curly28: I believe during your life span you can fall in a love more than once I also believe nothing is forever... well that is actually true so peeps live every day like it your last , go with the flow , just let it all out
Gees curls, makin me feel like theres no such thing as a permanent relationship in this life.
May 26, 2012 1:48 AM CST Finding the right person
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
posted the carol bayer sager video on the wrong thread -

This should cheer everybody up - laugh Not

May 26, 2012 1:54 AM CST Finding the right person
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
tonyxf: Gees curls, makin me feel like theres no such thing as a permanent relationship in this life.


Sorry Tones JMO don't mean to sound negative really I do think positive re- most things in life hug I meant you can fall in love more than once so to me that is a positive wadda reckon thumbs up grin

Monty Python.... always look on the bright side of life dance buddies laugh
May 26, 2012 1:55 AM CST Finding the right person
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
curly28: I believe during your life span you can fall in a love more than once I also believe nothing is forever... well that is actually true so peeps live every day like it your last , go with the flow , just let it all out


It's too cold for that, curly.cold ...
well, not quite that cold.laugh
May 26, 2012 1:57 AM CST Finding the right person
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
bubbles2012: How true - except I now substitute love for lust - interestingly enough don't ask me how to describe what I feel right now - because I have no answer...



daydream flirty Yeah lust is good too laugh
May 26, 2012 2:01 AM CST Finding the right person
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Love is great, just hurts when you discover youve been in it alone ...nice pic BTW and good luck to youwine
May 26, 2012 2:03 AM CST Finding the right person
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
curly28: Sorry Tones JMO don't mean to sound negative really I do think positive re- most things in life
I meant you can fall in love more than once so to me that is a positive wadda reckon

Monty Python.... always look on the bright side of life
Guess you're right been there many times except it always hurts when it ends. But you're right again the sun always shines after the rain.
May 26, 2012 2:20 AM CST Finding the right person
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
tonyxf: Guess you're right been there many times except it always hurts when it ends. But you're right again the sun always shines after the rain.


Then again, it's a bit like childbirth...It's gotta hurt first before you get to experience the joy that (eventually!) follows...

To the men here...just believe us.laugh
May 26, 2012 2:34 AM CST Finding the right person
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
tonyxf: Guess you're right been there many times except it always hurts when it ends. But you're right again the sun always shines after the rain.


Yeah think about it if we didn't have these lovely mushy feelings >>>blushing smitten we all would be a total bloody bore comfort
May 26, 2012 2:58 AM CST Finding the right person
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
curly28: Yeah think about it if we didn't have these lovely mushy feelings >>> we all would be a total bloody bore
Its a great feeling falling in love again, just a shame sometimes that we cant do it with the same person.
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