Sick of heart breaks (64)

Jun 10, 2012 9:47 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????sigh
Jun 10, 2012 9:55 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
So what is the problem Kizzy? Surely you don’t fear of being taken advantage off finically?
Jun 10, 2012 10:00 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
AgentAjax: So what is the problem Kizzy? Surely you don’t fear of being taken advantage off finically?


I need someone who is finacially independant yes .. but also some one who can relate & mix well who understands I have commitments and responsibilities.
I do think the way the property laws are anyone with assests needs to be wary..arent you Ajax?
Jun 10, 2012 10:06 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
kizzy27: Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????


Give it a couple of days, kizzy...And a good bottle of red, some great gal pals, chick flicks, a picnic in the park, staring at into the ocean...and she'll be right mate.grin

If not, "Get thee to a nunn'ry, why woulds't thou be a breeder of
sinners?" Hamlet Act 3, scene 1, 114–121cool

Sorry, kizzy. I'm in my usual non-empathetic mood. But hey, you know it is for the right reasons, so don't beat yourself up over it.

As for where am I? ....I quit pining long ago. I've given up and just do my own thinglaugh dunno
wine
Jun 10, 2012 10:11 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
I don’t worry about things like that. Around our age, most are financially independent. My problem is people who are into sledging, insults…etc trying to bring you down to their level.
Jun 10, 2012 10:12 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
Carl96190
Carl96190Carl96190Gold Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 857 Posts
kizzy27: Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????


Just a normal part of life, Kizzy.
I wish that it was not, but that is how it is.
I hope that you do not sink to where I am, which is a point at which one gives up and tries to stop caring (with or without chemical assistance).
I know that you do not like me (loathe me might be more accurate), but I hope that things improve for you. bouquet
Jun 10, 2012 10:14 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
AgentAjax: I don’t worry about things like that. Around our age, most are financially independent. My problem is people who are into sledging, insults…etc trying to bring you down to their level.


I saw that .... I disagree alot of men ive met are finacially circling the drain .... scary
woulds you date someone who had zip?
I mean Ide date them But thats it ,No cohabitationscold
Jun 10, 2012 10:17 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
Carl96190
Carl96190Carl96190Gold Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 857 Posts
kizzy27: I saw that .... I disagree alot of men ive met are finacially circling the drain .... scary
woulds you date someone who had zip?
I mean Ide date them But thats it ,No cohabitation


For a man, there is no expectation that the female has any asssets at all. Some men may be looking for a free ride, but I do not think that they are large in number.
The reason that men of your age are 'circling the drain' is because they have been screwed by the Family Court and the Child Support Agency. After those two organisations have finished with a man his life is over.
Jun 10, 2012 10:21 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
venere08: Give it a couple of days, kizzy...And a good bottle of red, some great gal pals, chick flicks, a picnic in the park, staring at into the ocean...and she'll be right mate.

If not, "Get thee to a nunn'ry, why woulds't thou be a breeder of
sinners?" Hamlet Act 3, scene 1, 114–121

Sorry, kizzy. I'm in my usual non-empathetic mood. But hey, you know it is for the right reasons, so don't beat yourself up over it.

As for where am I? ....I quit pining long ago. I've given up and just do my own thing


Thanks Ven I may have to take you up an that italy trip .... I need to learn a thing or three from youwine
Jun 10, 2012 10:24 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
kizzy27: I saw that .... I disagree alot of men ive met are finacially circling the drain .... scary
woulds you date someone who had zip?
I mean Ide date them But thats it ,No cohabitation
I agree everybody has to show something for their life’s efforts by the time they reach 50. If not as you say bonk their brains out if they are good looking and put them back in the gutter where they belong. laugh
Jun 10, 2012 10:56 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
kizzy27: Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????


sorry to hear you are hurting Kizzy, but if we put ourselves out there looking for love, we also open ourselves up to hurt.

It takes courage to open up, but hopefully (eventually!, seems like an eternity!) someone will happen along.

dust yourself off girl, give yourself time to heal, and then reassess...

and


go get em!wine
Jun 10, 2012 11:12 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
kizzy27: Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????


AWWWWW Kizzy I feel your pain crying comfort hug it's hard isn't it you are not alone sad flower bide your time he may be just around the corner hang in there bouquet
Jun 11, 2012 1:06 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
acdcrock
acdcrockacdcrockToukley, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
To kizzy27 i'm sure all of us on this site have felt your pain and i'm sure each one of us has there emotional baggage but i'm sure if we all stick together and help each other as we fall down we'll be be able to make each other smile again group hug

*Turn to everyone on this site "C'mon guys let's all keep each other happy and help each other out when we get down and beat those blues"* boxing
Jun 11, 2012 3:20 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
acdcrock: To kizzy27 i'm sure all of us on this site have felt your pain and i'm sure each one of us has there emotional baggage but i'm sure if we all stick together and help each other as we fall down we'll be be able to make each other smile again

*Turn to everyone on this site "C'mon guys let's all keep each other happy and help each other out when we get down and beat those blues"*


The Crock has a point. I have been out with some very fine ladies not after the whole $2.43 I have in the bank. At times we realise that things are not going to really work and it is better to end the relationship. And then we pine "what if?" So we can only try again. Not everyone is perfect (okay, those that are are already taken) so we look to find what we are seeking. Doesn't always work but often enough it does. You never know what is just around the corner.

Probably a big bus but the driver maybe the one you are seeking.rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 11, 2012 4:32 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
Obscuritan
ObscuritanObscuritanMelbourne, Victoria Australia37 Threads 3 Polls 1,284 Posts
Sorry to hear about your heartbreak Kizzy. Let's hope it fades quickly.bouquet
Jun 11, 2012 4:38 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
Blueeyedkiwi
BlueeyedkiwiBlueeyedkiwiSydney, New South Wales Australia27 Posts
Having our hearts broken and then having to break someones heart are all part of the process sigh

Sadly I had mine broken but worse is having broken someone else's as that isn't easy, especially when you are like them but just at different stages in your life.

Sometimes we date people and like them but realise they are not ready for a relationship as still have issues to sort and before ya know it, they step over the lines and fall for you....

drinking


But in the dating front, I am quite happy wine
Jun 11, 2012 4:42 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
Blueeyedkiwi
BlueeyedkiwiBlueeyedkiwiSydney, New South Wales Australia27 Posts
Kristia49: I'm with you on those things kizzy. It really does make you wonder if there are any out there, i've given up for the time being, I'll stick with me batteries.



scold Never give up as there are still genine guys and gals out there, but a bit like looking through a needle in a hay stack or when you least expect it, they appear in your life grin

There is always hope, just pick yaself back up after a few drinks just to help and stay positive

wine
Jun 11, 2012 6:09 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
kizzy27: Anyone else feeling the same?

I have had my heart broken again ,we just didnt fit together into each others lives It was my decision & I know it was the right one but im still heart broken ...
I am starting to wonder if ill ever meet my man.
I miss being held
I miss being loved
where are you?????
Buy a one way ticket to Manilla or Bangkok and he is waiting for you out in the rural regions working away the rice paddies wondering when you will come for him.
Jun 11, 2012 9:47 AM CST Sick of heart breaks
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Oh Kizzy you are still a spring chicken...instead of looking at what you havent got lets look at what you have.

You are financially independent.

You have your wonderful children who will always be there for you.

You have your health and most of your teeth I guess. grin

You love your Career.

Live close to the Beach.

No Guy in your life......could be a plus if you think hard about it.


Now what you haven't.

A guy in your life dunno: Ok you have time on your side but if you are getting a bit frisky get the latest modal Vibe' start doing the dating sites in earnest and find the one with your name on him.. because he is out there' its just a matter of finding him,you might have to kiss a few more frogs in your search as you know but if I could do it at my age YOU most certainly can.

When the going gets tough Kizzy gets going.

yay yay yay
Jun 11, 2012 2:43 PM CST Sick of heart breaks
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
daggyone: Buy a one way ticket to Manilla or Bangkok and he is waiting for you out in the rural regions working away the rice paddies wondering when you will come for him.

You must be still smitten daggy, thats your solution to everything.laugh
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