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So heres the problem.
A tradesman came to measure up to do some work on the carport. it was while both my neighbours and I were not home and the dog apparently barked frantically at him at his head height the whole time he was there. Very annoying to him. So today he rings and says My workmen will be there tommorrow to start work at 8 am and will be there all day. Please ask your neighbours to keep the dog away from the fence as my blokes don't want to put up with the barking all day while they work." Fair enough I thought.
So this afternoon i go over and knock on the door, expain the situation and ask nicely if they could do that for me. Well I get a very frosty reception. "we will both be at work" they say. (He's retired)we will have to see what we can do." Frosty silence.
I left apoligising to them and saying i hope I hadn't caused them too much trouble.
I get home and think "Hang on a minute" Was it unreasonable to ask them to keep a big persistent large barking dog away from my fence line while had some work done? They know what he's like. but acted as if they were being inconvenienced. And why was i apologising. Perhaps they could have achnowledged their dogs persistent barking would be annoying. I just don't get people sometimes. But I want to stay on friendly terms with my neighbours, of course. Makes life easier.
How would others handle a tricky situation with neighbours?