How do you take rejection??? (37)

Nov 21, 2013 3:36 AM CST How do you take rejection???
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
LiLee: How do I take rejection?????

Not very well I'm afraid

But then I don't think many ppl take it well, some are just better at hiding their feelings than others.


I do not take rejection well. I admit it. But would never denegerate that person because it did not happen as I expected.. Okay, we were not "meant to be." She/he may be a lovely person suited to someone else.
Nov 21, 2013 3:43 AM CST How do you take rejection???
wash2u: Sorry peoples. I had a phone call at 12 noon today about "the best share trading scheme available and only 4 places left for offer in Vic." Okay, they had sent me a glossy brochure last week but had not gotten around to looking at. Very glossy.

So call goes on for abut 1 hour about how great this share-trading scheme is. Only 400 places offered in the whole of Aust. There are only 4 licenceson offer in Vic now. All other States have been filled.

Only cost you $18,900 to obtain a license to use this profit-making program. "Sign up now and when you see how people have already made $75,000 over the last 2 years, it is a great investment."

Told the guy I had to think about it before committing. Need to do some research. Okay, since then I have had to have a couple of teeth reconstructed. Get a call at 6.15 about "Mate, so are you going to buy this program that is so great after doing all of your research?"

WTF, I have had major dental work today, I have not contacted a guy I know from the Ombudsmans Office who for the last 20 years dealt in shonky share prospectus' and share trading schemes.

Too good to be true

probably selling a illegal pyramid scam the 400 places bit
Mar 16, 2014 7:15 AM CST How do you take rejection???
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Take it on the chin... for goodness sake... doh
Mar 16, 2014 7:23 AM CST How do you take rejection???
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
I wouldn't know, it's never happened.




Hah, who am I kidding. I cry like a baby and eat lots of chocolate.
Mar 16, 2014 7:30 AM CST How do you take rejection???
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
there are some that just cant handle it at all....

who go on the attack and malign the person who rejected them


dont they realise all that attack does is make them look even sadder for not being able to walk away??
And for the few that keep on and on and on, well it just makes them look foolish as they are staying in the same sad place and not moving on with their own life.

yep, I have been rejected, and I have also been the one who has done the rejecting. Why let the person who affected your life negatively remain in control, coz if you are still going on about it months afterwards you dont have control over your own life, they do
Mar 16, 2014 7:31 AM CST How do you take rejection???
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
jem1964: there are some that just cant handle it at all....

who go on the attack and malign the person who rejected themdont they realise all that attack does is make them look even sadder for not being able to walk away??
And for the few that keep on and on and on, well it just makes them look foolish as they are staying in the same sad place and not moving on with their own life.

yep, I have been rejected, and I have also been the one who has done the rejecting. Why let the person who affected your life negatively remain in control, coz if you are still going on about it months afterwards you dont have control over your own life, they do


and it makes you eat chocolate.
Mar 16, 2014 7:41 AM CST How do you take rejection???
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
chocolate?

did someone mention chocolate????


where?

dont tease me!laugh
Mar 16, 2014 7:42 AM CST How do you take rejection???
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
My IGA has started selling Dove. So much smoother and tastier than Cadbury's, I have no self control when it comes to it being in the fridge though.
Mar 17, 2014 12:40 AM CST How do you take rejection???
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
I find boiling bunnies helps....
Lookin4missright: Do you sit there and stew or do you get on with it???

Life is so short I hate it when a lady wants a date ..... Then wants to marry or move in, in the first few dates. I'm not very big in the financial dept ....

Just live day by day .....

And i don't give a toss if she is rich or poor ....

I'd just like to fall in love one day and experience what you losers have experienced

Can someone give me some pointers in falling in love and what i should look4 I'm so over the tards on dating sites (not CS of course)
Mar 17, 2014 12:47 AM CST How do you take rejection???
theD0CT0R
theD0CT0RtheD0CT0RLaunceston, Tasmania Australia22 Threads 936 Posts
Lookin4missright: Yep!! Their doin me head in

Ever thought of turning gay? laugh
But on a serious note, you got to get out there and take chances. Meet up with people that have similar tastes in whatever you're into. Falling in love is the easy part, WHEN you find the right person that your heart desires wink
Mar 17, 2014 1:22 AM CST How do you take rejection???
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
LiLee: How do I take rejection?????

Not very well I'm afraid

But then I don't think many ppl take it well, some are just better at hiding their feelings than others.


Yep...I can relate to that Lilee.

You're not alone.

I wear my heart on my sleeve....a real sook I am.

Go into my woman's cave for a bit to recharge.

Always emerge on the other side....just sometimes it takes longer than others. Accept that is just part of who I am, and, thank god...have improved with it, as I've got older.


wave
Mar 17, 2014 1:32 AM CST How do you take rejection???
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
NotABlonde: My IGA has started selling Dove. So much smoother and tastier than Cadbury's, I have no self control when it comes to it being in the fridge though.


I love the Dove Dark Chocolate (have to avoid Milk chocolate). Local Coles had not had any for nearly a year, thought it had gone off the market.
Mar 17, 2014 1:43 AM CST How do you take rejection???
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
wash2u: I love the Dove Dark Chocolate (have to avoid Milk chocolate). Local Coles had not had any for nearly a year, thought it had gone off the market.


Our Coles has just started to sell the proper English Galaxy bars of chocolate, and Ripples.

Dove comes a very close second. I'm not a fan of dark chocolate though unless it's wrapped round After 8 mint centre.
Mar 17, 2014 3:00 AM CST How do you take rejection???
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
NotABlonde: Our Coles has just started to sell the proper English Galaxy bars of chocolate, and Ripples.

Dove comes a very close second. I'm not a fan of dark chocolate though unless it's wrapped round After 8 mint centre.


Hi ah NABwave


I cant eat mint and choc... I don't know why, it makes me cough... but white choc is lovely... although I was given a bar of English fudge today... and it was sooooo sweet... coffee Needed to drink some strong black coffee after that... lol
Mar 17, 2014 3:15 AM CST How do you take rejection???
sassienolonger2
sassienolonger2sassienolonger2life's like that....!!!, Queensland Australia14 Threads 395 Posts
Lookin4missright: Do you sit there and stew or do you get on with it???

Life is so short I hate it when a lady wants a date ..... Then wants to marry or move in, in the first few dates. I'm not very big in the financial dept ....

Just live day by day .....

And i don't give a toss if she is rich or poor ....

I'd just like to fall in love one day and experience what you losers have experienced

Can someone give me some pointers in falling in love and what i should look4 I'm so over the tards on dating sites (not CS of course)


personally its fight or flight.. at present its flight, as I am so damn angry..!!
Mar 17, 2014 3:24 AM CST How do you take rejection???
sassienolonger2
sassienolonger2sassienolonger2life's like that....!!!, Queensland Australia14 Threads 395 Posts
one thing and I have been told this many times by young and old..

you need COMMUNICATION - both parties need to be open and honest, and have integrity and decency plus respect when dealing with either friends, family, work collegueas and those that you see as your partner/lover or companion - Without communication, you have nadda, zero, zilch nothing
Mar 17, 2014 5:44 AM CST How do you take rejection???
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
sassienolonger2: personally its fight or flight.. at present its flight, as I am so damn angry..!!



Awwwh... bouquet
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