The Right Partner? (46)

Dec 12, 2013 3:29 AM CST The Right Partner?
sassienolonger2
sassienolonger2sassienolonger2life's like that....!!!, Queensland Australia14 Threads 395 Posts
sassienolonger2: yes, well I wish Stephanie would remove herself from my screen... and but Stefan there instead...


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Dec 12, 2013 3:38 AM CST The Right Partner?
sassienolonger2
sassienolonger2sassienolonger2life's like that....!!!, Queensland Australia14 Threads 395 Posts
serene56: People can get to know a hell of a lot about each other online, as Halvo and his lady probably did.Which means 'the jumping all over each other' can then commence without delay


okay, then I am the one with the hang up -

A meet and greet to meet someone face to face for the first time,sit down, talk and find out if that person is the same person who have been talking too over a period of time - now this particular man, I had a problem with - gawd he was chameleon - first his photo was 10 years out of date - mind you he still was good looking, witty, intelligent, engaging, charismatic, and charming - but when I said "no", he told me I was playing games - and like hell I was - however, I can't put the blame entirely on him, because the truth of the matter was, I wasn't attracted to him...and I didn't feel comfortable or at ease when I had to hold the top of blouse together, and my skirt down... THAT IS NOT A MEET AND GREET!!!
mumbling
Dec 12, 2013 3:45 AM CST The Right Partner?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
sassienolonger2: okay, then I am the one with the hang up -

A meet and greet to meet someone face to face for the first time,sit down, talk and find out if that person is the same person who have been talking too over a period of time - now this particular man, I had a problem with - gawd he was chameleon - first his photo was 10 years out of date - mind you he still was good looking, witty, intelligent, engaging, charismatic, and charming - but when I said "no", he told me I was playing games - and like hell I was - however, I can't put the blame entirely on him, because the truth of the matter was, I wasn't attracted to him...and I didn't feel comfortable or at ease when I had to hold the top of blouse together, and my skirt down... THAT IS NOT A MEET AND GREET!!!


In that context, it's perfectly understandable wine

I was referring more to long-term online associations where people have seen each other for real and had time to connect properly.

And I was being a bit cheeky too wink laugh

Yes the meet and greet thing is full of hazards, had a few dates myself that arose from a few emails and a phone call or two.

For the most part, those people also had out-of-date pics and were not as confident in the flesh as they appeared online.

And a couple were overconfident, just like the guy you mentioned roll eyes
Dec 12, 2013 3:52 AM CST The Right Partner?
sassienolonger2
sassienolonger2sassienolonger2life's like that....!!!, Queensland Australia14 Threads 395 Posts
serene56: In that context, it's perfectly understandable

I was referring more to long-term online associations where people have seen each other for real and had time to connect properly.

And I was being a bit cheeky too

Yes the meet and greet thing is full of hazards, had a few dates myself that arose from a few emails and a phone call or two.

For the most part, those people also had out-of-date pics and were not as confident in the flesh as they appeared online.

And a couple were overconfident, just like the guy you mentioned


I am still good friends with a guy I meet over 2 years ago...so some things are aren't all doom and gloom, but the good does shelter/protects you from the nasty side...wine
Dec 13, 2013 2:31 AM CST The Right Partner?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
wash2u: The lucky ones who do find happiness are willing to share with us all that there is maybe someone out there for us.



There's nothing wrong with spreading hope and happiness thumbs up
Dec 13, 2013 8:50 AM CST The Right Partner?
Sailfree1
Sailfree1Sailfree1Vilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland16 Threads 663 Posts
wash2u: The lucky ones who do find happiness are willing to share with us all that there is maybe someone out there for us.

I do not mind sharing with you all.
I found my other half here in 2011 and still together
house dog and all.
Even changed countries twice.
Yes there is always hope so never give up.
Have fun and if I may never overlook anyone even if they
are not the type you first thought you were looking for.
They might just be the one for you.
Good luck
Merry Christmas. choir choir dancingsanta
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