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gold71: On new years eve I went to my good friends house for a BBQ and then into town to watch the fireworks. His new lady friend came along too and when we were waiting for the fireworks to begin and she said she found me very attractive right in front of him.
It didn't make my head swell it just made me feel very uncomfortable and it hurt my friend whom I've known for over 25 years... Just my luck, someone who finds me attractive and she is forbidden fruit.
It didn't make my head swell it just made me feel very uncomfortable and it hurt my friend whom I've known for over 25 years... Just my luck, someone who finds me attractive and she is forbidden fruit.
Ouch.
Had she been drinking
Not because I doubt she finds you attractive lol, but the fact that she said so.
Doesn't change anything though and not much you can do about it, it's an issue for her and her man to sort out
serene56: Ouch.
Had she been drinking
Not because I doubt she finds you attractive lol, but the fact that she said so.
Doesn't change anything though and not much you can do about it, it's an issue for her and her man to sort out
Had she been drinking
Not because I doubt she finds you attractive lol, but the fact that she said so.
Doesn't change anything though and not much you can do about it, it's an issue for her and her man to sort out
Yes tricky situation.
Other questions you might ask yourself Gold is....
Do you find her equally attractive? and if so,
Are you willing to lose your mate if you pursue her?
cause that's one thing that's for certain.
So tell us Gold, what do you think of her????
serene56: Ouch.
Had she been drinking
Not because I doubt she finds you attractive lol, but the fact that she said so.
Doesn't change anything though and not much you can do about it, it's an issue for her and her man to sort out
Yes she had been drinking, but wasn't sloshed, maybe she was trying to make him jealous so he gets really serious with her or something?Had she been drinking
Not because I doubt she finds you attractive lol, but the fact that she said so.
Doesn't change anything though and not much you can do about it, it's an issue for her and her man to sort out
gold71: Yes she had been drinking, but wasn't sloshed, maybe she was trying to make him jealous so he gets really serious with her or something?
Well the ol' jealously card is a bad move in my opinion.
Always backfires
LiLee: Well the ol' jealously card is a bad move in my opinion.
Always backfires
Always backfires
Would be interested to hear how many guys on here would step up and get more serious with a girl who flirts with his mates.
LiLee: So tell us Gold, what do you think of her????
She's intelligent and good looking, if I had met her in a different situation I would have gone for it, but I've been burnt before and know how it feels for a friend to hit on your woman.
Don't ever give him cause to think something might be going on.
Plus, if she can say that in front of him while it's a fairly new relationship, would she really be worth pursuing?
Plus, if she can say that in front of him while it's a fairly new relationship, would she really be worth pursuing?
gold71: She's intelligent and good looking, if I had met her in a different situation I would have gone for it, but I've been burnt before and know how it feels for a friend to hit on your woman.
Feel for ya
NotABlonde: Don't ever give him cause to think something might be going on.
Plus, if she can say that in front of him while it's a fairly new relationship, would she really be worth pursuing?
Plus, if she can say that in front of him while it's a fairly new relationship, would she really be worth pursuing?
Gidday NAB, good to see ya
LiLee: Gidday NAB, good to see ya
What she said ^^^^^
Thank you both :)
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
NotABlonde: Thank you both :)
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
Never give up NAB,
But I like it here too. It's kinda safe amongst like minded people
Welll...... The next day my friend was picking up his car and had been gone for about 4 hours and she came over looking for him and asked me if I wanted to have a swim in her pool( almost next door) it was so hot that I agreed, she let him know with a message and when he came around he was fuming thinking something wrong was going on,,,which it wasn't...... But yeah I made it worse I spose
NotABlonde: Thank you both :)
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
I've given up looking for a man, so have come back here.
Witty and all over it as always, welcome back
gold71: Welll...... The next day my friend was picking up his car and had been gone for about 4 hours and she came over looking for him and asked me if I wanted to have a swim in her pool( almost next door) it was so hot that I agreed, she let him know with a message and when he came around he was fuming thinking something wrong was going on,,,which it wasn't...... But yeah I made it worse I spose
Ok, so now the thread title starts making sense...
Obviously you are attracted to her Gold and were prepared to take your chances, we know this when we do these things
gold71: Welll...... The next day my friend was picking up his car and had been gone for about 4 hours and she came over looking for him and asked me if I wanted to have a swim in her pool( almost next door) it was so hot that I agreed, she let him know with a message and when he came around he was fuming thinking something wrong was going on,,,which it wasn't...... But yeah I made it worse I spose
putting it bluntly Gold you are paddling in your mates pool , this tart is taking "being friendly with your mates" to a new levelserene56: Ok, so now the thread title starts making sense...Obviously you are attracted to her Gold and were prepared to take your chances, we know this when we do these things
All that I wanted was to have a swim because it was stinking hot, he even suggested we go over there when he got back, anayway nothing happened between us so I don't feel bad for that. But he left her place and smoked up his v8 in front of all the neigbours, silly move..gold71: All that I wanted was to have a swim because it was stinking hot, he even suggested we go over there when he got back, anayway nothing happened between us so I don't feel bad for that. But he left her place and smoked up his v8 in front of all the neigbours, silly move..
The fact you knew your friend felt bad, and you felt bad for him, when she said you were good looking the night before should have been enough to tell you not to be alone with her......especially scantily clad in a pool.
Can't see the relationship lasting though as he obviously doesn't trust her already.
Some women are born flirts, some guys can cope with it, some can't.
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It didn't make my head swell it just made me feel very uncomfortable and it hurt my friend whom I've known for over 25 years... Just my luck, someone who finds me attractive and she is forbidden fruit.