Moving forward (14)

Mar 22, 2014 1:20 AM CST Moving forward
Have you moved on from your last relationship/marriage/fwb conversing

If so, when did you realise that.. if not, why not cool
Mar 22, 2014 1:32 AM CST Moving forward
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
yep, when I realised that although it was fun, the overall feeling from the situation was not to my taste.

I chose not to be in any form of relationship that doesnt add to my life, if it feels like only using, either from my side or from his, it just isnt worth the time and effort.

I know their are people who are fine with that, but it isnt for me

cheers
Mar 22, 2014 1:38 AM CST Moving forward
jem1964: yep, when I realised that although it was fun, the overall feeling from the situation was not to my taste.

I chose not to be in any form of relationship that doesnt add to my life, if it feels like only using, either from my side or from his, it just isnt worth the time and effort.

I know their are people who are fine with that, but it isnt for me



Hmm well said jem.

And when you think about it, time and effort doesn't come into the equation when it's something that feels right eh conversing
Mar 22, 2014 1:40 AM CST Moving forward
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
serene56: Have you moved on from your last relationship/marriage/fwb

If so, when did you realise that.. if not, why not


wave I think after three years, most certainly.
Mar 22, 2014 1:43 AM CST Moving forward
pedalguy59: I think after three years, most certainly.



I met a guy who was still banging on about his ex nine years later uh oh



She must've been one HELL of a woman laugh
Mar 22, 2014 1:45 AM CST Moving forward
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
serene56: Hmm well said jem.

And when you think about it, time and effort doesn't come into the equation when it's something that feels right eh



I must remember this and take it on as a motto....


very true Serene
Mar 22, 2014 1:45 AM CST Moving forward
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
serene56: I met a guy who was still banging on about his ex nine years later
She must've been one HELL of a woman


Some guys carry baggage for years, they are bitter and should not
be seeking a relationship.IMO.
Mar 22, 2014 1:46 AM CST Moving forward
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
Yep...well, over it.

I've been single for four years.cartwheel
Mar 22, 2014 1:46 AM CST Moving forward
pedalguy59: Some guys carry baggage for years, they are bitter and should not
be seeking a relationship.IMO.



Well he didn't get one out of me that's for sure uh oh


Or a relationship either giggle
Mar 22, 2014 1:48 AM CST Moving forward
jem1964: I must remember this and take it on as a motto....very true Serene



Just sprang to mind when I read your post jem confused
Mar 22, 2014 1:51 AM CST Moving forward
Carmengetme: Yep...well, over it.

I've been single for four years.



Carmen wave


Then do you think it's possible to be friends with an ex confused


I noticed a couple of your recent posts mentioned contact conversing
Mar 22, 2014 1:57 AM CST Moving forward
Carmengetme
CarmengetmeCarmengetmeAuckland, New Zealand830 Posts
serene56: Carmen Then do you think it's possible to be friends with an ex I noticed a couple of your recent posts mentioned contact


Hiya Serene...wave

It is possible...but I found in my last relationship it was best we went our separate ways. We did have friendly contact a year after we split, but I find it's best to cut all contact, to allow each other to move on.

I have contact with the children's Dad because I have to.

It's civilised MOST of the time.

Enough said....laugh
Mar 22, 2014 1:59 AM CST Moving forward
Carmengetme: Hiya Serene...

It is possible...but I found in my last relationship it was best we went our separate ways. We did have friendly contact a year after we split, but I find it's best to cut all contact, to allow each other to move on.

I have contact with the children's Dad because I have to.

It's civilised MOST of the time.

Enough said....



thumbs up
Apr 10, 2014 3:39 AM CST Moving forward
jem1964: yep, when I realised that although it was fun, the overall feeling from the situation was not to my taste.

I chose not to be in any form of relationship that doesnt add to my life, if it feels like only using, either from my side or from his, it just isnt worth the time and effort.

I know their are people who are fine with that, but it isnt for me


Me either shweetie hug
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