Pro's & Cons (34)

Oct 21, 2014 1:16 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Of finding a missright overseas heart wings


Can't help thinking of the cons daydream

Re: Asians/phillipinos... They don't seem interested in ozzy blokes (the ones from oz) so why should us fellas trust them in bringing them into oz?

I have heard of good and not so good stories confused
Oct 21, 2014 1:35 AM CST Pro's & Cons
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Re LDRs in general, worth a shot if you have loads of money and time to spend on travelling and getting to know the person conversing


Relationships take time to build - just because someone has spent lots of dollars to go meet someone doesn't guarantee it's gonna work from the getgo.

Re Asian ladies, same situation, then taking a punt and hoping for the best if you foot the bill for her immigration costs.
Oct 21, 2014 2:17 AM CST Pro's & Cons
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
mickyj63: Some do like us Aussie blokes . But the last one I had dates with wasnt treated well by her ex husbands !!
Perhaps those guys give the rest of us a bad rap!!God the ones in Adelaide can be so friggin hot !!!

Gee I need to get laid again I wrote that out loud dint I



Yes and could someone please pass the eye bleach sad flower
Oct 21, 2014 2:20 AM CST Pro's & Cons
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
serene56: Yes and could someone please pass the eye bleach


Am I that bad and ugly Serene Ill hang my head in shame and go away doh
Oct 21, 2014 2:24 AM CST Pro's & Cons
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
mickyj63: Am I that bad and ugly Serene Ill hang my head in shame and go away



Just playin' Micky dancingsanta comfort
Oct 21, 2014 2:27 AM CST Pro's & Cons
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
serene56: Just playin' Micky


if i stand sideways u may not see me rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 21, 2014 2:28 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
serene56: Asian women have values too Just because they might be looking for a better life doesn't mean that any bloke will do





Then how come i see old codgers at weekend markets with young asian/phillipino babes confused

I'm a bit of a spunk ya know snooty laugh


liar
Oct 21, 2014 2:29 AM CST Pro's & Cons
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
mickyj63: if i stand sideways u may not see me




Ok, that could work handshake


giggle
Oct 21, 2014 2:30 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
mickyj63: Am I that bad and ugly Serene Ill hang my head in shame and go away



try asking me, you know i can't lie professor rolling on the floor laughing hug
Oct 21, 2014 3:09 AM CST Pro's & Cons
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
Lookin4missright: Then how come i see old codgers at weekend markets with young asian/phillipino babes

I'm a bit of a spunk ya know


Ive got a 29 yo from china who keeps trying to friend me .
I may go ad her now see what happens hey lookin
Oct 21, 2014 3:22 AM CST Pro's & Cons
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Lookin4missright: Of finding a missright overseas Can't help thinking of the cons

Re: Asians/phillipinos... They don't seem interested in ozzy blokes (the ones from oz) so why should us fellas trust them in bringing them into oz?

I have heard of good and not so good stories


Hi lookin, wave a good few couples have met here and had LDR and at least got it together. It's up to everyone what they want or what they are looking for. My significant others lived all about 10 mins down the road and that's how I personally like it. conversing

I know of a Malay and Argentinian woman who married German men, they are married a good number of years and have kids. It's difficult as far as I see, but then, a lot of relationships are. dunno
Oct 21, 2014 3:27 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
KNenagh: Hi lookin, a good few couples have met here and had LDR and at least got it together. It's up to everyone what they want or what they are looking for. My significant others lived all about 10 mins down the road and that's how I personally like it.

I know of a Malay and Argentinian woman who married German men, they are married a good number of years and have kids. It's difficult as far as I see, but then, a lot of relationships are.





I'm hearing ya Miss k Pieface hug ......... Mr Micky pack ya bags love, your moving to ireland confused germany confused or wherever Miss K lives dunno confused laugh
Oct 21, 2014 3:30 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
mickyj63: Ive got a 29 yo from china who keeps trying to friend me .
I may go ad her now see what happens hey lookin




better than two 14 & a half year olds laugh


knee ho my cowboy
Oct 21, 2014 3:33 AM CST Pro's & Cons
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
mickyj63: Ive got a 29 yo from china who keeps trying to friend me .
I may go ad her now see what happens hey lookin




ps, make sure her dad is'nt Mr Meeargy cartwheel laugh
Oct 21, 2014 3:35 AM CST Pro's & Cons
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Lookin4missright: I'm hearing ya Miss k Pieface ......... Mr Micky pack ya bags love, your moving to ireland germany or wherever Miss K lives


In Germany at the moment but back in Ireland soon. laugh

Don't give poor micky a heart attack. uh oh wave
Oct 21, 2014 3:39 AM CST Pro's & Cons
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
KNenagh: Hi lookin, a good few couples have met here and had LDR and at least got it together. It's up to everyone what they want or what they are looking for. My significant others lived all about 10 mins down the road and that's how I personally like it.

I know of a Malay and Argentinian woman who married German men, they are married a good number of years and have kids. It's difficult as far as I see, but then, a lot of relationships are.



Hi KN wave


Of all the numerous threads that have been posted regarding LDRs, it seems many put the whole idea into the too-hard basket conversing

I'm not interested in anyone further away than my immediate area either, and I do think that romantic fantasies play a huge role in many peoples' minds on this site confused

What do you think conversing
Oct 21, 2014 3:43 AM CST Pro's & Cons
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serene56: Hi KN Of all the numerous threads that have been posted regarding LDRs, it seems many put the whole idea into the too-hard basket

I'm not interested in anyone further away than my immediate area either, and I do think that romantic fantasies play a huge role in many peoples' minds on this site

What do you think


Hello Serena Kn, and anyone else that may be Lurking wink
i have to say i think its just too hard, you have to have someone who's at least able to Live near you, so you can date etc,..otherwise you can never get the entire view of them and what they want, and Unfortunately what alot want from Ldr.....is strictly Marriage which
even from my interpretation, means before friends and much else......
is that really what you would want..????
Oct 21, 2014 3:49 AM CST Pro's & Cons
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
serene56: Hi KN Of all the numerous threads that have been posted regarding LDRs, it seems many put the whole idea into the too-hard basket

I'm not interested in anyone further away than my immediate area either, and I do think that romantic fantasies play a huge role in many peoples' minds on this site

What do you think


I have seen 2 marriages from different cultural areas around home, they met, fell in love (that's what I hope for them) and with all having someone "different" playing a role - for the guys, they simply couldn't find women locally (one complete odd ball, the other couldn't get a woman to his "standards") and with the women, at least in one case, they wanted to get to Europe.

The crash landing in reality doesn't look that pretty. dunno

In Germany, a lot of guys looking for women abroad can't find a woman locally or want someone "submissive". As long as there are women who are happier with a treatment like that than living in poverty, marriages like this will happen.

I honestly don't know how much romance features in these cases and I it's none of my business. I know that it wouldn't be for me. I don't know on this site, it seems to have worked and if both see each other as "equal", I don't see why it couldn't work. conversing
Oct 21, 2014 3:52 AM CST Pro's & Cons
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
skippyguy: Hello Serena Kn, and anyone else that may be Lurking
i have to say i think its just too hard, you have to have someone who's at least able to Live near you, so you can date etc,..otherwise you can never get the entire view of them and what they want, and Unfortunately what alot want from Ldr.....is strictly Marriage which
even from my interpretation, means before friends and much else......
is that really what you would want..????


I can meet women here but im not a long term prospect for these women !!
I've done LDR's in australia wont do them again

if i dont find miss right ill just go fishing hahah
Oct 21, 2014 3:57 AM CST Pro's & Cons
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
skippyguy: Hello Serena Kn, and anyone else that may be Lurking
i have to say i think its just too hard, you have to have someone who's at least able to Live near you, so you can date etc,..otherwise you can never get the entire view of them and what they want, and Unfortunately what alot want from Ldr.....is strictly Marriage which
even from my interpretation, means before friends and much else......
is that really what you would want..????


I just like to be able to meet up with someone whenever it suits both of us, spend as much time as possible with each other etc. I think seeing someone a couple of times a year in a holiday situation doesn't give the right impression.

Also, I decided for me that I wouldn't want to be financially dependent on someone and it mightn't be that easy to get a job in another country and I just wouldn't move in with someone I don't know that well and having to rely on him. I wouldn't offer something like that to a guy I don't know that well either (different if my partner I'm with for a while gets on trouble of course).

It takes time to get to know someone and to see if 2 people are compatible. I also would like the have the option to say "no" if I can't see it working - difficult if one person is dependent on the other.
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