are they really sure what they want? (37)
Nice enuf and they will overlook the differences,well one thing I know and that is no 2 humans are alike so differences are a way of life and in order to overlook differences that are sometimes annoying you need love and paitence more than anything,being nice doesnt hurt either
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Let's face it, if any of us were perfect we wouldn't be hanging out on some website talking about this subject. We all have our own views on life and it's dealings, but the reason I started this subject is that I believe that we learn more from anothers point of view whether we agree or not, and wanted to hear a few. Now I care to offer mine!
I feel that many us that have a caring side rely too much on someone else to bring us happieness, because of our own insecurities we become subject to someone that has less scruples, and expect them to see us for the person we are simply because we told them how nice we were, or what we could do for them.if this is the case, we have only ourselves to blame.
I have come to the conclusion that a person cannot make you happy, but the wrong person can make you unhappy. The only one that can make you happy, is you, by being proud of who you are, standing by your views, and enjoying your life by following your interests and confronting your fears. If you meet someone along the way, that would be because of shared interests, and compatibility. If not, atleast the possibility is still there of meeting that person rather than settling for someone that you need to be someone your not to impress.
I'm sure we've all run into that person(maybe at gas station or something) that we felt chemistry and interest with, but yet came up with some sorry excuse not to say hi then regreted it later. In my eyes; common attraction between two people is felt, not nagotiated like a contract. Give and take is a great idea, but most of the time more taking is done than giving. I feel that if two people care about each other, their both evenly concerned about the others goals and happieness, and both work toward the others happieness rather than their own selfish wants.
Keep in mind, this is only my view, we all have our own, and we all have the right to agree or disagree.
I feel that many us that have a caring side rely too much on someone else to bring us happieness, because of our own insecurities we become subject to someone that has less scruples, and expect them to see us for the person we are simply because we told them how nice we were, or what we could do for them.if this is the case, we have only ourselves to blame.
I have come to the conclusion that a person cannot make you happy, but the wrong person can make you unhappy. The only one that can make you happy, is you, by being proud of who you are, standing by your views, and enjoying your life by following your interests and confronting your fears. If you meet someone along the way, that would be because of shared interests, and compatibility. If not, atleast the possibility is still there of meeting that person rather than settling for someone that you need to be someone your not to impress.
I'm sure we've all run into that person(maybe at gas station or something) that we felt chemistry and interest with, but yet came up with some sorry excuse not to say hi then regreted it later. In my eyes; common attraction between two people is felt, not nagotiated like a contract. Give and take is a great idea, but most of the time more taking is done than giving. I feel that if two people care about each other, their both evenly concerned about the others goals and happieness, and both work toward the others happieness rather than their own selfish wants.
Keep in mind, this is only my view, we all have our own, and we all have the right to agree or disagree.
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Goodmorning all
Well sixtyvetteman you are spot on with your view, I think we all know that deep down. We have all previously posted the very same comment's in other thread's, with regard's to knowing yourself and who is responsible for happiness. Have a great day.
Well sixtyvetteman you are spot on with your view, I think we all know that deep down. We have all previously posted the very same comment's in other thread's, with regard's to knowing yourself and who is responsible for happiness. Have a great day.
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i know exactly what women want.....me
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and then mrlister woke up
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hey, i make 'em laugh, ask any girl, the most important thing is a sense of humor....and a cute butt of course
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ahhh butt are they lauging at you or with you (lauging)
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sometimes both, sometimes i make them laugh at themselves, and SOMETIMES i make them laugh in spite of themselves.
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Steve, it doesn't matter. A laugh means the girl is having fun, and as we all know "girls just want to have fun". And of course, the cute butt is a PLUS! :)
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of course girls want to have fun my point was i wouldn't like to be laughed at and i wonder if you are still laughing at him or with him after what he said about cute.
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Thank you Steve.I was being nice to him,then I happened to see the post about me.If it was humor it was very mean spirited.
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Maybe it is because you were not totally being yourself and the woman picked up on it. Women do tend to like the "bad Boys" too. Even if guys do do all that stuff, how long will it last? Maybe what is attractive later is she saw you can be a gentleman and you actually do have a playful side too.
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Sometimes you find out later things aren't as they appear.
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Hello Sixtyvetteman...
I do know what I want, and it is not a jerk, or a bad boy type of guy. I do NOT want a man for his money, because his money can't keep me warm at night. (And I have my own money to get by).
I want a man with a gentle heart who will love me for the person that I turned out to be, someone who does not pick a fight and refuses to argue because I HATE conflict,
someone who will not lie to me, or will not cheat on me, someone who won't feel the need to get drunk on a regular basis (lived with an alcoholic, refuse to do it again),
someone who can find BEAUTY in the SIMPLEST things, someone romantic, passionate, compassionate, someone who is not ashamed to tell me he loves me no matter who is around, and will walk beside of me, not in front of or behind of me.
Someone who will accept my love unconditionally, and return it unconditionally.
I may be lonely, but I'd rather live alone and be lonely than to live WITH someone and STILL be lonely, because I refuse to settle for less than a NICE SWEET GUY.
So, to answer your question, there ARE ladies who DO know exactly what they want, and it sure as heck ain't no JERK.
Rose.
P.S. My Question is, where ARE all the nice guys at that REALLY know what they want, and are not playing games?
Fair question.....
I do know what I want, and it is not a jerk, or a bad boy type of guy. I do NOT want a man for his money, because his money can't keep me warm at night. (And I have my own money to get by).
I want a man with a gentle heart who will love me for the person that I turned out to be, someone who does not pick a fight and refuses to argue because I HATE conflict,
someone who will not lie to me, or will not cheat on me, someone who won't feel the need to get drunk on a regular basis (lived with an alcoholic, refuse to do it again),
someone who can find BEAUTY in the SIMPLEST things, someone romantic, passionate, compassionate, someone who is not ashamed to tell me he loves me no matter who is around, and will walk beside of me, not in front of or behind of me.
Someone who will accept my love unconditionally, and return it unconditionally.
I may be lonely, but I'd rather live alone and be lonely than to live WITH someone and STILL be lonely, because I refuse to settle for less than a NICE SWEET GUY.
So, to answer your question, there ARE ladies who DO know exactly what they want, and it sure as heck ain't no JERK.
Rose.
P.S. My Question is, where ARE all the nice guys at that REALLY know what they want, and are not playing games?
Fair question.....
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That would be the right person for us, and we would be the right person for them. But if you are NICE enough, they just might overlook the differences and take you anyway, even if you are not the right person. The moral of the story: be very very nice to a woman, or keep looking.
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