If you were in a situation like this what would you do? (26)

Oct 7, 2009 12:06 PM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
macdone
macdonemacdoneherzele, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium2 Threads 14 Posts
smoky: Very true, and well said Saseez!

Quite a different thing to adopting a different mode of dress ...... spirituality is something deep within, not something you change at a whim, or to get what you want, or to do better business deals.


I need a solution to this very problem, i have a young girl in my school, i like her and i ve approche her, but she refuse, although after some 2 to 3 days we begin to talk very nice to each other, bcos we sit very close in the class,

The relationship is about to develope, but something happen, there is another boy sitting opposite the girl, and i discovered that the boy want to approch the girl also,

Then one of the school breake i was not feeling so fine, although she ask me to go to the cafeteria with her, but i was not feeling alright to go with her, so i just give her money to buy what she need,

So after when she finished eating and was coming back to the class, the opposite boy block the girl at the door, and they beging conversation, so after when the girl return to her seat which is next to mine,so when she came to her sit,

I flown my face and she saw it,she try to draw my attention by taken the dictionary off my hand and i give it to her, and take another, and she also takes that also from me, and give her, then i told her that i was waiting to talk with her but she was busy talking with another person at the door, and she reply me and ask are you serious? i said yes that is why i came to call you in the cafeteria, so she get get more angry more than i myself,

She then wrote a little note to give me that she told me in the first that she dont want, but i refused the note, while we are going home i try to talk to her, but she refuse, and i am really bothered, please i need you opinion thanks
Oct 7, 2009 12:49 PM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
rossidanny:
1) If you really loved them and you wanted to be with them would you convert to there religon?


No, that would be to lie.

In response to:
2) What about the parents of the person you fell in love, they probably wont like you if you are different religon?


Why would they not? And if they judge me by my choice of faith, I sure hope the daughter did not inherit such a narrow view on lifes possibilities. IF she did, I guess I backed out, hurt and at odds with my own feelings.

In response to:
3) The parents may even disown there children if they continue with there relationship between the other person, would you be able to live with your self if the person parents disown them because she or he wanted to be with you?


Yes, I would.

In response to:
4) And if after a few years you and the other person split up, and the parents will not take there childrens back would you feel guilty


Not then, no.

In response to:
5) What would you do if the parents want there children back and they would do anything to get them back even kill you, would you move away, to another city, country?


Now that is a Hollywood question and I can only give a Hollywood answer. So a refrain from this one. smile

I am of a radically different "faith" than my wife, she is staying with her faith and her parents, particularly her mother, are rather conservative. But they are too equipped with common sense and a great deal of respect for others and their choices.

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Oct 8, 2009 7:55 AM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
macdone: I need a solution to this very problem, i have a young girl in my school, i like her and i ve approche her, but she refuse, although after some 2 to 3 days we begin to talk very nice to each other, bcos we sit very close in the class,

The relationship is about to develope, but something happen, there is another boy sitting opposite the girl, and i discovered that the boy want to approch the girl also,

Then one of the school breake i was not feeling so fine, although she ask me to go to the cafeteria with her, but i was not feeling alright to go with her, so i just give her money to buy what she need,

So after when she finished eating and was coming back to the class, the opposite boy block the girl at the door, and they beging conversation, so after when the girl return to her seat which is next to mine,so when she came to her sit,

I flown my face and she saw it,she try to draw my attention by taken the dictionary off my hand and i give it to her, and take another, and she also takes that also from me, and give her, then i told her that i was waiting to talk with her but she was busy talking with another person at the door, and she reply me and ask are you serious? i said yes that is why i came to call you in the cafeteria, so she get get more angry more than i myself,

She then wrote a little note to give me that she told me in the first that she dont want, but i refused the note, while we are going home i try to talk to her, but she refuse, and i am really bothered, please i need you opinion thanks
Sounds like its a case of "May the Best Man win"? She`s enjoying having the two of you trying to court her...... and waiting to see which of you is more persistent. Slog him in the guts next time, and take the girl away!grin
Oct 8, 2009 6:47 PM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
smoky: Sounds like its a case of "May the Best Man win"? She`s enjoying having the two of you trying to court her...... and waiting to see which of you is more persistent. Slog him in the guts next time, and take the girl away!


Do like smoky says, then take her to dinner (not a greasy spoon job), a bottle or three of Sarko's finest..and if you get the chance give her one for Ulster...
Oct 9, 2009 10:38 AM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
macdone
macdonemacdoneherzele, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium2 Threads 14 Posts
Phoenix: Do like smoky says, then take her to dinner (not a greasy spoon job), a bottle or three of Sarko's finest..and if you get the chance give her one for Ulster...

thank you so much, i will make an appointment with her if she will turn on, i pray so
Oct 9, 2009 10:50 AM CST If you were in a situation like this what would you do?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
macdone: thank you so much, i will make an appointment with her if she will turn on, i pray so


No you have to turn her on...basically stimulate the grey matter between her ears.
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