Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear......... (22)

Feb 9, 2010 12:24 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Steevyv
SteevyvSteevyvsisak, Central Croatia Croatia65 Threads 805 Posts
I am one of them and when I noticed that I asked them:
- Why? -
All of them told me the same:
- Because threads are childish, I am adult and I cant see any purpose for being there. Even, I don't like to read stupid, childish stories from old persons.-
And my true is: they have right.
I can read here that some persons in my age still think and act as when they did when they were 16 !
Old ladies are acting like that they are still fathers princess; old guys are acting like that they are still lions.
Why ?
Can't we be what we are ?
Can't we respect each other the way we are in real life?
Do we all have to act that we are something what we are not to deserve the respect from the others that are also acting that they are something what they are not trying to attract ours respect for this what they are not!!!???

confused
Feb 9, 2010 12:52 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Steevyv: I am one of them and when I noticed that I asked them:
- Why? -
All of them told me the same:
- Because threads are childish, I am adult and I cant see any purpose for being there. Even, I don't like to read stupid, childish stories from old persons.-
And my true is: they have right.
I can read here that some persons in my age still think and act as when they did when they were 16 !
Old ladies are acting like that they are still fathers princess; old guys are acting like that they are still lions.
Why ?
Can't we be what we are ?
Can't we respect each other the way we are in real life?
Do we all have to act that we are something what we are not to deserve the respect from the others that are also acting that they are something what they are not trying to attract ours respect for this what they are not!!!???

I am being who I am and so what if I am still a child at heart.

I would rather be who I am than someone prentious or trying to be someone I am not.

Each to their own, I guess.

dunno
Feb 9, 2010 12:59 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
Englishman55: I am being who I am and so what if I am still a child at heart.

I would rather be who I am than someone prentious or trying to be someone I am not.

Each to their own, I guess.


thumbs up
Feb 9, 2010 1:00 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Englishman55: I am being who I am and so what if I am still a child at heart.

I would rather be who I am than someone prentious or trying to be someone I am not.

Each to their own, I guess.


and i for one like you just the way you are...hug




















specialy in your 'back'pic..wow
Feb 9, 2010 1:44 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Are you OK today?

Lots of people leave site for lots of reasons.













Maybe they have more social life that rest of us crying





I do miss lots of friends that i met and are gone sad flower
Feb 9, 2010 1:53 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
tomboygirl: and i for one like you just the way you are... specialy in your 'back'pic..

Anyone for a "piggy-back" ? wink
Feb 9, 2010 2:07 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Steevyv: I am one of them and when I noticed that I asked them:
- Why? -
...
Do we all have to act that we are something what we are not to deserve the respect from the others that are also acting that they are something what they are not trying to attract ours respect for this what they are not!!!???


Have I understood right that you are accusing this forum in lack of respect to certain participants? And that because of lack of respect they have left?

But if you keep in touch with them privately and have possibility to discuss our childish behavior, so you haven’t lost anything. What then is the grief?

By the way, if I (regardless of the intention) would manage to attract your respect… What am I supposed to do with it?

grin
Feb 9, 2010 3:02 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
Tulefel: Have I understood right that you are accusing this forum in lack of respect to certain participants? And that because of lack of respect they have left?

But if you keep in touch with them privately and have possibility to discuss our childish behavior, so you haven’t lost anything. What then is the grief?

By the way, if I (regardless of the intention) would manage to attract your respect… What am I supposed to do with it?


There are many reasons why people leave and disappear, the most common is that they lose interest.
The second is that they would have hooked with somebody through CS or otherwise
Thirdly they would have discovered like I did the number of false profiles that there are on CS
Fourth they would also have had enough of some banal threads or comments by individuals who disrupt some good threads and stifle them and bring them to an end.

Problem is that some of the people I like to see go, remain, and others that I enjoy exchanging comments in the forum go!
But then what would you expect from a topsy turvy world like this?

Regarding the question about you attracting anybody's respect, you have to do nothing with it, but after having asked that question, I would'nt worry too much about it. It is the other person that has to hold you in high esteem!!!!
Feb 9, 2010 3:08 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
donamontana
donamontanadonamontanaDenia, Valencia Spain2 Threads 49 Posts
I come and go because I do have a life.

I write as I feel young or old. Mostly I feel young but I have years of experience in life so sometimes write from that point.

This is, I think a fun place. Don't take it all so serious.



wave hug
Feb 10, 2010 11:03 AM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
donamontana: I come and go because I do have a life.

I write as I feel young or old. Mostly I feel young but I have years of experience in life so sometimes write from that point.

This is, I think a fun place. Don't take it all so serious.
thumbs up Ja exactly!

I AM old .... and I am also still, inside my head, 20 years old .. or maybe by now about 30 ...... still the same person ... still learning, still living, still making mistakes ..... hundreds of mistakes ... there are just SO many new mistakes to make!

... And I stay here because of all the nice people on this site.

Sure, there are time wasters .... a few scammers ..... but mostly genuine nice people.cheers and this is a good way to stay in contact.

When I go to Malta one of these days, I still hope to have a great party with the Maltese members!.. and get to meet them, the old and the new.
Feb 10, 2010 12:19 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Yep,Bush cracking,Man gone!rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 10, 2010 12:38 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
dvx_76
dvx_76dvx_76mosta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 433 Posts
Will be there since I'm one of the new ones peace

And regarding age and bla bla bla, I suffer from Peter Pans syndrome laugh
Feb 10, 2010 1:21 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
dvx_76: Will be there since I'm one of the new ones

And regarding age and bla bla bla, I suffer from Peter Pans syndrome
Best sydrome to suffer from!

Once, long long ago ..... I saw this really old lady ... still with a slim figure, dressed in shorts and halter top, weeding her garden ... all tanned, with long hair hanging down her back ......... and my Mom told me she`s 75years old ....!!!!!... and everyone in the street said she "should" dress and "act" her age. I thought she was absolutely effing marvelous!!!!!

I thought to myself ... WOW ... when I`M 75 I really hope to be like HER!drinking batting crazy
Feb 10, 2010 1:45 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
dvx_76
dvx_76dvx_76mosta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 433 Posts
That's the way. Why should I at 75 years old not enjoy life if I'm in good health. Regarding this site I still log in for the simple reaoson that girls and guys over here are fun, I already met some interesting people and forums are interesting and posts are done from great people all over the planet which does not also gives different point of views but also hopefully will make meet a natural redhead with some nice tattoos on which loves rock music head banger (the last part was quite an advert i know grin )
Feb 10, 2010 5:43 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
antcus: There are many reasons why people leave and disappear, the most common is that they lose interest.
The second is that they would have hooked with somebody through CS or otherwise
Thirdly they would have discovered like I did the number of false profiles that there are on CS
Fourth they would also have had enough of some banal threads or comments by individuals who disrupt some good threads and stifle them and bring them to an end.

Problem is that some of the people I like to see go, remain, and others that I enjoy exchanging comments in the forum go!
But then what would you expect from a topsy turvy world like this?

Regarding the question about you attracting anybody's respect, you have to do nothing with it, but after having asked that question, I would'nt worry too much about it. It is the other person that has to hold you in high esteem!!!!


thumbs up

I would add another reason, and that´s that some people have jobs and a social life outside CS, so may disappear for long periods, or pop in and out.

I´ve always been a little wary of people who seem to be here 24/7.
Feb 11, 2010 2:45 AM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
Some seem to get disappeared in some ways or others!uh oh
Feb 11, 2010 8:45 AM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
JAN_is: I would add another reason, and that´s that some people have jobs and a social life outside CS, so may disappear for long periods, or pop in and out.

I´ve always been a little wary of people who seem to be here 24/7.
How so?dunno confused
Feb 13, 2010 2:58 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Bump
Feb 13, 2010 3:00 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
bodleing: Bump


Boddy stop horsing around will you

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 13, 2010 3:02 PM CST Why so lot of people come here, spent some time and than - disapear.........
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
gussi: Boddy stop horsing around will you


Just trying to clearr out the trash my friend.

Care to help?


grin


dancing dog


cheers
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