How many times (14)

Feb 24, 2010 1:20 PM CST How many times
What do you think of this one.

If you met somebody and feel an instant connection with. He is single and so are you. Broke up with his ex 18 months ago. He still helps her financially. She is told about his new gf and she comes to his door and she wants him back. this is 4 months into the relationship. He takes her back and walks away from current gf.

he changes his mind and is not happy with being back with ex. Back to new gf. The prob is she will not leave him alone and does so much to mess up his relationship. She has no money and needs him to fix it for her.

How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?
Feb 24, 2010 2:11 PM CST How many times
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
josingleinspain: What do you think of this one.

If you met somebody and feel an instant connection with. He is single and so are you. Broke up with his ex 18 months ago. He still helps her financially. She is told about his new gf and she comes to his door and she wants him back. this is 4 months into the relationship. He takes her back and walks away from current gf.

he changes his mind and is not happy with being back with ex. Back to new gf. The prob is she will not leave him alone and does so much to mess up his relationship. She has no money and needs him to fix it for her.

How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?


easy, maybe once max. no more he/she does it once they will invariably do it over and over. everyone deserves a second chance but no more.



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Feb 24, 2010 6:28 PM CST How many times
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
josingleinspain: What do you think of this one.

If you met somebody and feel an instant connection with. He is single and so are you. Broke up with his ex 18 months ago. He still helps her financially. She is told about his new gf and she comes to his door and she wants him back. this is 4 months into the relationship. He takes her back and walks away from current gf.

he changes his mind and is not happy with being back with ex. Back to new gf. The prob is she will not leave him alone and does so much to mess up his relationship. She has no money and needs him to fix it for her.

How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?


Once is one time too many..........she will come back time and time again
Personally, I wouldnt have taken him back after he left
Feb 25, 2010 1:14 AM CST How many times
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
yes 5 times is definitely too much.

the message to this couple is hurt me over and over and its ok.

is it?

if a relationship is solid,and likely to work long term-you find a way to shut out repeated interference like this.
Feb 25, 2010 2:25 PM CST How many times
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
For me the first time he left me for his ex, or for some other woman (or man, this day and age…), would be enough to learn my lesson… But people have different level of tolerance and threshold of pain.

So my answer: How many times it feels comfortable for you.
Feb 26, 2010 2:12 AM CST How many times
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
josingleinspain: What do you think of this one.

If you met somebody and feel an instant connection with. He is single and so are you. Broke up with his ex 18 months ago. He still helps her financially. She is told about his new gf and she comes to his door and she wants him back. this is 4 months into the relationship. He takes her back and walks away from current gf.

he changes his mind and is not happy with being back with ex. Back to new gf. The prob is she will not leave him alone and does so much to mess up his relationship. She has no money and needs him to fix it for her.

How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?


Straight up....If I loved the person and I believed they loved me, I'd try to give the person as much time as they need..
Feb 26, 2010 2:54 AM CST How many times
twinself
twinselftwinself..., Majjistral Malta36 Threads 1,347 Posts
josingleinspain: What do you think of this one.

If you met somebody and feel an instant connection with. He is single and so are you. Broke up with his ex 18 months ago. He still helps her financially. She is told about his new gf and she comes to his door and she wants him back. this is 4 months into the relationship. He takes her back and walks away from current gf.

he changes his mind and is not happy with being back with ex. Back to new gf. The prob is she will not leave him alone and does so much to mess up his relationship. She has no money and needs him to fix it for her.

How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?


One time. After that he needs to get his act together. Three's a crowd.conversing
Feb 26, 2010 3:05 AM CST How many times
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
twinself: One time. After that he needs to get his act together. Three's a crowd.


Darn right... once is enough, then you move on thumbs up
Feb 26, 2010 3:49 AM CST How many times
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
twinself: One time. After that he needs to get his act together. Three's a crowd.


No that's called fun....devil
Feb 26, 2010 3:51 AM CST How many times
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
Lillym: Darn right... once is enough, then you move on


You're all heart...
Feb 26, 2010 4:00 AM CST How many times
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Phoenix: You're all heart...


I know...grin
Feb 26, 2010 7:00 AM CST How many times
MARTI
MARTIMARTImsida, Majjistral Malta44 Threads 2,726 Posts
Lillym: I know...


Once is more than enough...

Hey Lillym hows it going?wine
Feb 26, 2010 7:21 AM CST How many times
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
MARTI: Once is more than enough...

Hey Lillym hows it going?


Hey Marti...long time no see wave
Mar 1, 2010 3:56 PM CST How many times
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
josingleinspain: What do you think of this one.



How many time will you take this man back and forgive him? Is 5 times to many times.?


Even once is too many times!doh
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