How long......... (30)
First I thought that it’s “Does size matter” thread…
From my point of view, every relationship, long-distance and other kinds, has got to last as long as it suits all the involved. When one thinks that it’s not funny anymore, there’s no point to continue.
From my point of view, every relationship, long-distance and other kinds, has got to last as long as it suits all the involved. When one thinks that it’s not funny anymore, there’s no point to continue.
Tulefel: First I thought that it’s “Does size matter” thread…
From my point of view, every relationship, long-distance and other kinds, has got to last as long as it suits all the involved. When one thinks that it’s not funny anymore, there’s no point to continue.
From my point of view, every relationship, long-distance and other kinds, has got to last as long as it suits all the involved. When one thinks that it’s not funny anymore, there’s no point to continue.
Have to agree with Tulefel, if it suits you both then it doesn't matter if you see each other once a month or once a week.
I have a friend who only spent 2 weeks a year with her partner for over 10 years. It suited them both. When one of them decided that they weren't happy with it anymore they called it a day.
Don't make a decision based on what others say is right, base it on what you feel is right.
Good luck x
kinseycy: Have to agree with Tulefel, if it suits you both then it doesn't matter if you see each other once a month or once a week.
I have a friend who only spent 2 weeks a year with her partner for over 10 years. It suited them both. When one of them decided that they weren't happy with it anymore they called it a day.
Don't make a decision based on what others say is right, base it on what you feel is right.
Good luck x
I have a friend who only spent 2 weeks a year with her partner for over 10 years. It suited them both. When one of them decided that they weren't happy with it anymore they called it a day.
Don't make a decision based on what others say is right, base it on what you feel is right.
Good luck x
In response to: Hi yes its me again..............
How much time do one invest in a long distant relationship. If one sees this person only once or twice a month. Talk a lot on skype but not much one on one time. This person has not made much of a commitment in anyway. Why is it so hard for some to commit.
How much time do one invest in a long distant relationship. If one sees this person only once or twice a month. Talk a lot on skype but not much one on one time. This person has not made much of a commitment in anyway. Why is it so hard for some to commit.
I agree with those above. If your comfortable with the arrangement fine, i take it your not so set a level and use the female intuition still not happy call it a day before it goes too long,compromise and before either one or both get emotionally hurt.
If you are in a long distance relationship, it is said that you are in love with the 'idea' of the person, not the person.
Perhaps you are 'in love' with the idea of being in love?
And why 'commit' when you get the good stuff without commiting?
Rachel
Perhaps you are 'in love' with the idea of being in love?
And why 'commit' when you get the good stuff without commiting?
Rachel
thanx for the comments and i think i am lost to the world of dating or relationships as i seem to get it all wrong. Maybe I should become a nun............
Tulefel: First I thought that it’s “Does size matter” thread…
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Yes it does..'short and thick does the trick...long and thin goes too far in'............
josingleinspain: Hi yes its me again..............
How much time do one invest in a long distant relationship. If one sees this person only once or twice a month. Talk a lot on skype but not much one on one time. This person has not made much of a commitment in anyway. Why is it so hard for some to commit.
How much time do one invest in a long distant relationship. If one sees this person only once or twice a month. Talk a lot on skype but not much one on one time. This person has not made much of a commitment in anyway. Why is it so hard for some to commit.
Flew back to the UK 3 times last year and once to Poland to meet.
Had made plans to relocate, having made the decision to spend less time with my children for the love of a special person.
Not an easy decision to make at all.
I made all the commitment....... so why is it that others/women are not satisfied with you making that commitment. ?
WTF
Phoenix: Yes it does..'short and thick does the trick...long and thin goes too far in'............
Amazing knowledge…
How about short and thin?
Tulefel: Amazing knowledge… How about short and thin?
Phoenix Rising.....
Englishman55: Flew back to the UK 3 times last year and once to Poland to meet.
Had made plans to relocate, having made the decision to spend less time with my children for the love of a special person.
Not an easy decision to make at all.
I made all the commitment....... so why is it that others/women are not satisfied with you making that commitment. ?
WTF
Had made plans to relocate, having made the decision to spend less time with my children for the love of a special person.
Not an easy decision to make at all.
I made all the commitment....... so why is it that others/women are not satisfied with you making that commitment. ?
WTF
I’m confused…
Does it mean that you’ve met that special person and are about to relocate? Or, judging by “WTF” expression, you are discontent with that?Shall one congratulate you
or comfort
?illu_66: Phoenix Rising.....
Good
Why is it so hard for some to commit.
It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
Tulefel: Why is it so hard for some to commit.
It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
The thing is this person is just an hour drive frome where i am. So he would still be in the same country. Just don't really bother to spend much time with me. Anyway have deceide it will never go anywhere with him so I called it a day.It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
josingleinspain: The thing is this person is just an hour drive frome where i am. So he would still be in the same country. Just don't really bother to spend much time with me. Anyway have deceide it will never go anywhere with him so I called it a day.
Then he has NO excuse and is either NOT telling you the WHOLE story or no tthe guy for you 1 hour's drive is not enough justification!
Sorry hon
Tulefel: Why is it so hard for some to commit.
It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
It’s hard to commit when people don’t want to commit. And frankly, I think that being on an international dating site is a sign that you are not looking for commitment in the first place. For fun, for experience, for spending time in an odd company, for therapy, for attention, for everything else but. Exception: you are willing to relocate. Then yes, that would be about commitment.
And for the second, you can’t demand anything from other people if they don’t want give it to you of their free will. If one doesn’t want to commit, the other has no right to insist.
I love lots of your posts and you speak so much sense, but I cannot agree with this forst para.
For me it is a sign that I am totally CRAP at the whole 'bar scene' thing that is the staple option here in Spain. But commitment? If I 'felt' it, I'd do whatever I could to make it work. I'd even consider relocation, even though that's a serious difficulty for me and for many others. But for 'her'. I'd find a way to make it work.
josingleinspain: The thing is this person is just an hour drive frome where i am. So he would still be in the same country. Just don't really bother to spend much time with me. Anyway have deceide it will never go anywhere with him so I called it a day.
Well… from your first post I’ve understood that it’s about a long-distance relationship. But it turned to be about lack of interest from your acquaintance. Good that it didn’t make any negative impact on you. Good luck in the future!
illu_66: Then he has NO excuse and is either NOT telling you the WHOLE story or no tthe guy for you 1 hour's drive is not enough justification!
Sorry hon
O well it has been over for more then a month now and the thing is I new i was just wasting time but i am the sort of person that will ask for advice to make sure. Besides if he could not deceide after 8 months then and then asked for 1 more moth to think about it i guess i am the fool..............O well as they say s--t happens. Sorry hon
Tulefel: Well… from your first post I’ve understood that it’s about a long-distance relationship. But it turned to be about lack of interest from your acquaintance. Good that it didn’t make any negative impact on you. Good luck in the future!
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