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For me it is a sign that I am totally CRAP at the whole 'bar scene' thing that is the staple option here in Spain. But commitment? If I 'felt' it, I'd do whatever I could to make it work. I'd even consider relocation, even though that's a serious difficulty for me and for many others. But for 'her'. I'd find a way to make it work.
It’s completely fine not to agree with me: I’ve never claimed to be a prophet (and, please don’t tell anyone, but I do write a lot of rubbish…)
As to International dating site, commitment and relocation… of course, people have different views on the subject and I don’t want to question anyone’s ability to commit, but what I have noticed: “Happy end” stories across borders – when the two have found each other – often have some features in common:
It’s either a language in common, and a lot of cultural/educational/financial background as well (which means that those who moved have good chances to get a job at once or have enough money to spend some time without job)…
Or the partner comes from poorer circumstances and relocates to richer ones when the “recipient” can support her/him during some time.
And one doesn’t have to look after commitment in local pubs, it’s also possible with a local dating site. I mean, it’s more realistic after all, isn’t it?