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Aug 20, 2010 3:03 PM CST Not so long................
ago somebody started a thread about will u date a smoker. I would like to know will you be with a heavy drinker ?????????????????
Aug 20, 2010 3:05 PM CST Not so long................
Mazza1970
Mazza1970Mazza1970Lemesos, Limassol Cyprus1 Threads 626 Posts
josingleinspain: ago somebody started a thread about will u date a smoker. I would like to know will you be with a heavy drinker ?????????????????


if they are buying the booze of course drinking
Aug 20, 2010 3:36 PM CST Not so long................
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
josingleinspain: ago somebody started a thread about will u date a smoker. I would like to know will you be with a heavy drinker ?????????????????


No i would not waste my life spending it with a man that loves the booze,i recently finished a relationship for that very reason..
Aug 20, 2010 3:40 PM CST Not so long................
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
Josi...Whats a heavy drinker??? I can drink loads but don't consider my self to be heavy drinker..Are you talking about the effect it has on people (drinking loads) or just drinking loads..
Aug 20, 2010 4:27 PM CST Not so long................
scottyburd: No i would not waste my life spending it with a man that loves the booze,i recently finished a relationship for that very reason..
Yes that is how i feel it will always be a waste of time. Most of the time they can't go through a day without drinking themselve into idiot status. How long were you with this person scottyburd.
Aug 20, 2010 4:33 PM CST Not so long................
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
I once had a relationship with a lady who liked her wine .. during the day she was the nicest person ever .. but after she sank her four daily bottles of plonk she totally changed .. it was tough but I had to realise she was never going to stop for anything blues
Aug 20, 2010 4:41 PM CST Not so long................
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
josingleinspain: Yes that is how i feel it will always be a waste of time. Most of the time they can't go through a day without drinking themselve into idiot status. How long were you with this person scottyburd.


We were dating for about five months,i gave him many chances as he is a lovely guy (different with the booze)any feelings i had for him vanished,i will not get into a full blown relationship with any man that drinks to excess..
Aug 20, 2010 4:42 PM CST Not so long................
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
josingleinspain: I would like to know will you be with a heavy drinker ?


To me "heavy drinker" = Need drinking +2 glass of whatever every day.

Answer is no. I would not.
Aug 20, 2010 5:24 PM CST Not so long................
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
mike69spain: To me "heavy drinker" = Need drinking +2 glass of whatever every day.

Answer is no. I would not.


Then that rules me out of the heavy drinker equation..I don't need to drink..but trust me folks I can drink...wine
Aug 20, 2010 6:15 PM CST Not so long................
rytcharlie: I once had a relationship with a lady who liked her wine .. during the day she was the nicest person ever .. but after she sank her four daily bottles of plonk she totally changed .. it was tough but I had to realise she was never going to stop for anything
The thing is that if they need more then a glass a day they are not in a good place. It is so very distructive to every body around them.
Aug 20, 2010 6:20 PM CST Not so long................
rytcharlie
rytcharlierytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy34 Threads 2 Polls 1,412 Posts
josingleinspain: The thing is that if they need more then a glass a day they are not in a good place. It is so very distructive to every body around them.


yeah I think you're right .. I stuck around for a couple of months thinking what we had could change her - and all the time she didnt even see she was a drunk dunno
Aug 20, 2010 6:22 PM CST Not so long................
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
I've just understood this thread ( I'm irish...whats your excuse)..

Ok..People who dring to excess..and then ruin a good night for everyone..

They need to detox..if they are nice people when sober...Keep them sober..And educate them to what a few beers do to them as a person (video them with your mobile phone...)

What you are talking about Josi (correct me) is an illness...And who ever has the problem needs help...
Aug 20, 2010 6:31 PM CST Not so long................
Phoenix: I've just understood this thread ( I'm irish...whats your excuse)..

Ok..People who dring to excess..and then ruin a good night for everyone..

They need to detox..if they are nice people when sober...Keep them sober..And educate them to what a few beers do to them as a person (video them with your mobile phone...)

What you are talking about Josi (correct me) is an illness...And who ever has the problem needs help...
Sure they need help but nobody on this planet would be able to help a person that will not see the picture.They can not be helped if they do not want admit to it. I was a councelor in South Africa and i know it is not easy to admit but the thing is they can only help them self
Aug 20, 2010 7:37 PM CST Not so long................
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
scottyburd: We were dating for about five months,i gave him many chances as he is a lovely guy (different with the booze)any feelings i had for him vanished,i will not get into any full blown relationship with any man that drinks to excess..



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Aug 20, 2010 7:52 PM CST Not so long................
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
josingleinspain: ago somebody started a thread about will u date a smoker. I would like to know will you be with a heavy drinker ?????????????????


NO I finished dating one recently for that very reason-and he was lovely without the booze,very funny,very sweet,and very attentive-but...its not much fun hanging around with someone who can't remember conversations,and when in his cups is scarily out of control..

come on josie,you can do better..
Aug 21, 2010 5:14 AM CST Not so long................
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
No never again. Two of my ex's were/are big drinkers and it ruins a relationship right off the bat!! Trust me, don't do it!!
Aug 21, 2010 5:46 AM CST Not so long................
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
Personally it's not the amount people drink..It's the effect it has on some people...

Basically one is too many (for some) and 10 isn't enough...

What is a big drinker..Is that like a big eater???
Aug 21, 2010 5:59 AM CST Not so long................
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Phoenix: Personally it's not the amount people drink..It's the effect it has on some people...

Basically one is too many (for some) and 10 isn't enough...

What is a big drinker..Is that like a big eater???


I agree Phoenix,some real nice folks aorund that turn into paranoid monsters after drinking alcohol,i like a drink myself but i know when ive had enough and can stop..handshake
Aug 21, 2010 6:14 AM CST Not so long................
tomboygirl: NO I finished dating one recently for that very reason-and he was lovely without the booze,very funny,very sweet,and very attentive-but...its not much fun hanging around with someone who can't remember conversations,and when in his cups is scarily out of control..

come on josie,you can do better..
Hi thanx for that.....yes i will not go there as it is not worth the waste of time. I just enjoy reading what everybody feels about it. It is a subject that has a lot to say about.
Aug 21, 2010 6:37 AM CST Not so long................
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
Phoenix: Personally it's not the amount people drink..It's the effect it has on some people...

Basically one is too many (for some) and 10 isn't enough...

What is a big drinker..Is that like a big eater???


It's obvious what it is. Someone who drinks too much. If you can drink 15 pints of beer and say you haven't had enough then you have a big problem end of story! The women I mentioned simply drank till they were really drunk and then got abusive, and it took quite a few drinks to get them that way too.
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