Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS .... (139)

Sep 4, 2010 11:12 PM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Maria1
Maria1Maria1Bucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Threads 182 Posts
What to do ... help

I am totally blown away ..... in love .... blushing
Sep 4, 2010 11:23 PM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Maria1
Maria1Maria1Bucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Threads 182 Posts
Meaning ... Shall i go for it and not think of tomorow .... OR .... take it slow and maybe lose " the moment " ?? frustrated
Sep 5, 2010 12:48 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Maria1: Meaning ... Shall i go for it and not think of tomorow .... OR .... take it slow and maybe lose " the moment " ??


You will never know how he will react if he never knows you are interested, so OPEN THE DOOR !head banger
Sep 5, 2010 1:13 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Maria1: What to do ...

I am totally blown away ..... in love ....


Wish I knew the answer to your question confused , hate to admit this, but Im in the same predicament, so when you have the answer, maybe you can share it with me hug kiss
Sep 5, 2010 4:48 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Wish I knew the answer to your question , hate to admit this, but Im in the same predicament, so when you have the answer, maybe you can share it with me


Lucky guy!! Good luck hun. cheers
Sep 5, 2010 4:50 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
Why don't you both PM the people who interest you and say 'Hi'..simple as that...
Sep 5, 2010 4:53 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
taff1: Lucky guy!! Good luck hun.


Taff1 that was a joke.............blues uh oh wow the only person I have a crush on right now is "Me,Myself & I. We spend so much time together, I may be tempted to marry me.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 5, 2010 4:54 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Taff1 that was a joke............. the only person I have a crush on right now is "Me,Myself & I. We spend so much time together, I may be tempted to marry me.......


Lucky girl, good luck hun. laugh laugh hug
Sep 5, 2010 6:07 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Maria1: What to do ...

I am totally blown away ..... in love ....


There is a true story about two friends who had an strong disagreement about something which made them not speak to each other.
One day somebody wrote a letter to the editor of the local newspaper about something else going on that they didn't like.

Somebody else responding with their viewpoint on the problem.
This started a chain of back and forth letters that lasted years in the newspaper up until the time when one of writers died.

The editor of the paper then published the obituary and revealed the person as the original letter writer who started the locally famous chain letter which everyone knew was going on but no one knew who the two writers were.

The other writer of the "letters" saw this and wrote the final letter to the newspaper saying how they would miss the friendship they created over the years and really how stupid the both of them were at the same time.
It turned out they were the two friends who stopped talking to one another so many years ago and lost each other and went through their lives not knowing the companionship they could have had.

If there is a moral here it is to say something instead of living alone with your feelings. The worst possible thing that could happen is they say "No" and you grieve a little bit and get over it and look for someone else which they will come along.
To not say anything would be just like depriving yourself of the friendship that was lost between the two angry friends because you did not say anything and they felt the same about you.
Sep 5, 2010 6:15 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Medsummer: There is a true story about two friends who had an strong disagreement about something which made them not speak to each other.
One day somebody wrote a letter to the editor of the local newspaper about something else going on that they didn't like.

Somebody else responding with their viewpoint on the problem.
This started a chain of back and forth letters that lasted years in the newspaper up until the time when one of writers died.

The editor of the paper then published the obituary and revealed the person as the original letter writer who started the locally famous chain letter which everyone knew was going on but no one knew who the two writers were.

The other writer of the "letters" saw this and wrote the final letter to the newspaper saying how they would miss the friendship they created over the years and really how stupid the both of them were at the same time.
It turned out they were the two friends who stopped talking to one another so many years ago and lost each other and went through their lives not knowing the companionship they could have had.

If there is a moral here it is to say something instead of living alone with your feelings. The worst possible thing that could happen is they say "No" and you grieve a little bit and get over it and look for someone else which they will come along.
To not say anything would be just like depriving yourself of the friendship that was lost between the two angry friends because you did not say anything and they felt the same about you.


Couldn't have said it better myself thumbs up thumbs up
Sep 5, 2010 6:19 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
Medsummer: There is a true story about two friends who had an strong disagreement about something which made them not speak to each other.
One day somebody wrote a letter to the editor of the local newspaper about something else going on that they didn't like.

Somebody else responding with their viewpoint on the problem.
This started a chain of back and forth letters that lasted years in the newspaper up until the time when one of writers died.

The editor of the paper then published the obituary and revealed the person as the original letter writer who started the locally famous chain letter which everyone knew was going on but no one knew who the two writers were.

The other writer of the "letters" saw this and wrote the final letter to the newspaper saying how they would miss the friendship they created over the years and really how stupid the both of them were at the same time.
It turned out they were the two friends who stopped talking to one another so many years ago and lost each other and went through their lives not knowing the companionship they could have had.

If there is a moral here it is to say something instead of living alone with your feelings. The worst possible thing that could happen is they say "No" and you grieve a little bit and get over it and look for someone else which they will come along.
To not say anything would be just like depriving yourself of the friendship that was lost between the two angry friends because you did not say anything and they felt the same about you
.





thumbs up
Sep 5, 2010 6:29 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Couldn't have said it better myself


I'm sure there is something just as good, if not better inside your mind...
Sep 5, 2010 6:31 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Maria1
Maria1Maria1Bucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Threads 182 Posts
Thanks you all handshake but is not like this ... wink
Is more like ... He knows ... and he wanna come, meet me ...actually very soon and ... i am just terrified of this confused
Sep 5, 2010 6:32 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Medsummer: I'm sure there is something just as good, if not better inside your mind...


Ahhhh flattery will get you everywhereblushing or so I've been told promise...........conversing
Sep 5, 2010 6:33 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Maria1: Thanks you all but is not like this ...
Is more like ... He knows ... and he wanna come, meet me ...actually very soon and ... i am just terrified of this



Oh...what are you terrified of exactly because I got it all wrong!
Sep 5, 2010 6:36 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Maria1
Maria1Maria1Bucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Threads 182 Posts
Medsummer: Oh...what are you terrified of exactly because I got it all wrong!


Truth is i never felt so crazy about a man in my life .... and now... he lives so far away and if let's say i tell him ok, come...and all goes great ...... then it starts all the distance problem ...and i am a jealous type doh grin ..... i feel like i better quit before i give any chance to this uh oh

I don't know ...
Sep 5, 2010 6:37 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Maria1: Thanks you all but is not like this ...
Is more like ... He knows ... and he wanna come, meet me ...actually very soon and ... i am just terrified of this


Ok so lets start at the very beginning: You have a huge crush on someone that is also a member of CS? tick grin
You & him have been in contact, either by emails, msn, skype etc etc ticksmitten
Now he wants to come and meet you, and you not sure if you want to meet him, or you scared that this attraction you have for each other will be different once you meet?confused
Maybe if you can clarify your question, we will be able to give you our thoughts and opinions, but I have to say, most of us generally have a gut feel about the person and the circumstances. If anything its a wonderful opportunity for you to get to meet him face to face, to see if it is worth pursuing?

hug
Sep 5, 2010 6:39 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Maria1
Maria1Maria1Bucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Threads 182 Posts
Prettyuptowngirl: Ok so lets start at the very beginning: You have a huge crush on someone that is also a member of CS? tick
You & him have been in contact, either by emails, msn, skype etc etc tick
Now he wants to come and meet you, and you not sure if you want to meet him, or you scared that this attraction you have for each other will be different once you meet?
Maybe if you can clarify your question, we will be able to give you our thoughts and opinions, but I have to say, most of us generally have a gut feel about the person and the circumstances. If anything its a wonderful opportunity for you to get to meet him face to face, to see if it is worth pursuing?


What if i'll fell even deeper ( when we meet ) and he wont ... ?
Sep 5, 2010 6:42 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
Maria1: Truth is i never felt so crazy about a man in my life .... and now... he lives so far away and if let's say i tell him ok, come...and all goes great ...... then it starts all the distance problem ...and i am a jealous type ..... i feel like i better quit before i give any chance to this

I don't know ...



QUIT!
so what happens when your laying there dying and looking back at your life and you never took this chance to find happiness?
Dam it maria - if you never take the chance you will never know...
Sep 5, 2010 6:45 AM CST Have a HUGE CRUSH on someone here in CS ....
Prettyuptowngirl
PrettyuptowngirlPrettyuptowngirlBryanston, Gauteng South Africa228 Posts
Maria1: What if i'll fell even deeper ( when we meet ) and he wont ... ?


Unfortunately there are no guarantees in life. Life is about taking risk and sometimes falling in love, with someone that will either reciprocate this love or not. Its about living and being alive.
How can you guarantee that it will not be the other way around?comfort Believe and go with an open heart and mind, and without expectations. So often we are so busy planning our lives, that we dont see what is in front of us.smitten love
Enjoy the moment and stop pre-ampting what will be or not.

Good luck
hug bouquet
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