True love never really dies. (14)

Dec 4, 2011 3:01 PM CST True love never really dies.
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I posted this thread over on the Inters but there are still a couple of old time friends here from way back so here it is again.


As some of you know I was celebrating the marriage of my son and his beautiful now wife just last week in Barbados. The wedding on the beach was wonderful, and Barbados simply Paradise. However, another totally unexpected romance evolved during my 2 weeks there....that of my ex husband and I.

We fell in love all over again, though he apparently has never felt able to move on completely since we separated, and has never stopped loving me. It was a bolt from the blue for me, and I realised that I too still loved him. We had been together for many years as the old-timers here know, and the ten years we´ve been apart have flown over. We´ve both changed in many ways of course, but talking and spending time together just revealed how close, and in love we still are.

Our break up was devastating for both of us, yet not for reasons of infidelity or other serious issues, we simply grew apart and felt we were moving in different directions. That makes it all sound rather a flippant decision to split, but sometimes the horror stories we all read here are not the only reasons why couples break up.

I don´t know if there are folk here who have experienced a similar type of break up, or if there is any chance they will get back together, but it can and does happen, as I can happily testify.

It´s not going to be easy, we´re not fools, but we have, and always have had. something very special and we are going to give it our best shot.

I´m extremely optimistic.

I will be deleting my profile here after I´ve read and responded to any responses I may get, and I truly wish you all the best.
Dec 4, 2011 4:20 PM CST True love never really dies.
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
Dear Jan,

I think this is the nicest thing I have ever read here. Much love and happiness to you both.

Sincerely

hug

Imma
Dec 4, 2011 4:59 PM CST True love never really dies.
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
Go for it if that is what you really think is best.

But do so slowly, surely and with an open mind. And leave your options open.

Wish you both all the very best of everything.
wave cheers
Dec 5, 2011 2:43 AM CST True love never really dies.
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Wow Jan this is wonderful news. I am very happy for you and wish you all the luck in the world.wine hug
Dec 5, 2011 4:02 AM CST True love never really dies.
Maisie
MaisieMaisielarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus4 Threads 616 Posts
Congratulations. Nice to hear some cheerful news on here for a change, hope it all goes well for you.wine
Dec 5, 2011 7:03 AM CST True love never really dies.
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Oh how lovely Jan!rose I wish you both everything of the best for your future. Must be wonderful for your children, to experience this? I believe it is every childs wish, no matter how old they are, to have their parents re-united. Maybe you both just needed this gap to sort-of "re-establish" yourselves?rose rose rose

And HAPPY CHRISTMAS......dancingsanta

And HAPPY NEW YEAR FOR 2012.....bouquet
Dec 6, 2011 11:04 AM CST True love never really dies.
sunneylady
sunneyladysunneyladyusa, Bremen Germany2 Posts
There's no true love in this world anymore.
Dec 6, 2011 11:57 AM CST True love never really dies.
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Wish you everything best Jan :)
Dec 8, 2011 1:54 PM CST True love never really dies.
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Now, now, now, Jan!!

applause applause

True love never really diescheers
Dec 9, 2011 5:12 AM CST True love never really dies.
What a lovely story.
All the talk about moving on with life - will not eradicate love from the heart. You just learn to live differently.
Make the most of your re-awakening.
Dec 17, 2011 4:48 PM CST True love never really dies.
mariah2011
mariah2011mariah2011Geleen, Limburg Netherlands1 Posts
Dear Jan,

First time here and read your story. Inspiring.
Wish you both the best of luck.

God Bless !
Dec 18, 2011 10:58 AM CST True love never really dies.
KemChi
KemChiKemChiKotka, Southern Finland Finland2 Threads 1 Polls 58 Posts
I will love forever my first love...
Dec 26, 2011 3:36 PM CST True love never really dies.
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
Oh Jan, I am so happy for you!!!applause

Good for you to follow your heart. You are a beautiful and intelligent woman who has certainly thought this through.
It's okay to be optimistic.

I wish you and your ex-perhaps to be again hubby, all of the BEST for your future!!!

HLheart wings lips hug teddybear
Dec 31, 2011 11:31 AM CST True love never really dies.
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
I wonder if you will see this Jan but wishing you both and their families much happiness!


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