Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.
originalclass: Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.
It is a bit like that. Also they might get dissapointed, cause there seem to be loads of idiots on these sites that offend women, or just scare them off.
So in general they are almost as human as we are. ;)
We get discouraged by false promisses and lots of fake profiles, often Russian that write tons of standard letters.
originalclass: Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.
Ahh .... that is life! Talk to anyone and get on the subject of "sincerity" and EVERYONE is sincere - or believes they are. They are sincere in their own minds maybe, but not always to other people`s standards - or your own.
You will one day find a girl who matches you. Sometimes it can take a lifetime, so have patience.
You use the word "forge" in a relationship. You cannot "forge" a relationship - it will elude you. You have to "give up" and be happy and content within yourself.
To "forge" something, means what a Blacksmith does when he makes shapes out of metal ..... he heats it to white hot and then hammers it into shape. You don`t want to do that to a potential relationship!
Dec 23, 2012 5:52 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
exanglaisLa Mayenne (53), Pays de la Loire France2 Posts
exanglaisLa Mayenne (53), Pays de la Loire France2 posts
@Smoky
"Forge" has several meanings in English.
1. Create false money, signatures or documents and try and use them to gain something of value that is not yours. 2. Creat something (a horseshoe, for example) made by heating iron and shaping it with a hammer. 3. develop a relationship with someone, often by passing through difficult moments together, until you understand each other.
I think "forge" was being used in it's 3rd possible meaning.
I don't believe in long distance (via the web) relationships at all (it's already hard to meet the perfect match in real life !) but true friendship yes,as i have luckily experienced it several times and we met in person and actually keep in touch regularly as very good friends. It is a fact there are a lot of dreamers and very kind and genuine people, that obviously are the usual preys for scammers and all kind of predators (manipulators etc) .. it is good to be aware and well prepared to send them morons to the dark place they deserve to be ..
Rogerzoekt: It is a bit like that. Also they might get dissapointed, cause there seem to be loads of idiots on these sites that offend women, or just scare them off.
So in general they are almost as human as we are. ;)
We get discouraged by false promisses and lots of fake profiles, often Russian that write tons of standard letters.
As for myself, I seem to lack patience.
Very true for me too! Well said! P.S. I'd very glad if you might post your opinion on French women.
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