Online dating and long distance relationships/venting (10)

Dec 5, 2012 3:33 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
originalclass
originalclassoriginalclassOslo, Norway2 Threads 5 Posts
Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.
Dec 5, 2012 9:56 PM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
originalclass: Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.



thumbs up .....
Dec 10, 2012 10:19 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
Saby557
Saby557Saby557Rotterdam, South Holland Netherlands1 Posts
Woman are great dreamers and believe in there own dreams untill they find something else to keep their minds accupied with :)

I understand you 100%, it`s not easy))
Dec 11, 2012 11:20 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
Hello_Kittykat
Hello_KittykatHello_Kittykatasat, Balochistan Pakistan5 Threads 110 Posts
Saby557: Woman are great dreamers and believe in there own dreams untill they find something else to keep their minds accupied with :)

I understand you 100%, it`s not easy))


Saby , zoek je ruzie of wat?
Dec 12, 2012 5:59 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
It is a bit like that.
Also they might get dissapointed, cause there seem to be loads of idiots on these sites that offend women, or just scare them off.

So in general they are almost as human as we are. ;)

We get discouraged by false promisses and lots of fake profiles, often Russian that write tons of standard letters.

As for myself, I seem to lack patience.

doh
Dec 12, 2012 5:31 PM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
Mickeylishious
MickeylishiousMickeylishiousPalma de Mallorca, Balearic Islands Spain1 Threads 3 Posts
Saby557: Woman are great dreamers and believe in there own dreams untill they find something else to keep their minds accupied with :)

I understand you 100%, it`s not easy))


Amen!
Dec 20, 2012 7:07 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
originalclass: Ive seen countless of women write on their profiles and even on forums about how unserious guys are about relationships in general - however, from my own personal experience evidence suggest otherwise. Every girl ive talked to - regardless of how well we got along - was never close to my level of sincerity in trying to forge a relationship. More often than not she would become inactive after a short period of time, stop logging online etc. entirely. The question isnt whether or not youll find "the one", its a question of your tenacity and your willingness to make sacrifices; I know I am, I just need to find a girl that feels the same way.
Ahh .... that is life! Talk to anyone and get on the subject of "sincerity" and EVERYONE is sincere - or believes they are. They are sincere in their own minds maybe, but not always to other people`s standards - or your own.

You will one day find a girl who matches you. Sometimes it can take a lifetime, so have patience.

You use the word "forge" in a relationship. You cannot "forge" a relationship - it will elude you. You have to "give up" and be happy and content within yourself.

To "forge" something, means what a Blacksmith does when he makes shapes out of metal ..... he heats it to white hot and then hammers it into shape. You don`t want to do that to a potential relationship!hug
Dec 23, 2012 5:52 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
exanglais
exanglaisexanglaisLa Mayenne (53), Pays de la Loire France2 Posts
@Smoky

"Forge" has several meanings in English.

1. Create false money, signatures or documents and try and use them to gain something of value that is not yours.
2. Creat something (a horseshoe, for example) made by heating iron and shaping it with a hammer.
3. develop a relationship with someone, often by passing through difficult moments together, until you understand each other.

I think "forge" was being used in it's 3rd possible meaning.
Feb 22, 2013 9:02 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
Miss_Behavin
Miss_BehavinMiss_BehavinRennes, Bretagne France45 Posts
I don't believe in long distance (via the web) relationships at all (it's already hard to meet the perfect match in real life !) but true friendship yes,as i have luckily experienced it several times and we met in person and actually keep in touch regularly as very good friends.
It is a fact there are a lot of dreamers and very kind and genuine people, that obviously are the usual preys for scammers and all kind of predators (manipulators etc) .. it is good to be aware and well prepared to send them morons to the dark place they deserve to be .. wave cool
Feb 26, 2013 1:14 AM CST Online dating and long distance relationships/venting
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
Rogerzoekt: It is a bit like that.
Also they might get dissapointed, cause there seem to be loads of idiots on these sites that offend women, or just scare them off.

So in general they are almost as human as we are. ;)

We get discouraged by false promisses and lots of fake profiles, often Russian that write tons of standard letters.

As for myself, I seem to lack patience.
Very true for me too! Well said!

P.S. I'd very glad if you might post your opinion on French women.
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