Girls, simply send him "polite"message Many women and men just because they are unhappy and lost using these kind of web sites to see may be the fish will come in basket
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
Hello there, i just wanted to say that everybodys not looking here, there are people like me that simply enjoy chatting with strangers and exchange different point of views about this world we live in. It is generally clearly written on them profiles. My opinion would be not to response to such stupid emails you have received and just block these morons that bring nothing but time and space wasted. My best wishes for happier moments on CS
I dated a man for many years who would activate a his hidden profiles on a few different sites every time we had a disagreement, minor or otherwise. It took a toll, even before I found out - which took a while because I was not trolling the sites until the signs were pretty obvious something was going on. I'm not sure how many women he actually met doing this but I do know there was plenty of corresponding via email, a few actual meets and some phone conversations (including when we were together). I asked him why and he said "because it made him feel better" and proved he was attractive. Sad. Essentially it removed him emotionally from any relationship we might have been able to have. A good indication of a man who is just after a bit on the side and just wants to be unfaithful to his partner usually has a hidden profile. Next time a man (or woman) sends you a message, see if he can be found on a normal search, if not I would say that is a HUGE Red Flag, ask him WHY he has hidden his profile!?
I met my girlfriend on this site, So don't see why i would need to leave now. Afterall this is the main reason why so many people come here. I still enjoy talking to friends i've met here on blogs and forums and me and my girlfriend mail eachother on a almost daily basis on Cs, next to talking and mailing in numerous other ways.. Cs is just part of our relation.
teddybeerke88: I met my girlfriend on this site, So don't see why i would need to leave now. Afterall this is the main reason why so many people come here. I still enjoy talking to friends i've met here on blogs and forums and me and my girlfriend mail eachother on a almost daily basis on Cs, next to talking and mailing in numerous other ways.. Cs is just part of our relation.
I agree with you and with those who just stay here for the forums. But, if someone writes to you that he's just looking for a flirt, I think it's a different story then. Or probably, fidelity is on its way to extinction
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