Yes, think you can love what you are looking at without having lust in your heart. so what is wrong with me loving a woman at first sight because of her attraction to me. to love someone from beging to end is what will be the determinant to the truth of love.
You can't really love someone straight away. You can feel sparks, of course. But real love takes time to grow. That's the difference between infatuation and love...
I don't know if I would call it "Love at First Sight", but I DO believe that it's possible to be completely swept off your feet by someone. For e.g, the first time you meet someone whether it's that first look into their eyes or if you go to give someone a kiss on their cheek when you say hello and smell their perfume/aftershave on their skin, and it sends a shockwave through your body, making every sense tingle.
Well now that's a tough one.At one point of my life I fell in love at first sight.To me she was the most beautiful thing god ever created.I guess she must have felt the same because we just stared at each other and didn't know how to react.So it was an awkward moment,like what do you say to your deamwoman and vice versa.Anyways I started laughing and she joined in.Few words were needed and we kissed passionately 10 minutes later. So I guess it exists. Greetings Pete
I confess that I believe in love at first sight. For me it is when your eyes suddenly fall on someone, a woman in my case, who impersonates in the flesh and in that reality standing right in front of you, all you ever wished for or could have ever asked for....When your heart misses a few beats, and you are frozen stiff, that you could not even reach out to grab her!. When your mind boggles, and when you doubt whether you are awake or dreaming!
I could say that sometimes even by looking at a photo I could get the same sensation, knowing that behind the photo exists the real person.
Of course if this feeling is reciprocated or not, is a different matter. According to Sod's law, in 99.9% of the cases it is not. That is why so many people don't believe in this love at first sight, because it is one sided.
The worst thing that could happen to you is that it happens when you are happily married to another person. But you are not to blame. You did not ask for it to happen. I am still suffering from such withdrawal symptoms that happened years ago.
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