For the Girls !!!... (26)

Jun 16, 2016 2:26 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
jules8428
jules8428jules8428paphos, Paphos Cyprus7 Threads 1 Polls 23 Posts
Just thought I would share my latest experience on here ...
Was having a conversation with a guy on here from Iceland (yeah say no more) lol .. and after the usual first time questions e mails all day on and off on CS ..told me he doesn't play games .. he is older mature man.. photo i googled and apparently genuine .. etc etc .. so trying not to be cynical thinking yeah here we go .. he asked to communicate later in the evening on Skype . "yes" i said no problem .. good idea ..
Saw his request on Skype .. name was as he said .. so far so good ... lol .. as it was late i went to bed and woke up this morning with an e mail from him on CS .. telling me he is sorry for the inconvenience .. he would like to withdraw(no pun intended we haven't even met yet )hahhah.. .. and another load of BS .. to be honest was not really that surprised as its the norm on here.. 99 % fakes .. married .. LIARS ..
So girls as I said earlier if you looking for something serious ..more chance of flying to the moon i believe rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ..
also I think CS should have some way us girls can leave secret comments on guys profiles to be seen by us "ONLY" on here just to help and warn others what do you think ?.....
Jun 16, 2016 8:16 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
QueenUtopia
QueenUtopiaQueenUtopiaHalmstad, Halland Sweden254 Posts
Hi
The idea is good, just dont think it would work as many men also goes in as a female and i believe some females come in as males. Maybe they are just curious who knows.I think about 95% scammers here. Never seen so many in one place. I think we should be able to talk openly about any person, with name and all. Cos that certainly would get rid of some scammers, even if all of them would not leave. I mostly play games here now. I have very clearly stated in my profile dont ask for e-mail etc or i wont answer. What do they do lol. they start telling me what a great profile i have bla bla bla and then ask me to contact them on their private mail. I am sure they dont even read the profile.so i wont answer then. they say they are not here a lot so need their mail. So stupid they can put cs mail in creen if they think its hard work logging in lol, saving fingers from working to hard.
Jul 3, 2016 9:02 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
Fantastic idea !
Jul 3, 2016 9:04 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
Agree
Jul 3, 2016 9:06 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
Agree
Jul 3, 2016 1:36 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Jimmy5IA
Jimmy5IAJimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK74 Threads 2 Polls 1,599 Posts
jules8428: Just thought I would share my latest experience on here ...
Was having a conversation with a guy on here from Iceland (yeah say no more) lol .. and after the usual first time questions e mails all day on and off on CS ..told me he doesn't play games .. he is older mature man.. photo i googled and apparently genuine .. etc etc .. so trying not to be cynical thinking yeah here we go .. he asked to communicate later in the evening on Skype . "yes" i said no problem .. good idea ..
Saw his request on Skype .. name was as he said .. so far so good ... lol .. as it was late i went to bed and woke up this morning with an e mail from him on CS .. telling me he is sorry for the inconvenience .. he would like to withdraw(no pun intended we haven't even met yet )hahhah.. .. and another load of BS .. to be honest was not really that surprised as its the norm on here.. 99 % fakes .. married .. LIARS ..
So girls as I said earlier if you looking for something serious ..more chance of flying to the moon i believe ..
also I think CS should have some way us girls can leave secret comments on guys profiles to be seen by us "ONLY" on here just to help and warn others what do you think ?.....

Let the guys leave "secret" messages rating your washing, ironing and hoovering skills
Jul 3, 2016 2:43 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada4 Threads 1,333 Posts
jules8428: Just thought I would share my latest experience on here ...
Was having a conversation with a guy on here from Iceland (yeah say no more) lol .. and after the usual first time questions e mails all day on and off on CS ..told me he doesn't play games .. he is older mature man.. photo i googled and apparently genuine .. etc etc .. so trying not to be cynical thinking yeah here we go .. he asked to communicate later in the evening on Skype . "yes" i said no problem .. good idea ..
Saw his request on Skype .. name was as he said .. so far so good ... lol .. as it was late i went to bed and woke up this morning with an e mail from him on CS .. telling me he is sorry for the inconvenience .. he would like to withdraw(no pun intended we haven't even met yet )hahhah.. .. and another load of BS .. to be honest was not really that surprised as its the norm on here.. 99 % fakes .. married .. LIARS ..
So girls as I said earlier if you looking for something serious ..more chance of flying to the moon i believe ..
also I think CS should have some way us girls can leave secret comments on guys profiles to be seen by us "ONLY" on here just to help and warn others what do you think ?.....



Horrible idea; far too many women AND men would leave messages, etc. out of spite. Men would also have to have equal abilities for leaving messages, in codes or not. Both act/ say things out of spite. No one would be happy with that and technically, it could leave open the possibility for a law-suit of defamation/ slander against both the site and the person who posted it...bad idea, but good sentiment.grin
Jul 4, 2016 2:23 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden17 Threads 1 Polls 712 Posts
There actually is a discussion behind the curtains if you know the "right" people and belong to the "right" group. And if you so inclined, of course.

But to tell the truth, I don't understand what the man in OP's story did wrong. He wanted to move to Skype, OP agreed, he "withdrew". What harm is done?

Read somewhere a while ago, that on these kind of sites ca 30-40% of people (mostly men), who are marketing themselves as single, are married or in a long-term relationship. Hence, the probability is hight that a letter (scammers excluded) a woman receives here is from a married man. If you'd want to discuss every one of them with someone else... you'd have no time for your own life.

And then there's warning: you move from this site on your own risk, don't cry you haven't been told.
Jul 5, 2016 11:44 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
Capricorn143
Capricorn143Capricorn143The Best, Osrednjeslovenska Slovenia1 Threads 1,920 Posts
Tulefell:
But to tell the truth, I don't understand what the man in OP's story did wrong. He wanted to move to Skype, OP agreed, he "withdrew". What harm is done?


I don't either. Some of us just prefer being very sure before we "want" to actually speak "face to face" - which may seem kind of threatening. At least I am like that - writing first, then maybe chat on gmail, then, if, skype.

As for the fake profiles - there are real men here, I met two in person, an Englishman, a pompous university professor, and a great Belgian - everything he had said in profile turned out to be true, unfortunately, I screwed things up....guess I was not ready, but we are still in touch as friends.

I have to admit that afterwards I turned down a couple of meetings with men, in person, I got cold feet.

In short, that man from Iceland is probably for real, you lucky girl wave
Jul 5, 2016 4:15 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden17 Threads 1 Polls 712 Posts
Capricorn143: ...
I met two in person, ... and a great Belgian - everything he had said in profile turned out to be true, unfortunately, I screwed things up....guess I was not ready, but we are still in touch as friends.

I have to admit that afterwards I turned down a couple of meetings with men, in person, I got cold feet.


80% of information is transferred non-verbally - tune of voice, gestures/body language, facial expression/mimic, pace, pauses etc... Hence, while corresponding in written, we lose all that. There's brazillion ways to say "Yay" or "Nay" and only one way to write it.

Not a wonder internet dating doesn't work. :)

As to cold feet... People get cold feet when they misrepresented themselves on the net. I don't see you as one of those. Perhaps, you sensed that the date in question wasn't the one you wanted, but were reluctant to say so... Well, those things happens. It's life.





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Aug 5, 2016 3:01 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Steve101069
Steve101069Steve101069Confrides, Valenciana Spain1 Posts
Hello the girls,

Don't think it's easier for men. I'm from Spain and for me distance is not a problem if she's the right one. What I won't do is going through the whole few years process (and a few go and return) of marry a woman in order for her to guet passed the EU Schengen border.

So, I have a list of countries in those citizen are ok to enter Europe (and know me for 3 months) before getting married or whatsoever. If you're not familiar with that, for exemple Chinese or Filipino gils (thousands on the site) are not allowed to get into Europe easely, but from Honk Kong (province of china), yes it is possible. It's just an exemple.

So, my searches are based on countries with no problem with Schengen. This way I ensure myself that I have more chances to get love for who I am, and not for a "green card", and divorced short time after when she's in Europe.

Women from these "poor" countries know about that and many times make mistakes about where they are from (oops !). When I discover that woman from HK is actually Filipino, I stop wasting time. But it is now I don't know how many of them. I finally put that on my description, but it doesn't change anything cos they obviously don't read profiles.

Finding the right one is not easy, but believe me,..if you go for a few friday night drinks, it is not easier.

But I keep positive about it, this site is fantastic.
Sep 1, 2016 3:20 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
jules8428: Just thought I would share my latest experience on here ...
Was having a conversation with a guy on here from Iceland (yeah say no more) lol .. and after the usual first time questions e mails all day on and off on CS ..told me he doesn't play games .. he is older mature man.. photo i googled and apparently genuine .. etc etc .. so trying not to be cynical thinking yeah here we go .. he asked to communicate later in the evening on Skype . "yes" i said no problem .. good idea ..
Saw his request on Skype .. name was as he said .. so far so good ... lol .. as it was late i went to bed and woke up this morning with an e mail from him on CS .. telling me he is sorry for the inconvenience .. he would like to withdraw(no pun intended we haven't even met yet )hahhah.. .. and another load of BS .. to be honest was not really that surprised as its the norm on here.. 99 % fakes .. married .. LIARS ..
So girls as I said earlier if you looking for something serious ..more chance of flying to the moon i believe ..
also I think CS should have some way us girls can leave secret comments on guys profiles to be seen by us "ONLY" on here just to help and warn others what do you think ?.....
Sep 1, 2016 3:32 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
I think you must be more realistic and read the hundreds of profiles ,
Something I read that now 33% of relationships start online .
I believe that on that basis you must succeed but like the saying "rome was not built in a day"
Or" what you sow so shall you reap"
OR "if at first you don,t suceed try again"
Keep the trying it,s the only way to sucess.
Sep 3, 2016 10:13 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
jeanray
jeanrayjeanrayLagos, Faro Portugal1 Posts
You say "Most men are liars, or married or so..."
Maybe!
I am a man, real, searching for a real person.
Up to now, 8 (EIGHT) trials.
8 women who only want money, visa, travel expenses, money for granny's hospital and so on.
Up to now, 8 scams (all reported)
IS THERE A GENUINE WOMAN IN SEARCH OF A GENUINE MAN?
Sep 4, 2016 6:05 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden17 Threads 1 Polls 712 Posts
jeanray: You say "Most men are liars, or married or so..."
Maybe!
I am a man, real, searching for a real person.
Up to now, 8 (EIGHT) trials.
8 women who only want money, visa, travel expenses, money for granny's hospital and so on.
Up to now, 8 scams (all reported)
IS THERE A GENUINE WOMAN IN SEARCH OF A GENUINE MAN?



There's a lot of scammers here, but you must have a special kind of luck to contact 8 scammers in a row.

I don't know your selection criteria, but if you try to approach a woman living in your town, belonging to the same socio-economic stratum and reasonably close to your age, then a lot of issues, as visa or travel expenses or granny's hospital, won't even appear.
Sep 9, 2016 8:20 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
Hey!
Maybe I am lucky too... but I met a lot scammers, only did not calculated them :)
Anyway, here a lot real people too... I hope :)
Feb 24, 2017 2:00 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
Gibsoulmate1
Gibsoulmate1Gibsoulmate1Gibraltar, Gibraltar1 Posts
Girls,,
I fully understand and agree with you that some guys are liars and full of BS, but not all of us are the same,
thankfully,
Take care girls, keep looking for Mr Right, we are still out here,
Mar 14, 2017 7:26 AM CST For the Girls !!!...
CielitoL
CielitoLCielitoLCuernavaca, Mexico1 Posts
I have the same wish, real woman loking for a real man
Mar 31, 2017 3:03 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
borisav
borisavborisavBelgrade, Berlin Germany3 Posts
I am single i am real .
I am alone .
I was married.
Boris
Apr 5, 2017 2:47 PM CST For the Girls !!!...
EggSalad
EggSaladEggSaladMálaga, Andalucia Spain6 Threads 245 Posts
Zzzzzzzzzzip, whips the big fella out, come and get some girls!!!!!!kiss kiss kiss
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