back again... (8)

Hi all,

Im back again..
Met someone who did love me, but he got so scared of my "dirty past" (he said it)that he left me...
Question to all men: is the past of a woman so important for you that you'd give everything up? I mean, near to 30 all of us has a past, or?? What is that you can still accept and what you would not accept at all?
Im really curious about your opinion...

He's a mad man obviously. his loss is our gain welcome aboard.

what's the dummy all about?

That was the most stupid excuse i've ever heard...unless...the truth was all the opposite to what you've been saying while exchanging mails( if you met him through a webdate ).If not through a webdate...there are some nice ways of telling your dirty stuff in your favor

Ex-murderers...i wouldnt like that...

The past is what makes us . Just like applying for a job our past tells a lot about us . We all need to be left to choose our companions . People have different preferences . If you think you are sad now , then how would have felt 10 years down the line .. 3 children and " I can't put up with this anymore " with no good bye and a swift exit . Don't blame him for what he is . Consider yourself lucky that it ended here and now .. You made a mistake and fell in love with someone who was not for you .. Get yourself together and find someone whom is not so concerned about the past .. Perhaps you should start by telling them your past .. If they can’t take it then it should not go any further . What do you think ?

thanx!

if i had really heavy past, yes, but who starts a relationship with detailing her ex boyfriends...????
in one thing you are right, next time I shall think it over 10X to whom i give my heart

Better not detailing exs...and not really tell about your great mistakes otheriwse he'll blame you for everything that goes wrong between you two and you might have gone through your "ex" problems...

Let him descover your mistakes...each relationship is different, you might be perfect to somebody else or just gone through the visible barrier...

Don't be this sincere open lady cause most of us here are very weak and looking for strong partners...and a little secret about your exs is chilli...

You can always tell him why did it end up in not more than three words. Don't play the poor victim...