Just put down what you think. If no one responds it does not mean it is not being read. Sometimes you just have to write it down and get it out there. My thread may not get any response but it felt good any how. Good luck and happy hunting, Virgil Nix
Its been just about four years since she passed on. Now I am just too nice. I travel all across America (United States) working and I miss having someone to enjoy it with me. Once I even lowered my standards just to have someone to see the sites. That was a mistake I will never make again. She liked drugs if you are wondering. I have my children and grandchildren but they have a life of their own. I also turned very shy. I talked to one for two months before I even tried to kiss her. Well thanks for listening and good luck to all I understand. Virgil Nix
No fear,.. you're not alone in this one Ihave never been married,no kids and live alone i havent been lucky to be with someone they all lie or have cheated Ionly have 2 relationships that was it seems they all Didnt have all his ducks in a row or his all his marbeld lined up in a row Im on several dating web sight i have been on some dates of course obviously none worked out still Single and living alone i often cry with nooone special yet. i dont even have not another woman friend to confide in Inperson. Im at my wits end feels like im a misfit and dont have noone . Icame from a broken home live in diffrent orpanages mn group homes that has caused me to be shy and not all that trusting of people and especially me I came from the school of Hard Knocks, My Mom passed away from 2 types of cancer and my dad died of a heart attack i thin i was told he had prostate cancer and my hasf brother passed on with aids i have 1 sister lives about 30 min from me but doesnt come by or even call obviously her husband is controlling and my oldest i dont know hy she doesnt but i think its just wanting to live near them yet thier grown i havent even met them I just feel like Im in jail or like im in adog pund or soemthing At least you have Your family or how ever how many female friends you have I odnt have noone in which makes me feel over whelmed n hopeless im at a cossrads But atleastyou have Your family and whatever how many frineds that actually want to do thing with you ;)
Hello... I got out of a 3 year relationship with someone last week who I was madly in love with...One day out of the blue he decided to tell me that he thinks I deserve someone else and he doesnt want to marry me or have children with me...I just dont understand, he always wanted marriage and a family but now he thinks he wont be a good father or a good partner... I am still very hurt about this and I talked to him, begged him etc to keep the relationship going but he doesnt want me...He doesnt want anyone...He wants to be alone for the rest of his life...He wants to stay best friends though..
I feel very sad because he thinks like this... Now that we are over, I am still living with him because he said I can stay with him as long as I want as it will take time to save up to move out and buy furniture etc...
Now I am all alone without the person in my life that made me so happy...I dont know what to do atm...I cry too much these days trying to understand things..I dont like how he doesnt want me, I keep on thinking was the last 3 years a waste?...I thought what we had was special..But I guess I am wrong now...He sees that I am upset..He doesnt want to talk about the relationship and breakup at all now...He wants to keep everything inside and not talk.. I feel rejected and confused as there is alot more we need to talk about so we both can move on...But I am just hanging there looking confused...
I am alone in this house with no-one to talk too about this and I feel so upset that things did turn out this way and I wish I could turn back time... I am trying to be strong, I need to move on as I cant make someone want me and be with me if they dont want too...I have to accept it.. I just hate feeling alone..It hurts so much
Ok so this is a new member to the world of computors etc etc came across this site and reading through it i felt sad for you all. I have been on my own for a long time but i have friends all over the world .All it takes is the wish to to talk to new people no matter what colour, creed etc it is amazing what can happen.
ONE HUNDRED TWENTY PAPER MEMBERS, BUT ONLY 56 BLOGS IN TWO YEARS AND SIX MONTHS! EFFIN APPALLING!! Last post 'LONELY' November 25th titled "No Friend" .....
No surprise (Profile unavailable)!! WTF can you expect with 'that'?! Shall we blow this site up too? The membership majority has taken a permanent holiday .. elsewhere!!
Well, I have been divorced now for over 4 yrs. I have never had to live alone until now. I find it hard to enjoy myself. I do have the "hope" that one day? God will find my match. Yet, alone ness is different than being lonely. I just feel like I am in a place in my life where I must begin to love myself. Then, perhaps I wouldn't be so lonely.
yeah thats right even guys get played. the last girl i was "with" kept going back and forth. one day with her ex boyfriend then with me then with my friend Gene. you never knew who she would be with the next day. i made me sick. since then i can't get a girlfriend. people tell me to be paitient and to wait.but im tired of wait.CAN'T TAKE IT NO MORE.
Ever since my devorce 4 years ago. I havent been on a date or any kind of social life that I can speak of. Its like everytime I think I can move on with my life or think There is a woman out there for me. My head or somthing thinks if I do go out with someone then I would have lied to God or somthing about the vows. I guess that is what led me to a computer and doing my damnedest to try to have some kind of personal life. I just wish these things ,like letting go. Wasnt so damn hard. There I got it out. I am still so damn confused.
It's easy to find somebody but hard leave with that the idea of the happiness overcomes the fear and strick going right to support the difficult situations -, because the people don't usually open space for a good things. They prefer to see the love next their neighborhoods into other side, maybe in the next city, but not in another country....That is an enormous mistake.
There are on space in the life to justify the distrust and disillusions -, unhappily the love become more than a sacrifice among the partners, cause everything that appears easy in the life doesn't offer high value. So how could I believe in those people if they are only interested in money? The answer probably is in the God's Word that purpose what love offers in their own lessons for our lifes.
But I still keeping following the steps of my true love...So What do you think about?
Hi everyone I have just joined the group and cs. I think a discussion group like this, is great idea. I find the dating scene quite frustrating now. There are so many lonely unattached people around and no-one, including me, has a effective idea how to bring these people together. There are so many computor sites for singles and yet I never hear of anyone finding love this way. Am I wrong and just talking to the wrong people?
well ive been seeing this woman for about a month now and things were looking up for both of us then one day out of the blue i get a txt from her saying that she is pregnant with her ex and she called it off it felt like my heart was ripped out and now i have not heard from her since we broke up i just dont no what to do
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RE: help
Just put down what you think. If no one responds it does not mean it is not being read. Sometimes you just have to write it down and get it out there. My thread may not get any response but it felt good any how. Good luck and happy hunting,Virgil Nix
Widower and now too nice.
Its been just about four years since she passed on. Now I am just too nice. I travel all across America (United States) working and I miss having someone to enjoy it with me. Once I even lowered my standards just to have someone to see the sites. That was a mistake I will never make again. She liked drugs if you are wondering. I have my children and grandchildren but they have a life of their own. I also turned very shy. I talked to one for two months before I even tried to kiss her. Well thanks for listening and good luck to all I understand.Virgil Nix
RE: Lonliness is such a horrible feeling...
Hi ;)No fear,.. you're not alone in this one
Ihave never been married,no kids and live alone i havent been lucky to be with someone they all lie or have cheated Ionly have 2 relationships that was it seems they all Didnt have all his ducks in a row or his all his marbeld lined up in a row Im on several dating web sight i have been on some dates of course obviously none worked out still Single and living alone i often cry with nooone special yet. i dont even have not another woman friend to confide in Inperson. Im at my wits end feels like im a misfit and dont have noone . Icame from a broken home live in diffrent orpanages mn group homes that has caused me to be shy and not all that trusting of people and especially me I came from the school of Hard Knocks, My Mom passed away from 2 types of cancer and my dad died of a heart attack i thin i was told he had prostate cancer and my hasf brother passed on with aids i have 1 sister lives about 30 min from me but doesnt come by or even call obviously her husband is controlling and my oldest i dont know hy she doesnt but i think its just wanting to live near them yet thier grown i havent even met them I just feel like Im in jail or like im in adog pund or soemthing
At least you have Your family or how ever how many female friends you have I odnt have noone in which makes me feel over whelmed n hopeless im at a cossrads But atleastyou have Your family and whatever how many frineds that actually want to do thing with you ;)
RE: Very lonely atm
stay positive babe i feel for you because i used to be like him. some blokes dont know what they got till their gone......Very lonely atm
Hello...I got out of a 3 year relationship with someone last week who I was madly in love with...One day out of the blue he decided to tell me that he thinks I deserve someone else and he doesnt want to marry me or have children with me...I just dont understand, he always wanted marriage and a family but now he thinks he wont be a good father or a good partner...
I am still very hurt about this and I talked to him, begged him etc to keep the relationship going but he doesnt want me...He doesnt want anyone...He wants to be alone for the rest of his life...He wants to stay best friends though..
I feel very sad because he thinks like this...
Now that we are over, I am still living with him because he said I can stay with him as long as I want as it will take time to save up to move out and buy furniture etc...
Now I am all alone without the person in my life that made me so happy...I dont know what to do atm...I cry too much these days trying to understand things..I dont like how he doesnt want me, I keep on thinking was the last 3 years a waste?...I thought what we had was special..But I guess I am wrong now...He sees that I am upset..He doesnt want to talk about the relationship and breakup at all now...He wants to keep everything inside and not talk..
I feel rejected and confused as there is alot more we need to talk about so we both can move on...But I am just hanging there looking confused...
I am alone in this house with no-one to talk too about this and I feel so upset that things did turn out this way and I wish I could turn back time...
I am trying to be strong, I need to move on as I cant make someone want me and be with me if they dont want too...I have to accept it..
I just hate feeling alone..It hurts so much
lonely why
Ok so this is a new member to the world of computors etc etc came across this site and reading through it i felt sad for you all. I have been on my own for a long time but i have friends all over the world .All it takes is the wish to to talk to new people no matter what colour, creed etc it is amazing what can happen.JUNE 16, 2009 - 29 NOVEMBER 2011.
ONE HUNDRED TWENTY PAPER MEMBERS, BUT ONLY 56 BLOGS IN TWO YEARS AND SIX MONTHS! EFFIN APPALLING!! Last post 'LONELY' November 25th titled "No Friend" .....No surprise (Profile unavailable)!! WTF can you expect with
'that'?! Shall we blow this site up too? The membership
majority has taken a permanent holiday .. elsewhere!!
Another disappointment.
Lonely
want a friend-just email me!RE: help
I don't think it does to be honest...lolhelp
how does this work ?Lonliness is such a horrible feeling...
Well, I have been divorced now for over 4 yrs. I have never had to live alone until now. I find it hard to enjoy myself. I do have the "hope" that one day? God will find my match. Yet, alone ness is different than being lonely. I just feel like I am in a place in my life where I must begin to love myself. Then, perhaps I wouldn't be so lonely.RE: i hate being played
I'm still being played - except mine is the father of children, and husband of 20 +, who still thinks it's okay to lie, deceive and manipulate.RE: hello from nicolerose
Hi Nicolerose - I too am new to this - so hello from Australiahello from nicolerose
I´m a new member of this group and i want send a friendly hello to everybody here. Just write mei hate being played
yeah thats right even guys get played. the last girl i was "with" kept going back and forth. one day with her ex boyfriend then with me then with my friend Gene. you never knew who she would be with the next day. i made me sick.I havent been with anyone since my devorce 4 years ago
Ever since my devorce 4 years ago. I havent been on a date or any kind of social life that I can speak of. Its like everytime I think I can move on with my life or think There is a woman out there for me. My head or somthing thinks if I do go out with someone then I would have lied to God or somthing about the vows.I guess that is what led me to a computer and doing my damnedest
to try to have some kind of personal life.
I just wish these things ,like letting go. Wasnt so damn hard.
There I got it out. I am still so damn confused.
Why am not included and be loved?
It's easy to find somebody but hard leave with that the idea of the happiness overcomes the fear and strick going right to support the difficult situations -, because the people don't usually open space for a good things. They prefer to see the love next their neighborhoods into other side, maybe in the next city, but not in another country....That is an enormous mistake.There are on space in the life to justify the distrust and disillusions -, unhappily the love become more than a sacrifice among the partners, cause everything that appears easy in the life doesn't offer high value. So how could I believe in those people if they are only interested in money? The answer probably is in the God's Word that purpose what love offers in their own lessons for our lifes.
But I still keeping following the steps of my true love...So What do you think about?
RE: Loneliness is silent..and hurts your heart
life is a learning experience.RE: Loneliness is silent..and hurts your heart
Hello shy2shy. You sound like a strong and determined person. Life can certainly throw us some tough curves. I wish you all the best.On finding that special someone
Hi everyone I have just joined the group and cs. I think a discussion group like this, is great idea. I find the dating scene quite frustrating now. There are so many lonely unattached people around and no-one, including me, has a effective idea how to bring these people together. There are so many computor sites for singles and yet I never hear of anyone finding love this way. Am I wrong and just talking to the wrong people?being played with ya heart
well ive been seeing this woman for about a month now and things were looking up for both of us then one day out of the blue i get a txt from her saying that she is pregnant with her ex and she called it off it felt like my heart was ripped out and now i have not heard from her since we broke up i just dont no what to doHi People
Thought I would join the group since the name describes me.Divorced, 52yrs old, on my own 3yrs now. Up here in the great
white north. lol!
hello
hi every one (the world is so more beautifull with you around)manu1010
RE: New to you
I wanted to welcome you here. I am new also. Hope to get to
know ya.
Shy2shy
Loneliness is silent..and hurts your heart
Hi, I am new here. When I saw the title of the group? I knew it was for me.I have been divorced (by an abuser yet stayed for the children) for almost 3 years. I was lonely then.. since I had no idea he was cheating on me.
Now? I am very hopeful and grateful to have endured such
actions he gave me. I am out and free to think for myself
which I find difficult because I lived a crazy life with him
for 30 yrs. I have a lot of undoing.. and I am doing it. I
know there is hope out there to find someone who will love
me for who I am.. not for who they think I should be. I want
to meet friends from all over the world. I love to write, and
talk. Helping others' helps me feel whole.
Thanks for reading this.. Blessings to all, Shy2shy
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