I have a question for all members: in bluener's official f4f club Group Forum

  • Simmo1
    #1 G'day fellow members and a big howdy do from down under to u all.
    I have a serious question to ask and i am seeking thoughts/opinions from ALL members.
    here is my delemma. (hope that is spelt right)

    we all have friends on the blogs/forums, ppl whose blogs/forums we like to comment on, and we all have friends that may not like the person whom u comment on their blog, Do you then not like that person any more cause someone doesnt like them, or do u continue to comment on that persons blogs.
    I will try to make it clearer.
    U have a friend called...ummm Jack, u like to comment on his blogs, sometimes u find jack funny or maybe informative, but u like jack, Your other friend called..mmmm Bill doesnt like jack and makes snide and insulting remarks on blogs/forums about jack. Do you now dont comment on Jack's blogs/forums any more because bill doesnt like him or do u continue to comment on jacks blogs/forums knowing that bill may now not like u because u still friends with Jack.

    I am curious as to what all members here think.
    I appreciate any thoughts/comments or opinions.
    Thank you.
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #2
    Simmo1: G'day fellow members and a big howdy do from down under to u all.
    I have a serious question to ask and i am seeking thoughts/opinions from ALL members.
    here is my delemma. (hope that is spelt right)

    we all have friends on the blogs/forums, ppl whose blogs/forums we like to comment on, and we all have friends that may not like the person whom u comment on their blog, Do you then not like that person any more cause someone doesnt like them, or do u continue to comment on that persons blogs.
    I will try to make it clearer.
    U have a friend called...ummm Jack, u like to comment on his blogs, sometimes u find jack funny or maybe informative, but u like jack, Your other friend called..mmmm Bill doesnt like jack and makes snide and insulting remarks on blogs/forums about jack. Do you now dont comment on Jack's blogs/forums any more because bill doesnt like him or do u continue to comment on jacks blogs/forums knowing that bill may now not like u because u still friends with Jack.

    I am curious as to what all members here think.
    I appreciate any thoughts/comments or opinions.
    Thank you.

    simmo mate
    act as u feel , dont let others determine your behavior.
    if somene , doesnt like it , explain to him/ her , that its u , who decide for u.handshake cheers cool
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • Simmo1
    #3
    Bluener: simmo mate
    act as u feel , dont let others determine your behavior.
    if somene , doesnt like it , explain to him/ her , that its u , who decide for u.

    Blue i am asking cause a popular blogger has taken to making snide remarks about me lately. Not sure why,
    It started a while back, but when i posted my blog the other day when i was bored he went all out and attacked me about it.
    The one with the names that made the story...
    Said i copied rob787 idea.
    I said that rob writes stories and includes names.
    But i had made a story out of ppl's names, there is a difference.
    Now he attacks me on others blogs and some ppl i thought liked my blogs will not comment anymore. and some are in this club....
    But i am not worried about it, just confused why i am now being attacked by this blogger.
    I have shown respect to everyone here, but he has now lost my respect for him.
    just bloody crazy blue...thats all.
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • plainlyjuneHidden Profile
    #4 hi simm!

    i will still comment on the blogs of jack and jill, no bill. hehehe.

    I hope jack and bill will understand that their squabble is between them and they are mature enough to resolve it. If one wishes to stop speaking to the other, it doesn't mean that i will follow suit. Tho, in real life, I'll try to bridge the gap as much as i can. If one tells me to not get involved i'll back off.

    bouquet
    by plainlyjuneHidden Profile Aug 2012 Legazpi City, Naga Philippines
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #5
    Simmo1: Blue i am asking cause a popular blogger has taken to making snide remarks about me lately. Not sure why,
    It started a while back, but when i posted my blog the other day when i was bored he went all out and attacked me about it.
    The one with the names that made the story...
    Said i copied rob787 idea.
    I said that rob writes stories and includes names.
    But i had made a story out of ppl's names, there is a difference.
    Now he attacks me on others blogs and some ppl i thought liked my blogs will not comment anymore. and some are in this club....
    But i am not worried about it, just confused why i am now being attacked by this blogger.
    I have shown respect to everyone here, but he has now lost my respect for him.
    just bloody crazy blue...thats all.

    harold \
    isnt that ur name??
    how long ru on cs??? dont u know by now , haters need no reason to attack u ?? real reason i mean???
    i heard the rumor u copy rbrt . but i dont think u do so. by the way , even if u did it , so what.
    let me tell u , never posted something and looked if someone had posted the same before me, cause never use others ideas .
    i have seen a couple of guys that use mine on their hopeless effort to have a succeessful blog . its ok . i feel flatteredrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing roll eyes wave
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • Simmo1
    #6
    plainlyjune: hi simm!

    i will still comment on the blogs of jack and jill, no bill. hehehe.

    I hope jack and bill will understand that their squabble is between them and they are mature enough to resolve it. If one wishes to stop speaking to the other, it doesn't mean that i will follow suit. Tho, in real life, I'll try to bridge the gap as much as i can. If one tells me to not get involved i'll back off.

    June u know who i am talking about, u wrote on his blog earlier,
    Why would he want to attack me when i have never said a bad word to him.
    Anyways i would like to think that u would still comment on my blogs, as i value ur input into them, funny and witty at times and sensable at others.. Thank you.
    For i do ask anyone to take sides, but in his strange way he is asking ppl to take sides...
    I have no idea why.confused confused
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • Simmo1
    #7 opps i meant i do not ask anyone to take sides...opps typo....frustrated frustrated doh doh
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #8 Will i find out who it is who is unfair to you if i go read your 'name-blog' - that i for that matter found funny and cool + innovative. Hay even if henry ford made the first car i still think toyota makes bloody good cars and wouldn't say they should stop!

    btw, take also a peek at my blog from a few months back
    http://www.connectingsingles.com/blog_38706_1/loyalty_vs_morality.htm

    It shows that i am not alwasy a blind fan of socalled "loyalty"
    (but find my own morlity to be sufficient)

    bouquet
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • plainlyjuneHidden Profile
    #9 hehehe, i get ya simm. Don't worry about it. I'll post when i feel like it and i try not to fuel anything untoward. Most of the time, i just skim through the blogs and reply as much as i can, altho my attntion gets caught somewhere and i find an unsent comment on my cs page. Then i don't send it anymore as it won't be appropriate for the banter and such. Most bloggers are good in my book. Even the guy who wants to eat some corn! laugh


    teddybear
    by plainlyjuneHidden Profile Aug 2012 Legazpi City, Naga Philippines
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #10
    plainlyjune: hehehe, i get ya simm. Don't worry about it. I'll post when i feel like it and i try not to fuel anything untoward. Most of the time, i just skim through the blogs and reply as much as i can, altho my attntion gets caught somewhere and i find an unsent comment on my cs page. Then i don't send it anymore as it won't be appropriate for the banter and such. Most bloggers are good in my book. Even the guy who wants to eat some corn!

    u mean the h*rny corny americano mexicano????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing banana banana ne is nuts but harmless
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • Simmo1
    #11
    morgenulv: Will i find out who it is who is unfair to you if i go read your 'name-blog' - that i for that matter found funny and cool + innovative. Hay even if henry ford made the first car i still think toyota makes bloody good cars and wouldn't say they should stop!

    btw, take also a peek at my blog from a few months back
    http://www.connectingsingles.com/blog_38706_1/loyalty_vs_morality.htm

    It shows that i am not alwasy a blind fan of socalled "loyalty"
    (but find my own morlity to be sufficient)


    Morg
    if i said it was party time, is that enough of a clue for u.
    read his blog whop whop and then scroll thru some other blogs to see the snide remarks he makes about me.
    I personally do not care what he says about me, but by doing so i feel he is trying to have ppl choose who to be friends with, if u like someone he doesnt he then turns on u.
    I like reading camel's blogs and comment on them and often tell him if i think he has gone to far, but parti hates me for even having the nerve to write on camel's blog in the first place.
    Sorry pal.
    like u yesterday, just had to vent this...
    I like parti and have never said a bad word about him, but now he turns on me hopping others will as well....
    And if the truth be known, he had a hand in Marelene leaving...not directly, but in his snide tricky way.
    That is a fact.
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #12 I get it. Ok u know... for me it's not a problem!
    I have one main (now i'm in love with you)
    and i have the others as backup plans.
    Problem solved! laugh
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #13
    Simmo1: Morg
    if i said it was party time, is that enough of a clue for u.
    read his blog whop whop and then scroll thru some other blogs to see the snide remarks he makes about me.
    I personally do not care what he says about me, but by doing so i feel he is trying to have ppl choose who to be friends with, if u like someone he doesnt he then turns on u.
    I like reading camel's blogs and comment on them and often tell him if i think he has gone to far, but parti hates me for even having the nerve to write on camel's blog in the first place.
    Sorry pal.
    like u yesterday, just had to vent this...
    I like parti and have never said a bad word about him, but now he turns on me hopping others will as well....
    And if the truth be known, he had a hand in Marelene leaving...not directly, but in his snide tricky way.
    That is a fact.

    simmo
    parti is one of those , who lost his audience on the blogs.
    now he is trying to climb again , but its not the right way to do so.is one of those use my blogs to make a success and always forced to delete them after a while . i cant feel bad about him , feeling his pain lolrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wink peace
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • plainlyjuneHidden Profile
    #14
    Bluener: u mean the h*rny corny americano mexicano???? ne is nuts but harmless
    he is harmless alright, just misunderstood. Dunno if he's trying to get on my good side or not, but i really don't think so. Anyway, when i posted a blog about my sucky day, he went out of his way to mail me to cheer me up after reading the blog. I was ok by that time and don't need comfort. But that, what he did offering good words even tho we don't talk, is something i appreciate. It felt genuine at least and didn't demand reciprocation.
    by plainlyjuneHidden Profile Aug 2012 Legazpi City, Naga Philippines
  • Simmo1
    #15
    Bluener: harold \
    isnt that ur name??
    how long ru on cs??? dont u know by now , haters need no reason to attack u ?? real reason i mean???
    i heard the rumor u copy rbrt . but i dont think u do so. by the way , even if u did it , so what.
    let me tell u , never posted something and looked if someone had posted the same before me, cause never use others ideas .
    i have seen a couple of guys that use mine on their hopeless effort to have a succeessful blog . its ok . i feel flattered

    Blue,
    yes that is my name, not sure how u know, but am thinking maybe a girl we both know....lol
    Anyways, thank u for ur words, u do speak wisely, and for the record, coping rob i was not, i was bored and played with names on the screen and the story fell into place.
    By the way, he didnt like it when u stated that i was the funniest aussie or whatever u said the other day. He let me know that i must also have licked ur bum sometime ago as he says i have done with camel's.....
    Anyway, that is his problem not urs not mind.
    Thank you for ur valueable input blue.
    cheers
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #16
    Simmo1: Blue,
    yes that is my name, not sure how u know, but am thinking maybe a girl we both know....lol
    Anyways, thank u for ur words, u do speak wisely, and for the record, coping rob i was not, i was bored and played with names on the screen and the story fell into place.
    By the way, he didnt like it when u stated that i was the funniest aussie or whatever u said the other day. He let me know that i must also have licked ur bum sometime ago as he says i have done with camel's.....
    Anyway, that is his problem not urs not mind.
    Thank you for ur valueable input blue.

    i am staying away from troubles sim and still come asking for me. i have seen ur profile on face , thats all on ur comments on our common friend lol.look stay here on the club , like i will do for a while and let them wonder , where the f*ck we r lolhandshake cheers
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • Simmo1
    #17
    plainlyjune: he is harmless alright, just misunderstood. Dunno if he's trying to get on my good side or not, but i really don't think so. Anyway, when i posted a blog about my sucky day, he went out of his way to mail me to cheer me up after reading the blog. I was ok by that time and don't need comfort. But that, what he did offering good words even tho we don't talk, is something i appreciate. It felt genuine at least and didn't demand reciprocation.

    June
    as i have said, i have never uttered a bad word about him, but u urslef read what he had to say about me today.
    He even admitted in a blog of his that he does this delibertly to annoy ppl.
    I say again june, i have never ever said a bad word about him or anyone for that matter.
    I have suggested to some that they may have gone to far with some comments they have made, but have never disrespected anyone.
    And this is how he treats me.
    A lot of ppl say he is jealous because he is no longer as popular as he once was.
    He feels threaten bu others...
    It is a shame, he is a nice person otherwise but does have a nasty streak.
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • Exotic11Hidden Profile
    #18
    Simmo1: G'day fellow members and a big howdy do from down under to u all.
    I have a serious question to ask and i am seeking thoughts/opinions from ALL members.
    here is my delemma. (hope that is spelt right)

    we all have friends on the blogs/forums, ppl whose blogs/forums we like to comment on, and we all have friends that may not like the person whom u comment on their blog, Do you then not like that person any more cause someone doesnt like them, or do u continue to comment on that persons blogs.
    I will try to make it clearer.
    U have a friend called...ummm Jack, u like to comment on his blogs, sometimes u find jack funny or maybe informative, but u like jack, Your other friend called..mmmm Bill doesnt like jack and makes snide and insulting remarks on blogs/forums about jack. Do you now dont comment on Jack's blogs/forums any more because bill doesnt like him or do u continue to comment on jacks blogs/forums knowing that bill may now not like u because u still friends with Jack.

    I am curious as to what all members here think.
    I appreciate any thoughts/comments or opinions.
    Thank you.


    Hi Simmo1,

    I've been on this site for a while,now and it still saddens me to see Adults behave as children,but unfortunately we know this is the result whether it be in Cyber or other wise.
    I believe and in defense of Australians,I feel we are quite an upfront call a spade a spade nation. Humor is part of our lingo,and not all can and understandably interpret it this way.Personally for me I decide which blogs to comment on and with the hope of never offending others. I don't get involved in the politics and gang behavior,I will always give others the benefit of the doubt and respect first until proven other wise. I certainly do not expect others to take sides with me if I were to have an altercation with a member. I don't care who my friends comment to on the blogs/forums. This is their own business.

    If for some reason I felt I were being insulted /questioned what ever on a blog,I would hopefully address the matter in a mature attitude via private email on
    here,if they do not wish to respond or try to rectify the matter,then I do not take on board their behaviors. It would be a blessing if humans were to all get along,but this is human nature.
    I believe we or can get our inspiration,thoughts from other bloggers to post on our own,I would see this as a compliment as long as done in good taste.

    bouquet
    by Exotic11Hidden Profile Aug 2012 Gold Coast,Australia, Queensland Australia
  • Simmo1
    #19
    Bluener: i am staying away from troubles sim and still come asking for me. i have seen ur profile on face , thats all on ur comments on our common friend lol.look stay here on the club , like i will do for a while and let them wonder , where the f*ck we r lol



    rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
    not a bad idea.
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • Simmo1
    #20
    plainlyjune: he is harmless alright, just misunderstood. Dunno if he's trying to get on my good side or not, but i really don't think so. Anyway, when i posted a blog about my sucky day, he went out of his way to mail me to cheer me up after reading the blog. I was ok by that time and don't need comfort. But that, what he did offering good words even tho we don't talk, is something i appreciate. It felt genuine at least and didn't demand reciprocation.

    Also june, if u ever say something nice to me on one of my blogs and he sees it...u can bet he will have someting snide to say....
    i would bet my life on that....
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #21
    Bluener: i am staying away from troubles sim and still come asking for me. i have seen ur profile on face , thats all on ur comments on our common friend lol.look stay here on the club , like i will do for a while and let them wonder , where the f*ck we r lol


    hehe thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

    my thoughts too

    besides we can build this place thumbs up
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #22 See, we already got such a nice bunch!

    teddybear
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • plainlyjuneHidden Profile
    #23 pft nevermind that simmo. Take comfort in the thought that whatever one person says, does not affect the impression you have on other people who reads it. If others get affectd by what other wrote about you without confirming anything, then it's their problem. Cheer up big boy simm kiss kiss
    by plainlyjuneHidden Profile Aug 2012 Legazpi City, Naga Philippines
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #24 idea

    let's invite corn man rite now!

    I like him too.
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • Simmo1
    #25
    Exotic11: Hi Simmo1,

    I've been on this site for a while,now and it still saddens me to see Adults behave as children,but unfortunately we know this is the result whether it be in Cyber or other wise.
    I believe and in defense of Australians,I feel we are quite an upfront call a spade a spade nation. Humor is part of our lingo,and not all can and understandably interpret it this way.Personally for me I decide which blogs to comment on and with the hope of never offending others. I don't get involved in the politics and gang behavior,I will always give others the benefit of the doubt and respect first until proven other wise. I certainly do not expect others to take sides with me if I were to have an altercation with a member. I don't care who my friends comment to on the blogs/forums. This is their own business.

    If for some reason I felt I were being insulted /questioned what ever on a blog,I would hopefully address the matter in a mature attitude via private email on
    here,if they do not wish to respond or try to rectify the matter,then I do not take on board their behaviors. It would be a blessing if humans were to all get along,but this is human nature.
    I believe we or can get our inspiration,thoughts from other bloggers to post on our own,I would see this as a compliment as long as done in good taste.

    Exotic11....
    well said....extremley well said.applause applause
    I agree 100% with u,
    Unfortunately though some want to make others look silly or stupid to gain so called points.
    This is what this person has done for the last 2-3 months, not just me, but others as well.
    I repeat, i have never spoken a bad word ever about him, in fact i have defended him sometimes, but he now chooses to degrade me, and try and make look bad.
    This is why i ask here in a club forum and not in blog about others thoughts and opinions.
    I thank u all for ur understanding and ur opinions.
    I will continue to have a good time and hopefully make ppl have a laugh and think seriously at the same time with any blogs i continue to write.
    Blees u exotic11 for ur wonderfully spoken and wise words.bouquet
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • Simmo1
    #26
    plainlyjune: pft nevermind that simmo. Take comfort in the thought that whatever one person says, does not affect the impression you have on other people who reads it. If others get affectd by what other wrote about you without confirming anything, then it's their problem. Cheer up big boy simm

    easy up on the BIG BOY june....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
    i know i am...Overweight in fact....doh doh
    i am cheered up now, and u can call me whatever u like except "late for dinner"..........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • Simmo1
    #27 i know its ur club Blue....
    But hey i want Morg to run for world President.....
    he has my vote.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
    what say u Morg...
    u run for world President.......confused
    by Simmo1OP Aug 2012 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #28
    Simmo1: easy up on the BIG BOY june....
    i know i am...Overweight in fact....
    i am cheered up now, and u can call me whatever u like except "late for dinner"..........

    dinner what dinner??? where????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing i am jungry like a wolf now , or shall i say crocodile???wink wave
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
  • morgenulvHidden Profile
    #29 Hehe, sorry i will not take the job. I'm happy as the club marshal/state trooper! lol
    My boss is blue. Hehe. He is the REAL mafioso here... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

    kiss (almost an a** lick emot) laugh

    head banger head banger head banger

    So bleu. what u say? cornman?
    by morgenulvHidden Profile Aug 2012 oslo, Oslo Norway
  • BluenerHidden Profile
    #30
    Simmo1: i know its ur club Blue....
    But hey i want Morg to run for world President.....
    he has my vote.....
    what say u Morg...
    u run for world President.......

    not my club anymore sim. its OUR club.i am just the admin , by accident . rolling on the floor laughing handshake cheers head banger
    by BluenerHidden Profile Aug 2012 Nafpaktos, Central Greece Greece
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