Hi, I am new here. When I saw the title of the group? I knew it was for me.

I have been divorced (by an abuser yet stayed for the children) for almost 3 years. I was lonely then.. since I had no idea he was cheating on me.

Now? I am very hopeful and grateful to have endured such

actions he gave me. I am out and free to think for myself

which I find difficult because I lived a crazy life with him

for 30 yrs. I have a lot of undoing.. and I am doing it. I

know there is hope out there to find someone who will love

me for who I am.. not for who they think I should be. I want

to meet friends from all over the world. I love to write, and

talk. Helping others' helps me feel whole.

Thanks for reading this.. Blessings to all, Shy2shy

Hello shy2shy. You sound like a strong and determined person. Life can certainly throw us some tough curves. I wish you all the best.