Hello...
I got out of a 3 year relationship with someone last week who I was madly in love with...One day out of the blue he decided to tell me that he thinks I deserve someone else and he doesnt want to marry me or have children with me...I just dont understand, he always wanted marriage and a family but now he thinks he wont be a good father or a good partner...
I am still very hurt about this and I talked to him, begged him etc to keep the relationship going but he doesnt want me...He doesnt want anyone...He wants to be alone for the rest of his life...He wants to stay best friends though..

I feel very sad because he thinks like this...
Now that we are over, I am still living with him because he said I can stay with him as long as I want as it will take time to save up to move out and buy furniture etc...

Now I am all alone without the person in my life that made me so happy...I dont know what to do atm...I cry too much these days trying to understand things..I dont like how he doesnt want me, I keep on thinking was the last 3 years a waste?...I thought what we had was special..But I guess I am wrong now...He sees that I am upset..He doesnt want to talk about the relationship and breakup at all now...He wants to keep everything inside and not talk..
I feel rejected and confused as there is alot more we need to talk about so we both can move on...But I am just hanging there looking confused...

I am alone in this house with no-one to talk too about this and I feel so upset that things did turn out this way and I wish I could turn back time...
I am trying to be strong, I need to move on as I cant make someone want me and be with me if they dont want too...I have to accept it..
I just hate feeling alone..It hurts so much

stay positive babe i feel for you because i used to be like him. some blokes dont know what they got till their gone......

i know how u feel. i was left for another woman feb just gone and there was no reason behind it. she came onto him so he left me. we were together almost 12yrs have 2 kids together were engaged and preparing to buy a house this yr. at first i tried to understand how he could just leave that easy but he even told me his choice had nothing to do with our relationship, that i was a great girlfriend, but wouldnt stay coz he discovered feelings for someone else. for the first wk we were still friends but now he cant even look at me let alone talk to me. hes changed very much from the person i knew and although i believe i dont want him back as a bf i still miss him as my best friend. when i feel lonely its compounded by the fact that he moved in with her immediately so hes not lonely and wont even miss the friendship we once had. i'm still confused but i dont like to think about it coz it wont change whats happened, our relationship was so solid, like a fairytale everyone said, but obviously not. i'm up late every