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Q. My mail disappeared with a member I was talking to

A. Mail may disappear for various reasons:

  • Old mail (over 30 days old) is removed from time to time to save on site resources.
  • The sender may cancel and leave the site.
  • The sender may have been removed from the site by staff. (as a result of complaints received about the member, or the member using the site for purposes other than dating: mass mailing, soliciting, requesting money from other members, etc. When a member gets banned, their mail automatically disappears.)
  • A member's profile and mail may be deleted because they registered an email address that isn't valid and mail notices to them bounce back.

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