If you truely want happiness, find someone who loves you. For enduring and marital bliss, this is a priceless clue. Most people fall in love; someone they are attracted too. Ignoring what was said above, hence their relationships falls through. It's worth-while to note: without charity love is a "farse". And a relation without both, is unlikely to last. Contortion "dream-love", like movies; to this illusion we're prone. Even though, hollywood marriage stories, are rotten to the bone. Find someone that loves you, that's good place to start. Returning love, "only" when due, spares "you" a broken-heart!