So….. Why do we have turmoil, why are we so competitive? Why do we only care about ourselves, and not everyone around us, those we do and don’t know? Is it asking too much of us to care about someone else? Do we not have the time? Friends come and go, lovers do the same, it’s ironic that the two are mutually aligned, ending in the result that losing either one causes pain. It is said that it is better to have loved and lost, than to not have loved at all, when you think about that logically, it’s a load of crud, if one has never loved then one could never know just how much it hurts when one has lost. So why do we feel emotional pain? Is it to help us grow? Is it to make us better human beings? Can anyone honestly say they want to be emotionally hurt?? I doubt it, yet in the quest to avoid loneliness, we know the end result, even before we say those deep heart felt words “I love you”.