Falling in love for the first time can be very exciting at the start But such love is usually not long-lasting and may lead to a broken heart
A person whose heart has been broken seeks a love that is more mature When found such love heals the broken heart and is more beautiful and likely to endure
Poetnumber1St James, Port of Spain Trinidad and TobagoJan 2, 2014
Very true and well written Socrates. Timeless words of wisdom : ).
Serenity4twoDonegal, IrelandJan 2, 2014
How true dear Socrates .. In society today , so much is viewed as disposable , including love . To be truly and deeply in love ,sharing a love that will endure through all life's up's and downs ,is surely the ultimate goal . So difficult to find though . Enjoyed reading this Socrates -warm wishes as always my friend -F
beautifulyouNew York, USAJan 2, 2014
mature love is the love we need when we realize what we originally sought held nothing of what matters, of what's eternal
thanks socrates, and happy new year
Dejavu4uSomewhere, West Virginia USAJan 2, 2014
socrates,
I enjoyed your poem and what you say is so true. I can see now how I should have chosen a better kind of love. Nice write. Take care my friend. Blessings and Peace, Pink.
Angel04gympie, Queensland AustraliaJan 2, 2014
Most definitely socratees, I tend to agree, short and sweet, and to the point
socrates44OPSan Fernando, Trinidad and TobagoJan 4, 2014
Hi Serenity, Thank you for your comment. Yes, it may be difficult to find such a love. Those who find it are truly blessed. Have a wonderful day!
sundayrose1san francisco, California USAJan 4, 2014
How simple and yet so true my dear JB. Yes in time, I believe we become so cautious and use our minds and reason more than just impulsively forced solely by the calls of the heart. Our defense mechanism is such a force that sometimes wall our guards to not be shaken and or hurt again, and somehow, this is more where I can relate at the moment..Be very cautious and not too much in a haste. Having said that, though, doesn't mean I will not be likely to be hurt again, but such is the nature of falling in love, it can be just as fast as falling out of love, no matter how much we became seasoned by its passing.
Thanks for the share. Such a seed of wisdom, really.
socrates44OPSan Fernando, Trinidad and TobagoJan 4, 2014
Hi pink, Hope that you are getting back on your feet again after your rough experience. I am afraid that sometimes we may not be able to choose who falls in love with us and who we fall in love with. As they say, Love is blind; But they also say Love is lovelier the second time around. I wish you all the best. Have a delightful day!
socrates44OPSan Fernando, Trinidad and TobagoJan 4, 2014
Hi SR Thank you for your comment. I empathise with you in regard to the present difficulties you are facing in your life. Perhaps, it is to better to discover love with someone by growing in love with him or her which usually starts with friendship and grows into something deeper with time. It may not have the initial excitement as that of falling in love but as you have said, it may be just as easy to fall out of love as it is to fall in love. Maybe a distinction should be made between "loving" and "falling in love".
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In society today , so much is viewed as disposable , including love .
To be truly and deeply in love ,sharing a love that will endure through all life's up's and downs ,is surely the ultimate goal .
So difficult to find though .
Enjoyed reading this Socrates -warm wishes as always my friend -F
thanks socrates, and happy new year
I enjoyed your poem and what you say is so true. I can see now how I should have chosen a better kind of love. Nice write. Take care my friend. Blessings and Peace, Pink.
Thank you for your comment. Have a great day!
Thank you for your comment. Yes, it may be difficult to find such a love. Those who find it are truly blessed.
Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for the share. Such a seed of wisdom, really.
Phyllis
That long-lasting or "eternal" love as you mentioned is indeed very precious and a thing to be cherished.
Have a lovely day!
Hope that you are getting back on your feet again after your rough experience. I am afraid that sometimes we may not be able to choose who falls in love with us and who we fall in love with. As they say, Love is blind; But they also say Love is lovelier the second time around. I wish you all the best.
Have a delightful day!
Thank you for your lovely comment. Have an angelic day!
Thank you for your comment. I empathise with you in regard to the present difficulties you are facing in your life. Perhaps, it is to better to discover love with someone by growing in love with him or her which usually starts with friendship and grows into something deeper with time. It may not have the initial excitement as that of falling in love but as you have said, it may be just as easy to fall out of love as it is to fall in love. Maybe a distinction should be made between "loving" and "falling in love".