Do they not know~ These insensitive men~ Just how deeply their words Pierce our very hearts and souls?
Do they not think? Do they not know? Do they not care? That their words~ Uttered in such a glib manner, Sometimes even followed by a chuckle, Have hurt us so deeply.
They say things~ Warm and tender and loving things; And then, When we respond accordingly~ With love and caring and tenderness~ They shoot us down.
They say it was our imaginations. They say their words were not real. They say it was just a fantasy.
Do they not know Or do they just not care That their words break our hearts And make us fearful of them~ Make us insecure about their feelings For us?
Do they not realize How much pain they cause us And how many tears are shed Because they are oblivious To our needs?
Do they not know how badly We crave security In the knowledge That they truly care?
Hi Mady - according to my brother - he is always telling me that men think differently then women. They see things differently then women and usually they are not as emotional about things as women. Their whole outlook on life is different. I guess that is why God gave them women! lol To give them the proper outlook on life?
Seriously - I think some of them care. If someone tried to hurt me - I have 2 very big older brothers who would take them on.
Praying you find that one special man who understands.
Kathy
pinksdejavuSomewhere, West Virginia USAJan 29, 2016
Doglover, I can feel the pain in your words. The poem was right on spot. I imagine there are many women feeling the same way. I know I do. You are very strong and brave. I will pray things will get better and you find someone worthy of your love. Take care. Hugz, Pink
Heartfelt poem I can relate to very much . Do they not know how much we love them and yet they treat us like this or maybe they just don't care .im thinking they just don't know
doglover14OPhudson, New York USAJan 29, 2016
pinksdejavu
Pink,
I can't thank you enough for both your kind comments, and for your interest and understanding.
I am so glad that I was introduced to CS, as it has allowed me to express my feelings, and not feel so alone.
Again...thank you.
Mady
doglover14OPhudson, New York USAJan 29, 2016
Abby1963
Laura,
Again, thank you so much for your wonderful comments and your compassion.
Maybe they keep hurting us because we allow them to do so...and yet we never stop loving them.
I pray that you are correct in saying that they do it because 'they don't know'.
Again...many thanks.
doglover14OPhudson, New York USAJan 29, 2016
JimEee
Jim,
You are so correct in saying that loving someone often causes pain; BUT the alternative of not allowing love to enter your life can hurt even more!
I don't think women need to be 'euphoric', but rather need to be validated and appreciated!
They need to feel secure. They need to feel loved. They need to feel safe.
You must realize that when a woman truly loves a man, she surrenders her entire being unto him, and I really don't think she asks for too much in return.
If he is wise enough to meets those needs, he will, in return, reap the benefits tenfold!
Thank you for your kind remarks.
Mady
EarlgreyteaLimassol, CyprusJun 28, 2016
Hi dear Mady, A heartfelt write! Very valid questions, as the Dad of six daughters, I have wrestled with this often as well, when I see the indescribable pain on a daughter's face after a break-up/divorce, etc. Truly, "Men are from Mars, and women from Venus", sigh, love and light, Earl
doglover14OPhudson, New York USAJun 28, 2016
Earl,
Thank you so much for your comments on this poem.
I was in a great deal of pain when I wrote it.
Hopefully ~ if people care enough about one another ~ they are able to bridge "The Gaps of the Galaxy".
(hmmmmm...now that sounds the titled of a great poem...lol)
Mady
EarlgreyteaLimassol, CyprusJun 28, 2016
I agree: ["The Gaps of the Galaxy".] I look forward to reading it! Go for it!
JimEeeNew Haven, Connecticut USAJun 29, 2016
doglover14
Mady!
Wipe away your tears!
The men know not what they do or miss!
How now will they capture the taste of your ever loving tender kiss ~
Will they ever understand Probably not ~ because they are man!
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Seriously - I think some of them care. If someone tried to hurt me - I have 2 very big older brothers who would take them on.
Praying you find that one special man who understands.
Kathy
Pink,
I can't thank you enough for both your kind comments, and for your interest and understanding.
I am so glad that I was introduced to CS, as it has allowed me to express my feelings, and not feel so alone.
Again...thank you.
Mady
Laura,
Again, thank you so much for your wonderful comments and your compassion.
Maybe they keep hurting us because we allow them to do so...and yet we never stop loving them.
I pray that you are correct in saying that they do it because 'they don't know'.
Again...many thanks.
Jim,
You are so correct in saying that loving someone often causes pain; BUT the alternative of not allowing love to enter your life can hurt even more!
I don't think women need to be 'euphoric', but rather need to be validated and appreciated!
They need to feel secure.
They need to feel loved.
They need to feel safe.
You must realize that when a woman truly loves a man, she surrenders her entire being unto him, and I really don't think she asks for too much in return.
If he is wise enough to meets those needs, he will, in return, reap the benefits tenfold!
Thank you for your kind remarks.
Mady
Truly,
"Men are from Mars, and women from Venus", sigh,
love and light,
Earl
Thank you so much for your comments on this poem.
I was in a great deal of pain when I wrote it.
Hopefully ~ if people care enough about one another ~ they are able to bridge "The Gaps of the Galaxy".
(hmmmmm...now that sounds the titled of a great poem...lol)
Mady
Mady!
Wipe away your tears!
The men know not what they do
or miss!
How now will they capture
the taste of your ever loving
tender kiss ~
Will they ever understand
Probably not ~ because they are man!
JimEee