eejay, hows it going? Don't forget, romance can be found, at the bus stop, or on a train, etc. Just talk to the girl next to you. Why confine yourself to the virtual World? Just saying. At least you can see what you might be getting! This may seem like a radical concept, in today's online World; however, wasn't this the way it was done in the old days?. As for CS, it's a great site because it's free and genuinely global. Many different people here; there is likely someone for you. Also very good for writing, and blogging, for allowing us writers to reach a wide audience, not just the elites (or literati). I know, and I must thank, CS, for getting me started, and writing, in an organized way; whereas, before, I'd lost all hope...