postivethinker: It seems like the most positive, to celebrate marriage parties,
happy birthday parties.......with cake But Drs. have warned
that, if you feel that a"divorce party" is somthing you
want,make sure that your kids are not invited as they will be
hurted and confussed that is why you need to consider seriously
your kid's feeling. By your conscience,didn't you feel divorce
parties are to be avoided. Please click above.
We've all seen and heard of Wedding Photographers and Wedding Photo books. Years ago I tried to advertise the service of Divorce Photos with flyers on how to take Divorce photos at things like Divorce Parties...why not, Divorces are just as happy, jubilant occasions and most times a huge relief, so why not have photos of the actual divorce,(especially 'action shots' be the divorce a happy ending for both parties or one of raging acrimony...Divorces are a very important occasion(s) in our lives and deserve to be immortalized... And yes, I actually got several responses!
postivethinkerOPkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India682 posts
solitare: We've all seen and heard of Wedding Photographers and Wedding Photo books. Years ago I tried to advertise the service of Divorce Photos with flyers on how to take Divorce photos at things like Divorce Parties...why not, Divorces are just as happy, jubilant occasions and most times a huge relief, so why not have photos of the actual divorce,(especially 'action shots' be the divorce a happy ending for both parties or one of raging acrimony...Divorces are a very important occasion(s) in our lives and deserve to be immortalized... And yes, I actually got several responses!
postivethinker: What about kids who are members of the family.
It was usually mothers that had the divorce parties and several had their kids at them complete with a Divorce Cake, balloons, party hats etc. After the kids went off to bed and only the adults partied on...all sorts of action shots were taken ... It was rare that a father or ex husband felt like a divorce party...
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
I agree with mjames. Would you throw a party to celibrate failure in school, or not being able to get a driver's license ? Why celebrate making a mistake in choosing the right spouce, or not being able to make a relationship work ? I think it's not right. But, that is just my opinion.
I guess if its a happy or sad event depends on your ex spouse, I don't think I would ever consider divorce something to celebrate and I hope I never have to find out what its like
What a Debate, after Giving 22 Years to a Woman and being Married and Two Grown Children, I didnt know wheather to Celebrate, or Cry,
But the end came, so I guess It must be celebrated as an honor to time spent.....
We did our time, Now we are Released from Commitment,
I do see a time to walk away as a Blessing in some cases...
Tho Life doesnt end here.....
Divorice is a sad thing, But Freedom again,
Gives us a Renueing of the Mind, and the best thing we have Gained from it is, It has taught us lessons of Love, It seems now to be Hope for the future....
Hoping that we make better Choices than we did Before.....
Do we Celebrate it????????
Maybe that is just a life lesson, Maybe we wont jump so quick next time,
I have never got through divorce experience, I am just lucky girl... fact is, to survive and find own way of life without Husband/Wife must be tough and painful. But ... at last after several months when all calm down to organise party and in funny way to put the full stop after all... could be a good idea
I dont think Divorice is anyting to Celebrate either, But To Retain our Freedom from one who does You wrong, May be grounds to be happy again..... sad as it is.....
We cannot forget to keep on living, despite what another has poured out on us,
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
HotrodLarrys: I dont think Divorice is anyting to Celebrate either, But To Retain our Freedom from one who does You wrong, May be grounds to be happy again..... sad as it is.....
We cannot forget to keep on living, despite what another has poured out on us, Hello Beauiful...
Yeah regaining freedom is sometimes something to look forward to... but Even though I wanted the divorce It was still a very sad and emotional time, especially when children are involved
SummerUK: Yeah regaining freedom is sometimes something to look forward to... but Even though I wanted the divorce It was still a very sad and emotional time, especially when children are involved
Yea I Know,
But If we stop there that were we will find Ourselves,
Love isnt as easy to find as many think it is, and kids dont make Love stick.....
SummerUK: Soz Larry but Ive read that 3 times and I still have no clue what you're trying to say
Two Pieces of Tape that have sticky on both sides, CLING Togather, if only one has sticky and the other dont, then it is Useless to stick to an oily surface
In my situation, a celebration is in order, I did get a raw deal.
But I do not think all divorces are to celebrate. The lawyer for my divorce is getting a divorce now. They spent 8 years together. They were living together 5? Then while I was having my divorce processed, they got married. They already had a 3 year old. Then she had another child. She says her life was awful, I think he was very demanding.
Now a 2 year old and a 6 year old split up from a family unit. It made me very sad to hear about. No party for them because of the kids. I got to see a video of the kids and it was very hard to watch. The 2 year old doesn't know what is going on but the 5 year old does.
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happy birthday parties.......with cake But Drs. have warned
that, if you feel that a"divorce party" is somthing you
want,make sure that your kids are not invited as they will be
hurted and confussed that is why you need to consider seriously
your kid's feeling.
By your conscience,didn't you feel divorce
parties are to be avoided. Please click above.