I can be a little pessimist when it comes to dating (I've had so many dates in 4 years that I don't trust anything or anyone nowadays). It takes me a while to relax (that's why I like bars or restuarants on a first date...shoooo....RELAX).
But I get optimistic when it's going good and he wants to see me again (and we are still seeing each other after 2 months).
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
I hope for the best and crave it.Sadly we dont always get what we want out of life so i would put myself as a realist rather than in the two categories.
What i truly believe in is never underestimate human kinds efforts to steer towards stupidity and then try to blame it on someone else when the wheels fall off the apple cart.
People have to wake up and take responsibility for their actions.
Here's some optimistic beer to cheer on some of the people that require some dutch courage to do whats right as the conscience hust have gone for a walk
case in point: Chica (though having a bad hair day) ---> thinks, "Ah, new day...let's check out c.s. ...hey, maybe someone sent moi a flower"....ever the optimist, aye?
:::types in name & password...finger is a hair's breath from clicking 'enter' when, bam! ... some uninvited voice in my head whispers, "Naw, there won't be a flor today missy"...pessimism (sp?) hurdles itself right in...every single stinkin' time.
gringa: case in point: Chica (though having a bad hair day) ---> thinks, "Ah, new day...let's check out c.s. ...hey, maybe someone sent moi a flower"....ever the optimist, aye?
:::types in name & password...finger is a hair's breath from clicking 'enter' when, bam! ... some uninvited voice in my head whispers, "Naw, there won't be a flor today missy"...pessimism (sp?) hurdles itself right in...every single stinkin' time.
There is no either/or, no black and white: there are gray areas portiea we think alike ever thing to me is either black or white thats the onley i can see things sorry to the ones that dont agree,but that the the way i alwas have things they are real or there not ron
chevy95: There is no either/or, no black and white: there are gray areas portiea we think alike ever thing to me is either black or white thats the onley i can see things sorry to the ones that dont agree,but that the the way i alwas have things they are real or there not ron
chevy95: There is no either/or, no black and white: there are gray areas portiea we think alike ever thing to me is either black or white thats the onley i can see things sorry to the ones that dont agree,but that the the way i alwas have things they are real or there not ron
Seems to me you two are saying exactly the opposite thing
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