What is the best way to break up with someone? (77)
sxc666: Why 4 months. I think i would warrant face to face at any point in a relationship.
For me, 4 months is just a "getting to know you" phase. Speaking for myself here..
I"m pretty vocal about my feelings so, if something happened that would make me want to cut off all contact, they already know why.
The times that I have cut off contact with guys in that Fashion (no call back, ignore, avoid etc.) they deserved it and I don't
feel bad about it.
princess49503: For me, 4 months is just a "getting to know you" phase. Speaking for myself here..
I"m pretty vocal about my feelings so, if something happened that would make me want to cut off all contact, they already know why.
The times that I have cut off contact with guys in that Fashion (no call back, ignore, avoid etc.) they deserved it and I don't
feel bad about it.
I"m pretty vocal about my feelings so, if something happened that would make me want to cut off all contact, they already know why.
The times that I have cut off contact with guys in that Fashion (no call back, ignore, avoid etc.) they deserved it and I don't
feel bad about it.
If it was just that we were better off friends, then yes.....face to face....
.I'm not gonna hurt a guys feelings if he's a good person
froggy1: Oh well, those movies weren't so great anyway. The ones that I made with my last boyfriend were much better.
Oh, by the way, no reason to come and pick up your stuff after all. I already sold all that on ebay too.
Oh, by the way, no reason to come and pick up your stuff after all. I already sold all that on ebay too.
Ha,, and you said that I was the first!
Be honest..
rasgumby: LMAO!
Seriously..... I am alone because I do it all better than any woman I have met yet. Especially the cooking
Seriously..... I am alone because I do it all better than any woman I have met yet. Especially the cooking
Well, I'd kinda like to do it at least over the phone, but that's kinda hard when they won't call. 
And then there's the ones you've already broken up with, that won't stop calling!
Jeez, I just can't win!
And then there's the ones you've already broken up with, that won't stop calling!
Jeez, I just can't win!
Ideally face to face , one ocassion i did up and run with my children was because the relationship was violent, and he had threatened me if i ever tried to leave him
morganlee: Ideally face to face , one ocassion i did up and run with my children was because the relationship was violent, and he had threatened me if i ever tried to leave him
He sounds like a right charmer!! Thank God you were brave enough to make a run for it.
Eyeball to Eyeball....
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well...I don't get how people can care for someone at some point and yet want to treat them like crap when saying goodbye...Ignoring...or any other medium...doesn't that seem kind of cruel and selfish....Would you want someone just to ignore you???????
People stop caring about the other for a number of reasons. Love turns selfish and that is the point of the break-up. With so many loons out there, the potential for violence ca and should be avoided with a face-to-face at times. A box of dead flowers maibe with thorns would be better with a card: 'You're history, have a nice day' would suffice or a post card from some far away exotic place: 'Having wonderful time; happy you're not here!' can also work well. Less melodramatic and 'messy' Either way, it avoids recriminations and jealous outrage...or a smack or drink, or even a pie in the face...%D
solitare: People stop caring about the other for a number of reasons. Love turns selfish and that is the point of the break-up. With so many loons out there, the potential for violence ca and should be avoided with a face-to-face at times. A box of dead flowers maibe with thorns would be better with a card: 'You're history, have a nice day' would suffice or a post card from some far away exotic place: 'Having wonderful time; happy you're not here!' can also work well. Less melodramatic and 'messy' Either way, it avoids recriminations and jealous outrage...or a smack or drink, or even a pie in the face...%D
solitare: People stop caring about the other for a number of reasons. Love turns selfish and that is the point of the break-up. With so many loons out there, the potential for violence ca and should be avoided with a face-to-face at times. A box of dead flowers maibe with thorns would be better with a card: 'You're history, have a nice day' would suffice or a post card from some far away exotic place: 'Having wonderful time; happy you're not here!' can also work well. Less melodramatic and 'messy' Either way, it avoids recriminations and jealous outrage...or a smack or drink, or even a pie in the face...%D
True I suppose...I will start using a singing telegram...maybe that will lessen the blow.....
solitare: People stop caring about the other for a number of reasons. Love turns selfish and that is the point of the break-up. With so many loons out there, the potential for violence ca and should be avoided with a face-to-face at times. A box of dead flowers maibe with thorns would be better with a card: 'You're history, have a nice day' would suffice or a post card from some far away exotic place: 'Having wonderful time; happy you're not here!' can also work well. Less melodramatic and 'messy' Either way, it avoids recriminations and jealous outrage...or a smack or drink, or even a pie in the face...%D
Why not just keep it simple with...''This isn't going to work out.''
Assuming you're both mature adults.I'D RATHER HAVE A WOMAN tell me that she's lost feelings for me than have her cheat behind my back or keep the relationship dragging if she doesn't want to be in it anymore.I'm a grown man.....I can take it.
rasgumby: Robbie said.. what a charmer, correct me if I am wrong here, but usually these type of men start out being just that.
Charmers , smooth talkers and life of the party.
then turn drastically once you are hooked.
you are right, really had no idea at all what i was getting into, and everyone else thought he was a great guyCharmers , smooth talkers and life of the party.
then turn drastically once you are hooked.
Hugz_n_Kissez: True I suppose...I will start using a singing telegram...maybe that will lessen the blow.....
singing telegram
I love it! I will look for one in the yellow pages
morganlee: you are right, really had no idea at all what i was getting into, and everyone else thought he was a great guy
They are the worst of all Morgan. What people see is the most charming caring guy, you see the 'if only people knew'.
how about honesty???
I don't want to see you anymore. It didn't work out, I wish you luck in the future, Have a nice day!! This can be done over coffee, drinks(not recommended) or while with friends, even over dinner. But, let's try honesty, for a change
I don't want to see you anymore. It didn't work out, I wish you luck in the future, Have a nice day!! This can be done over coffee, drinks(not recommended) or while with friends, even over dinner. But, let's try honesty, for a change
shipoker55: how about honesty???
I don't want to see you anymore. It didn't work out, I wish you luck in the future, Have a nice day!! This can be done over coffee, drinks(not recommended) or while with friends, even over dinner. But, let's try honesty, for a change
I don't want to see you anymore. It didn't work out, I wish you luck in the future, Have a nice day!! This can be done over coffee, drinks(not recommended) or while with friends, even over dinner. But, let's try honesty, for a change
that is the ideal way
but let face real life
peolle get invoved withut geting to know each other
it is easy later to ignore the phone calls because the one calling is a stranger
yes, ideally they will get to know each other well enought as to wanting to be involved, and then later if things do not work the respect they have for each other will make talk face to face and split in frinedly terms
but that is ideal
you may be right....but I have no problem telling someone when it's over.
shipoker55: you may be right....but I have no problem telling someone when it's over.
i agree ship honesty is best, but sometimes that's just not possible 
Well, my last was an LDR, so face to face wasn't possible.
I, um, started thinking with the right head and made a two-page list of differences to talk about seriously and didn't make it past number five. She wasn't into serious...
...Anyhoo, it was gentle enough so that we're still friends.
I, um, started thinking with the right head and made a two-page list of differences to talk about seriously and didn't make it past number five. She wasn't into serious...
...Anyhoo, it was gentle enough so that we're still friends.
no question,,,,face to face, heart felt. For those great distances, A phone and a cam at the very least. There is no excuse for any less. I will say however, Communication is not easy for all on that level, so unfortunately heartbreak can be even more hurtful than it has to be. Good thread, though a very deep sigh for many.
keytone: no question,,,,face to face, heart felt. For those great distances, A phone and a cam at the very least. There is no excuse for any less. I will say however, Communication is not easy for all on that level, so unfortunately heartbreak can be even more hurtful than it has to be. Good thread, though a very deep sigh for many.
sxc666:
very kind ;-}
Face to face is best. If you have time and not in a hurry to get rid, then make them break up with you first.
It is easier on them if it's what you want anyway. Just say and do things that annoy them and they get angry and leave.........
It works for me every time.
It is easier on them if it's what you want anyway. Just say and do things that annoy them and they get angry and leave.........
It works for me every time.
gingerb: Face to face is best. If you have time and not in a hurry to get rid, then make them break up with you first.
It is easier on them if it's what you want anyway. Just say and do things that annoy them and they get angry and leave.........
It works for me every time.
so?? either face to face or just manipulate them by agitation to anger?It is easier on them if it's what you want anyway. Just say and do things that annoy them and they get angry and leave.........
It works for me every time.
wow..I guess we be forwarned.
marikin: When a relationship is doomed from the very beginning, nothing significant has happened, a courteous mail is enough.
If people have a story, definitively face to face
If people have a story, definitively face to face
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And how do you prefer that someone break up with you?
In an answer... like a man.
Do it yourself, as close to in person as possible & let everyone speak their peace.