Good point Boomboom....a long as you stay bitter the other person has control over you..you cant move on unless you take away their control by letting it go..
its natural to become angry ..Im not saying I dont ever get angry with somethings in life because I do..extremely angry sometimes but I deal with the anger and move on from it..I had a friend who died last year a sad lonely death ..she had close family around her who had distanced themselves from her because of her bitterness towards them over the last two yrs..it was so sad to see this and witness the bitter woman she became before she died..
boomboom_uk: its natural to become angry ..Im not saying I dont ever get angry with somethings in life because I do..extremely angry sometimes but I deal with the anger and move on from it..I had a friend who died last year a sad lonely death ..she had close family around her who had distanced themselves from her because of her bitterness towards them over the last two yrs..it was so sad to see this and witness the bitter woman she became before she died..
could be but i,m not, all about women.. its more acute confusion, and and the fact i,m running out of time, my pet hate is women who show there bitterness to me, never given me a chance, and judge all men the same now that does piss me off, but not bitter, could be maybe should be not in my nature.....................
Ummm No. WTH would you want to go through life being bitter for? Nobody likes a bitterball either. Thats just packing a lot of uneccesary baggage. Good grief!
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .
its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .
but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful
just my thoughts . . .how about yours??
Life is hard! If someone told you it wasn't then someone told you a lie. Learn from your mistakes and hardships and move on. Let the hard stuff make you a better person, not tough and cynical, better!
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IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER(Vote Below)
its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .
but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful
just my thoughts . . .how about yours??