IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER ( Archived) (46)

Oct 22, 2011 11:41 AM CSTIS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy
mrLonelyboymrLonelyboyvictoria, British Columbia, Canada14 Threads 12 Polls 81 Posts

IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER(Vote Below)

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YES ITS EASY TO BE BITTER
42
64%
NO IM NOT BITTER ABOUT ANYTHING
24
36%
Total Votes
66
I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??
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Oct 22, 2011 11:57 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Zellarrone1online today!
Zellarrone1online today!Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??
I definitely ain't the tender and thankful type so I voted to be a bitterbody professor
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Oct 22, 2011 12:19 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Zellarrone1: I definitely ain't the tender and thankful type so I voted to be a bitterbody


But you do look quite stunning wearing black Zell .....laugh wave
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Oct 22, 2011 1:17 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy
mrLonelyboymrLonelyboyvictoria, British Columbia Canada14 Threads 12 Polls 81 Posts
Zellarrone1: I definitely ain't the tender and thankful type so I voted to be a bitterbody


zell thanks for your honestyhug
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Oct 22, 2011 1:22 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
For me, it depends on the subject.

If a man breaks my heart.....it will mend in time.

If he lies or steals from me, you can bet I'm bitter.

If someone on here disagrees me, I could care less. It's cyber space, who cares if they agree or disagree. It's all just talk anyway.wine
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Oct 22, 2011 3:08 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
pops666
pops666pops666Waterloo,ontario, Ontario Canada4 Threads 1,387 Posts
Good point Boomboom....a long as you stay bitter the other person has control over you..you cant move on unless you take away their control by letting it go..dancing dancing
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Oct 22, 2011 3:24 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
DBguy
DBguyDBguyDaytona Beach, Florida USA8 Threads 349 Posts
The choice is yours. You can choose to be bitter or choose to be better. It's not always easy but better is the better choiceprofessor
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Oct 22, 2011 3:27 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,493 Posts
DBguy: The choice is yours. You can choose to be bitter or choose to be better. It's not always easy but better is the better choice
Could you make it better for me? I would forget everything. EVERYTHING!laugh laugh
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Oct 22, 2011 3:28 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Its easy to fall into a bitter mindset, what is important is to recognize it and try to change it if possible.
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Oct 22, 2011 3:29 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
its natural to become angry ..Im not saying I dont ever get angry with somethings in life because I do..extremely angry sometimes but I deal with the anger and move on from it..I had a friend who died last year a sad lonely death ..she had close family around her who had distanced themselves from her because of her bitterness towards them over the last two yrs..it was so sad to see this and witness the bitter woman she became before she died..bouquet bouquet
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Oct 22, 2011 3:30 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
DBguy
DBguyDBguyDaytona Beach, Florida USA8 Threads 349 Posts
rohaan: Could you make it better for me? I would forget everything. EVERYTHING!
For a nominal fee of just $100 a hour with a minimum of 10 hours required. Hope that doesn't make you bitter laugh
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Oct 22, 2011 3:30 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
boomboom_uk: its natural to become angry ..Im not saying I dont ever get angry with somethings in life because I do..extremely angry sometimes but I deal with the anger and move on from it..I had a friend who died last year a sad lonely death ..she had close family around her who had distanced themselves from her because of her bitterness towards them over the last two yrs..it was so sad to see this and witness the bitter woman she became before she died..


:( That is sad
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Oct 22, 2011 3:34 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
No,i dont get bitter,i deal with it,and its then history.
I have better things to do in life than carry bitterness around with me.
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Oct 22, 2011 3:41 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
DBguy
DBguyDBguyDaytona Beach, Florida USA8 Threads 349 Posts
time4fun4u: No,i dont get bitter, i deal with it ,and its then history.I have better things to do in life than carry bitterness around with me.
uh oh Do you own a gun by chance uh oh
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Oct 22, 2011 3:44 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Something like that laugh cheers
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Oct 22, 2011 3:48 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Go ask a lemon.
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Oct 22, 2011 3:48 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
You called?
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Oct 22, 2011 3:49 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
could be but i,m not,
all about women.. its more acute confusion, and and the fact i,m running out of time,
my pet hate is women who show there bitterness to me,
never given me a chance, and judge all men the same
now that does piss me off, but not bitter, could be maybe should be
not in my nature.....................
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Oct 22, 2011 3:54 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
time4fun4u: You called?


May I have a little squeeze?
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Oct 22, 2011 3:56 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
laugh How could i refuse...but not my throat please bouquet
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Oct 22, 2011 3:59 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
time4fun4u: How could i refuse...but not my throat please


Not that you're likely to have any juice left by the time EW finishes with you.
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Oct 22, 2011 4:00 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
She is not after my blood is she?uh oh
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Oct 22, 2011 6:00 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??


According to the results of your poll: bitterness rules!

...nothing gets me more bitter than hypocrites!very mad
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Oct 22, 2011 6:52 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Zellarrone1online today!
Zellarrone1online today!Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
RDM59: But you do look quite stunning wearing black Zell .....
laugh santa waving
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Oct 22, 2011 9:31 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Some people who say they're never bitter are nothing but liars.
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Oct 22, 2011 10:26 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ummm No. WTH would you want to go through life being bitter for? Nobody likes a bitterball either. Thats just packing a lot of uneccesary baggage. Good grief! roll eyes
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Oct 22, 2011 10:52 PM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??


I can not afford to be bitter, life is to short to waste on such small/ego feelings.
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Oct 23, 2011 6:13 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
mrLonelyboy
mrLonelyboymrLonelyboyvictoria, British Columbia Canada14 Threads 12 Polls 81 Posts
Ccincy: Some people who say they're never bitter are nothing but liars.


bitter liars.... thats lowuh oh
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Oct 23, 2011 6:16 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??
nobodys perfect,ask for forgiveness.then forget it.
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Oct 23, 2011 6:39 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
Callie72
Callie72Callie72Cookville, Tennessee USA95 Posts
mrLonelyboy: I think its easy to be bitter . . sometimes i do get upset and need to manage my feelings to not become too bitter . .

its easy i think to harden ones heart and be bitter . .

but i think it is also not that hard to forgive and be tender and thankful

just my thoughts . . .how about yours??


Life is hard! If someone told you it wasn't then someone told you a lie. Learn from your mistakes and hardships and move on. Let the hard stuff make you a better person, not tough and cynical, better!
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Oct 23, 2011 6:47 AM CST IS IT HARD SOMETIMES NOT TO BE BITTER
pebbles8bambam
pebbles8bambampebbles8bambamnear the black spur victoria, Victoria Australia36 Threads 958 Posts
sometimes it takes a while to move on ,but youre rightthumbs up
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