Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? (50)

Oct 31, 2011 4:17 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Futark: Not sure I agree this site is all about dating... have received the oddest messages here where people book date and time for a date without even introducing themselves... do I feel obliged to answer them? not really..


Hi Futark

oddest messages and booking dates, first message = scammer.
So agreed.

Andy
Oct 31, 2011 4:22 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Tulefel: Three times I’ve taken initiative and sent messages first, and none of them was answered. Did I expect an answer? Yes, I did, otherwise I wouldn’t send them.

I send “Happy New Year!” flowers every New Year to them who haven’t behaved (ie to people I like), and most of them are answered, though in this case I don’t expect it, but it’s pleasant nonetheless. Note to self: Include Mazza1980 in the coming New Year list, or else he’d die of thirst.


3 times.....wow !
In how long ( if i may ask ? )
and you did expect a reply
That's irony for you , huh ???
I figure you need to send 9 replies...you may get a reply then
of course, no guarantees of decency / normality or interest...
seems it's just a numbers game then ?
Oct 31, 2011 4:36 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
JAN_is: No you don´t have to spell anything out. Your thread did not specifically request responses from only people interested in dating. You asked a general, open question, and we have responded accordingly as far as I can see.

Some of us may have joined initially with the expectation of dating, and I for one have had several CS dates in the past, and receive mail which I often do not respond to, so I felt it was appropriate to post here.

You know, sometimes your posts are rather abrupt, if you don´t mind me saying, and that may have been noticed by others.


My mistake then......by definition since this a dating site...i took that for granted.....my apologies.
So time has turned expectation into .....?
No I don't mind you saying....at least you have the good manners to be chatty...unlike the wicked witch elsewhere.....agreed , it must be all my business years.....I was often referred to as abrasive rolling on the floor laughing
But I always got things done...whilst the critics sat on their bums !
It's simply that I am really busy and only sitting here now, out of courtesy...to take the time to reply ( didnt know a poll could be replied to ! )
Abrupt....only sometimes
Otherwise I consider myself to be extraordinarily normal and pleasant...quite soft and gooey even ( at times )
but observation noted and wider point understood
leopards aint gonna change their spots , are they ?
Andy angel devil
Oct 31, 2011 4:45 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Lillym: Me Too...


OMG......another one ! doh
But you are looking for friends ?
So where and how would you meet them ( on this site ? )

Andy
Oct 31, 2011 4:47 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Phoenix: I couldn't care less if they replied or not...Some do and some don't..And some don't even bother opening them.


Agreed to the last 2 sections....
But you still want more knotches, right ?
Nov 4, 2011 1:32 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
EssJay
EssJayEssJayDevon, England UK63 Threads 3,340 Posts
"Isn't a reply just simple good manners?"...my vote.

That's the way I was bought up...good manners cost nothing.
Nov 4, 2011 2:38 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
iamamm: Much Ado about almost nothing then ?
So you must be over 41 and female ?
That would explain a lot...
any more comments ?


Good that my age and gender explain you ”a lot”. For me a person’s age and gender don’t explain anything, it’s just information about one’s age and gender.
Nov 4, 2011 2:42 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
iamamm: 3 times.....wow !
In how long ( if i may ask ? )
and you did expect a reply
That's irony for you , huh ???
I figure you need to send 9 replies...you may get a reply then
of course, no guarantees of decency / normality or interest...
seems it's just a numbers game then ?


Well… I’m glad you see irony in this.
Nov 4, 2011 6:57 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Good that my age and gender explain you ”a lot”. For me a person’s age and gender don’t explain anything, it’s just information about one’s age and gender.



Not a nobel prize is needed to see that you are a female!!

rolling on the floor laughing

And for your age, you do look younger!

He might need to get lensses. professor


wave
Nov 5, 2011 5:36 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: Not a nobel prize is needed to see that you are a female!!



And for your age, you do look younger!

He might need to get lensses.


Thanks for the compliment, very pleasant indeed, though I don’t feel younger right now. bowing

Actually a few times I’ve encountered people on this forum, who claimed that they know a lot about me, though I never correspondent with them, let alone met in person. Then, after they learned something about me and it turned not to coincide with their primary version, they accused me of lying. It went like: “I thought that you were this and that, but now I see that it’s not true.” It’s never failed to make me neigh as an elk (though I know it’s not nice). grin

People of that kind are much worst in the real life, especially when you depend on them in one or another way. But so far I was lucky, and my current direct chief is a clever person – his conclusions about me are based on results of my work, not on my age and gender.

cheering
Nov 5, 2011 12:06 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Thanks for the compliment, very pleasant indeed, though I don’t feel younger right now.

Actually a few times I’ve encountered people on this forum, who claimed that they know a lot about me, though I never correspondent with them, let alone met in person. Then, after they learned something about me and it turned not to coincide with their primary version, they accused me of lying. It went like: “I thought that you were this and that, but now I see that it’s not true.” It’s never failed to make me neigh as an elk (though I know it’s not nice).

People of that kind are much worst in the real life, especially when you depend on them in one or another way. But so far I was lucky, and my current direct chief is a clever person – his conclusions about me are based on results of my work, not on my age and gender.


tip hat

My father used to say:

Take the words from which they come.

Virtual communication is just part of the many ways to communicate and here we do not see the body language, tone of the voice….. Even though we can have a pretty good idea of how people are and who they are the same they get it from me or you.

The basics of people can be seen trough virtual communication and I like to see people on the foundation of their hearth.
Good hearth is the best to me.

There was a thread at the International forums some time ago and had a question about Who you are? My response:

Anything good you see in me is real.
Anything bad you see in me is worse in real life.

grin

wave

Have a great weekend T!
Nov 5, 2011 1:57 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: My father used to say:

Take the words from which they come.

Virtual communication is just part of the many ways to communicate and here we do not see the body language, tone of the voice….. Even though we can have a pretty good idea of how people are and who they are the same they get it from me or you.

The basics of people can be seen trough virtual communication and I like to see people on the foundation of their hearth.
Good hearth is the best to me.

There was a thread at the International forums some time ago and had a question about Who you are? My response:

Anything good you see in me is real.
Anything bad you see in me is worse in real life.





Have a great weekend T!


wave

Wat? I never thought that it may be worse! I’ve been exercising diligently during many-many years and was convinced that I, at last, reached the top of the perfect worseness.

grin
Nov 5, 2011 3:38 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Wat? I never thought that it may be worse! I’ve been exercising diligently during many-many years and was convinced that I, at last, reached the top of the perfect worseness.



Perfection in worseness ?

No, I think there is always room for improvement.

grin

laugh
Nov 5, 2011 5:24 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: Perfection in worseness ?

No, I think there is always room for improvement.



hug


Oh, I will improve! ’ve already found a manual for it: “Improvement of the perfect worseness”.



laugh
Nov 5, 2011 6:33 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Oh, I will improve! ’ve already found a manual for it: “Improvement of the perfect worseness”.




rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 5, 2011 7:31 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
lifeisadream: There was a thread at the International forums some time ago and had a question about Who you are? My response:

Anything good you see in me is real.
Anything bad you see in me is worse in real life.


wave A case off: wink

grin

Tulefel: Oh, I will improve! ’ve already found a manual for it: “Improvement of the perfect worseness”.


wave rolling on the floor laughing Ah now.. there is always hope, just as there is always Cookies!!! wink


cool
Nov 6, 2011 7:39 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Yash124g: A case off:


Ah now.. there is always hope, just as there is always Cookies!!!


Always felt envy to those who can eat candies without a second thought. sigh

Life isn’t fair, is it?

laugh
Nov 6, 2011 1:41 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
lifeisadream: Nice video thanks S!

Another one, although you might have seen it before.


I've not seen it and thank you for sharing.. hug fascinating, though little surprised that Fibonacci was a man, given the proportions men normally think off!! doh grin cool
Nov 6, 2011 1:49 PM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Yash124g: A case off:


Ah now.. there is always hope, just as there is always Cookies!!!


Bad, good and ugly???

shock

Nothing ugly!

snooty

laugh


For the cookies:

I have not a sweet tooth and I would have one little one if they are home cooked like peanutbutter, Macadamia or oat-raisins cookie.

wave
Nov 7, 2011 9:18 AM CST Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Yash124g: I've not seen it and thank you for sharing.. fascinating, though little surprised that Fibonacci was a man, given the proportions men normally think off!!


Brilliant minds are given in both genders and in all their "expressions".

coffee
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