Futark: Not sure I agree this site is all about dating... have received the oddest messages here where people book date and time for a date without even introducing themselves... do I feel obliged to answer them? not really..
Hi Futark
oddest messages and booking dates, first message = scammer. So agreed.
Tulefel: Three times I’ve taken initiative and sent messages first, and none of them was answered. Did I expect an answer? Yes, I did, otherwise I wouldn’t send them.
I send “Happy New Year!” flowers every New Year to them who haven’t behaved (ie to people I like), and most of them are answered, though in this case I don’t expect it, but it’s pleasant nonetheless. Note to self: Include Mazza1980 in the coming New Year list, or else he’d die of thirst.
3 times.....wow ! In how long ( if i may ask ? ) and you did expect a reply That's irony for you , huh ??? I figure you need to send 9 replies...you may get a reply then of course, no guarantees of decency / normality or interest... seems it's just a numbers game then ?
JAN_is: No you don´t have to spell anything out. Your thread did not specifically request responses from only people interested in dating. You asked a general, open question, and we have responded accordingly as far as I can see.
Some of us may have joined initially with the expectation of dating, and I for one have had several CS dates in the past, and receive mail which I often do not respond to, so I felt it was appropriate to post here.
You know, sometimes your posts are rather abrupt, if you don´t mind me saying, and that may have been noticed by others.
My mistake then......by definition since this a dating site...i took that for granted.....my apologies. So time has turned expectation into .....? No I don't mind you saying....at least you have the good manners to be chatty...unlike the wicked witch elsewhere.....agreed , it must be all my business years.....I was often referred to as abrasive But I always got things done...whilst the critics sat on their bums ! It's simply that I am really busy and only sitting here now, out of courtesy...to take the time to reply ( didnt know a poll could be replied to ! ) Abrupt....only sometimes Otherwise I consider myself to be extraordinarily normal and pleasant...quite soft and gooey even ( at times ) but observation noted and wider point understood leopards aint gonna change their spots , are they ? Andy
iamamm: Much Ado about almost nothing then ? So you must be over 41 and female ? That would explain a lot... any more comments ?
Good that my age and gender explain you ”a lot”. For me a person’s age and gender don’t explain anything, it’s just information about one’s age and gender.
iamamm: 3 times.....wow ! In how long ( if i may ask ? ) and you did expect a reply That's irony for you , huh ??? I figure you need to send 9 replies...you may get a reply then of course, no guarantees of decency / normality or interest... seems it's just a numbers game then ?
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Tulefel: Good that my age and gender explain you ”a lot”. For me a person’s age and gender don’t explain anything, it’s just information about one’s age and gender.
Not a nobel prize is needed to see that you are a female!!
lifeisadream: Not a nobel prize is needed to see that you are a female!!
And for your age, you do look younger!
He might need to get lensses.
Thanks for the compliment, very pleasant indeed, though I don’t feel younger right now.
Actually a few times I’ve encountered people on this forum, who claimed that they know a lot about me, though I never correspondent with them, let alone met in person. Then, after they learned something about me and it turned not to coincide with their primary version, they accused me of lying. It went like: “I thought that you were this and that, but now I see that it’s not true.” It’s never failed to make me neigh as an elk (though I know it’s not nice).
People of that kind are much worst in the real life, especially when you depend on them in one or another way. But so far I was lucky, and my current direct chief is a clever person – his conclusions about me are based on results of my work, not on my age and gender.
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Tulefel: Thanks for the compliment, very pleasant indeed, though I don’t feel younger right now.
Actually a few times I’ve encountered people on this forum, who claimed that they know a lot about me, though I never correspondent with them, let alone met in person. Then, after they learned something about me and it turned not to coincide with their primary version, they accused me of lying. It went like: “I thought that you were this and that, but now I see that it’s not true.” It’s never failed to make me neigh as an elk (though I know it’s not nice).
People of that kind are much worst in the real life, especially when you depend on them in one or another way. But so far I was lucky, and my current direct chief is a clever person – his conclusions about me are based on results of my work, not on my age and gender.
My father used to say:
Take the words from which they come.
Virtual communication is just part of the many ways to communicate and here we do not see the body language, tone of the voice….. Even though we can have a pretty good idea of how people are and who they are the same they get it from me or you.
The basics of people can be seen trough virtual communication and I like to see people on the foundation of their hearth. Good hearth is the best to me.
There was a thread at the International forums some time ago and had a question about Who you are? My response:
Anything good you see in me is real. Anything bad you see in me is worse in real life.
Virtual communication is just part of the many ways to communicate and here we do not see the body language, tone of the voice….. Even though we can have a pretty good idea of how people are and who they are the same they get it from me or you.
The basics of people can be seen trough virtual communication and I like to see people on the foundation of their hearth. Good hearth is the best to me.
There was a thread at the International forums some time ago and had a question about Who you are? My response:
Anything good you see in me is real. Anything bad you see in me is worse in real life.
Have a great weekend T!
Wat? I never thought that it may be worse! I’ve been exercising diligently during many-many years and was convinced that I, at last, reached the top of the perfect worseness.
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Tulefel: Wat? I never thought that it may be worse! I’ve been exercising diligently during many-many years and was convinced that I, at last, reached the top of the perfect worseness.
Another one, although you might have seen it before.
I've not seen it and thank you for sharing.. fascinating, though little surprised that Fibonacci was a man, given the proportions men normally think off!!
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Yash124g: I've not seen it and thank you for sharing.. fascinating, though little surprised that Fibonacci was a man, given the proportions men normally think off!!
Brilliant minds are given in both genders and in all their "expressions".
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Hi Futark
oddest messages and booking dates, first message = scammer.
So agreed.
Andy