Kaybee50: "When you get to know someone, all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with beauty or looks. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, want to own it. You can love it with your eyes and your body, but not your heart. That’s why when you really connect with a person, any physical imperfections really disappear, become irrelevant".
MeanwhileinBali: By the way, if your "5" is referring to your photo ratings on here than keep in mind that it's more about the picture then the person. Well, at least I'm conscious enough to judge the picture and NOT the person's looks. If I can see the person on the picture clearly or it gives me a feeling about the person, what they're up and about I'll give them a "9" - never mind whether they're ugly as the night well, out then. For bathroom pictures I'll always give a "1" even it would be Dave Gahan cos gee, where's the esthetic and style in that?! Try putting up some more picture of yourself (without a phone camera in your hand!) and see what's happening. Keep in mind, only you've the right to be your judge and in that sense be more gentle with yourself
Hi, I wasn't talking about myself or seeking any picture advice. It's a general question I was curious about. Thanks anyway
Nov 16, 2011 6:40 AM CST Fellas, would you date a woman who is only a 5 looks-wise?
crisanthpaulCochin, Kerala, India, Kerala India1 Posts
crisanthpaulCochin, Kerala, India, Kerala India1 posts
Would you date a woman that's a 5 in the looks department?
Yes. because in simple sentences it goes like this. You have the best stuff in your home. You had it with her once, twice, thrice. Then what you will do with it?
It does not matter much honey. But you have to have some real good inner beauty. Otherwise you are, I do not know what to say.
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How do you know you are a 5?