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Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ??? (39)

Jul 6, 2008 11:01 AM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
Sweet_Insomniac
Sweet_InsomniacSweet_InsomniacNewark, California USA1 Posts
I think male virgins are awesome. So excitable! Such enthusiasm! Sure, they don't last as long, but that's okay. And I think they tend to be more romantic and less jaded because they don't have that kind of baggage. It's great to be the first. And if their saving themselves for someone special, that's pretty sweet.
Jul 6, 2008 11:51 AM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland152 Threads 1 Polls 13,318 Posts
gingerb: I think it's a mental state being a virgin over 30, that would be hard to deal with. I'd have to know the reasons why he had wanted to stay this way, or was it that he just never made the effort to try to get laid. Was there some aberation that contributed. Does/did he think sex was dirty etc. Is/was he excessively shy? Does/did he think people would know what he was doing and does he care what people think? Is/was he ocd and looking for perfection before indulging? Is/was he phobic about being naked or having close contact with another human being?

Let's face it, it's not exactly normal by today's societial standards for this to happen. It would ring alarm bells for me.






Nooooooooooooo.........he needs manual instructions to know where to place it.......rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 6, 2008 12:52 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
crotalus_p: What is normal ???


I did quantify by today's societal standards. Or did you miss that on purpose looking for an arguement?
Jul 6, 2008 1:51 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland57 Threads 7 Polls 3,812 Posts
gingerb: Or did you miss that on purpose looking for an arguement?


No my dear I was not looking for an arguement roll eyes
Aug 16, 2008 3:13 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
sandman3838
sandman3838sandman3838Maryville, Tennessee USA1 Posts
Sorry for being late on this.
I'm not sure what the time limit is.....

I find it strange that here and from other sites, that they mention that hanging on to ones virginity is wonderful.
True i guess it can be but it does hurt like hell at times.
Loneliness can be devastating.


blushing
Aug 16, 2008 4:09 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
sandman3838: Sorry for being late on this.
I'm not sure what the time limit is.....

I find it strange that here and from other sites, that they mention that hanging on to ones virginity is wonderful.
True i guess it can be but it does hurt like hell at times.
Loneliness can be devastating.


There's too much emphasis put on the subject and too much importance attached to it.

It's a choice, no more no less, like choosing to shave or not, or which flavour ice cream you like.

Being a virgin doesn't make people feel better or worse, doesn't make the world a better place to live in, and sure as hell doesn't feed the starving.

It's of no importance except to those who make it so in their minds.
Aug 22, 2008 7:04 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA31 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
They did make a movie about this. rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 26, 2008 6:56 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
coreyc88
coreyc88coreyc88fall river, Massachusetts USA1 Posts
im still a virgin and it doesnt really bother me at all. i dont wear it on my sleeve like some people, but its something that i really cherish.. idk sounds corny but its how i feel.
Aug 26, 2008 7:05 PM CST Ladies Is a man being a virgin a turn off ???
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA42 Threads 560 Posts
RobbieM: Were talking concepts right? Well its a pretty straight forward concept.

There's another thread celebrating being a virgin like its a celebrity club that almost cringeworthy to read.

People should just behave!! And after all its not important is it?


when ya's got nothing to talk about, you'll talk about ANYTHING!
welcome to cyberspace, and the nut farm on CS forums...........rolling on the floor laughing



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