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Jun 8, 2012 10:56 PM CSTwhy do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
favoured27
favoured27favoured27bangkok, Central Thailand10 Threads 10 Polls 14 Posts

why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?(Vote Below)

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They Allow Work to Consume Them
4
7%
They Believe Time Has Run Out
1
2%
They Ignore Good Men/women
29
49%
They Run The Other Way
9
15%
OTHERS( DEFINE IN YOUR OWN WAY)
16
27%
Total Votes
59
love
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Jun 8, 2012 11:09 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
favoured27: love



todays world is very selfcentered people afraid to make

commitment also the work consumes them though i have a very

diffirent problem
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Jun 8, 2012 11:40 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
favoured27
favoured27favoured27bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand10 Threads 10 Polls 14 Posts
someonesvoicejee: todays world is very selfcentered people afraid to make

commitment also the work consumes them though i have a very

diffirent problem
cheers
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Jun 9, 2012 5:41 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Rubicon76
Rubicon76Rubicon76Doha, Qatar308 Posts
Gender imbalance.
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Jun 9, 2012 9:04 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
I think its because women are brainwashed to demand marriage forever no matter what and men are brainwashed to try to sleep around and refuse to commit no matter what.
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Jun 9, 2012 9:13 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
Because we are trained by the society to never be satisfied. And we don't believe in our own ability to change over time. Neither do we believe that others have that potential either.

But love isn't a trophy or a projection. If we believe or act like if it was true, it leads us wrong and we remain singles, or we will move from one flower to the next.
sad flower
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Jun 9, 2012 9:21 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Boy67
Boy67Boy67Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus379 Posts
favoured27: love
As one CS member here said this site is mostly junked airplanes.
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Jun 9, 2012 9:42 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
Hurt and pain stop the persons most of times, others expect to much
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Jun 9, 2012 9:46 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
minnie50: Hurt and pain stop the persons most of times, others expect to much
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Jun 9, 2012 10:04 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Witchaywoman: I think its because women are brainwashed to demand marriage forever no matter what and men are brainwashed to try to sleep around and refuse to commit no matter what.


Nah! I disagree! Everyone (men AND women) in today's society are simply never satisfied, and are always looking at the "greener grass" on the other side, rather than being happy with what they have.
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Jun 9, 2012 10:07 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
professor because -

I think there is a a lot of singles out there n in here because there are a lot of people in the world - there are just more people - a lot more people.

laugh laugh
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Jun 10, 2012 1:45 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Because we live in the age of choice. Peeps dont settle for less than what they need or want these days and thank goodness there is no longer society pressure to do so. wine
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Jun 10, 2012 7:16 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
morgen90210
morgen90210morgen90210singapore, Central Singapore Singapore56 Threads 55 Polls 69 Posts
Venusenvy ,not all society but most in the eastern still practice it .
The more educated you are ,the more liberal and freedom you demand ! The trend also if i'm a high school ,i want at least a degree girl ,a degree person wants the same or better !
Expectation is very high on most lists...so until we give someone a chance and lower our target ...it's a long search down the road.
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Jun 10, 2012 11:06 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Sin
And so it has been from the very beginning
Adam ate the fruit that Eve gave him

Sin
Please sit back and examine deep within
Then tell me if you are also guilty of vanity and eye-shopping!
professor

favoured27: love
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Jun 10, 2012 11:17 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
morgen90210: Venusenvy ,not all society but most in the eastern still practice it .
The more educated you are ,the more liberal and freedom you demand ! The trend also if i'm a high school ,i want at least a degree girl ,a degree person wants the same or better !
Expectation is very high on most lists...so until we give someone a chance and lower our target ...it's a long search down the road.


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Jun 10, 2012 11:28 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Carl96190
Carl96190Carl96190Gold Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 857 Posts
I would like to say all of the above to the poll options and add that in Western society it has become difficult to meet potential mates.
Once we lose touch with our peer group from school, or if we did not have such a group, then it becomes difficult.
We leave home early, crawl home late and exhausted; then get up the next day and do it all over again.
By the weekend for some people they are too exhausted to get out of bed, or have much time to do more than their cleaning, laundry and grocery shopping.
In my own case I do not meet anyone outside of my work or the karate dojo at which I train. That is just how it is.
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Jun 10, 2012 11:57 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
I would like to say all of the above to the poll options and add that in Western society it has become difficult to meet potential mates.
Once we lose touch with our peer group from school, or if we did not have such a group, then it becomes difficult.
We leave home early, crawl home late and exhausted; then get up the next day and do it all over again.
By the weekend for some people they are too exhausted to get out of bed, or have much time to do more than their cleaning, laundry and grocery shopping.
In my own case I do not meet anyone outside of my work or the k


hiya Carl wave

i agree with you Carl(now who would of thought that would ever happen... laugh) re the exhaustion. we seem to have to cram in so much more into our schedules now. remember all those promises that computers would free up our time??...lol

and perhaps...
for many folks, a buck just doesn't go as far these days. it's tough to be going out all the time under this current economic climate.
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Jun 11, 2012 1:40 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Carl96190
Carl96190Carl96190Gold Coast, Queensland Australia5 Threads 857 Posts
[quote=jono7 it's tough to be going out all the time under this current economic climate.

You got that right. blues
I am supposed to be in the top 10% of income earners. I do not drink or smoke, my gambling is a $20 per week Lotto entry, I am always looking for ways to be more economical and yet I never seem to be what one might call affluent. Perhaps it is a case of asset rich and cash poor. moping
A first meeting with a female is best over some good coffee, during daylight, so that both parties can cut and run if either of them are not comfortable.
Past that, if a women expects me to spend a lot of money courting her she is in for a major disappointment. It is just too difficult these days.
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Jun 11, 2012 6:13 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
favoured27
favoured27favoured27bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand10 Threads 10 Polls 14 Posts
Carl96190: [quote=jono7 it's tough to be going out all the time under this current economic climate.

You got that right.
I am supposed to be in the top 10% of income earners. I do not drink or smoke, my gambling is a $20 per week Lotto entry, I am always looking for ways to be more economical and yet I never seem to be what one might call affluent. Perhaps it is a case of asset rich and cash poor.
A first meeting with a female is best over some good coffee, during daylight, so that both parties can cut and run if either of them are not comfortable.
Past that, if a women expects me to spend a lot of money courting her she is in for a major disappointment. It is just too difficult these days.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 11, 2012 6:34 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
first of all, trying to find somone is hard enough..right.!!!!!.....secondly......having to meet your ....mother.in.law...to be....thats harder....still.laugh because according to her.....he/she could have done better.right...!!!!laugh plus....the future..father inlaw....looks at you...(smiles)but is thinking.....whats has the cat dragged in......laugh ..........as too your original question.......I have no idea.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 12, 2012 1:29 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Iseek
IseekIseekWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 455 Posts
Witchaywoman: I think its because women are brainwashed to demand marriage forever no matter what and men are brainwashed to try to sleep around and refuse to commit no matter what.


VERY HARSH,

And definitely not true in all cases M AND F..

I know many, many women happy to just have a loving relationship heart wings

Also many male friends who have never cheated in a relationship, I include myself.

Kind Regards
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Jun 12, 2012 1:35 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Iseek
IseekIseekWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 455 Posts
jono7:

i agree with you Carl(now who would of thought that would ever happen... ) re the exhaustion. we seem to have to cram in so much more into our schedules now. remember all those promises that computers would free up our time??...lol

and perhaps...
for many folks, a buck just doesn't go as far these days. it's tough to be going out all the time under this current economic climate.


thumbs up thumbs up bouquet
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Jun 13, 2012 6:39 PM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
If there wernt so many singles on here...

it wouldnt be called a dating site..wine
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Jun 24, 2012 2:53 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
A_Little_Lupie
A_Little_LupieA_Little_LupieHuntsville, Alabama USA153 Posts
I work 3rd shift from home, I am a single mother of two young men (the one still at home has special needs - Aspergers Syndrome) and I have Lupus (NO, it is NOT contagious and I am NOT dying, lol), so I don't really get out much...also, i'm not into the "social scene" either so this is my only option wine
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Jun 24, 2012 3:03 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Carl96190: [quote=jono7 it's tough to be going out all the time under this current economic climate.

You got that right.
I am supposed to be in the top 10% of income earners. I do not drink or smoke, my gambling is a $20 per week Lotto entry, I am always looking for ways to be more economical and yet I never seem to be what one might call affluent. Perhaps it is a case of asset rich and cash poor.
A first meeting with a female is best over some good coffee, during daylight, so that both parties can cut and run if either of them are not comfortable.
Past that, if a women expects me to spend a lot of money courting her she is in for a major disappointment. It is just too difficult these days.

Seriously with your attitude, you need to cool it, and i wouldn't be the only one thinking that, even though i irritate you, i'm just your regular.
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Jun 24, 2012 3:05 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
A_Little_Lupie
A_Little_LupieA_Little_LupieHuntsville, Alabama USA153 Posts
A_Little_Lupie: I work 3rd shift from home, I am a single mother of two young men (the one still at home has special needs - Aspergers Syndrome) and I have Lupus (NO, it is NOT contagious and I am NOT dying, lol), so I don't really get out much...also, i'm not into the "social scene" either so this is my only option


I can't tell you why everyone else is on here...we all have our reasons gotta go joy cartwheel
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Jun 24, 2012 3:07 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
i don;t have an active social life so can't meet anyone that way
over the night club scene and never done much good in night clubs anyway
i find it annoying and frustrating
so here i am on dating sites
harder then a dam night club with very loud music heavy competition
and all the girls on the dance floor with all the men at the bar

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing uh oh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing got to see the funny side or you would cry with frustration
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Jun 24, 2012 3:13 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I am here for the social aspect, given up on finding anyone
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Jun 24, 2012 3:14 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I am here for the social aspect, given up on finding anyone
Ah,but they havent given up on you.grin
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Jun 24, 2012 3:15 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
ActusReus
ActusReusActusReusSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 20 Posts
michael63ca: Nah! I disagree! Everyone (men AND women) in today's society are simply never satisfied, and are always looking at the "greener grass" on the other side, rather than being happy with what they have.


Thats it right there.
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Jun 24, 2012 3:16 AM CST why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I am here for the social aspect, given up on finding anyone


getting that way my self
but being urged to go to thailand,,,,,
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