I hope that the doctors are wrong, that maybe it was just a first opinion and that other doctors have a better answer for you. When I was younger, my family and I went through this with my grandma, she had cancer. It was terrible what it did to her and how it affected my family. At that moment I told myself that if I ever find out that I have a terminal disease, I will never tell anyone and just disappear, with a comforting letter, for them not to worry. I don't want my loved ones to suffer too. Now that I have a child I would not disappear, I don't want her to believe I abandoned her too, this would be worse. So the answer is never easy... it depends on lot of things.
I would also say that most of us have been out of high school for many years (49 years in my case), and it is just impossible to remember everything we learned in high school. So what if even native English speakers make a few mistakes now and then? My fingers work faster than my mind does, and I don't always catch my own mistakes when I post. Even though I'm an excellent speller, even I have to rely on online dictonaries occasionally. And to criticize those whose English skills are not second nature to them is ridiculous.
Jillll: I realize there are many people here for whom English is not their primary language. As long as I can understand what they are trying to say I'm happy.
same here - I congratulate them for posting in English! I can only imagine how bad some of my posting in german has been. the translator's not a bad idea tho if u want to be understood
Jillll: I realize there are many people here for whom English is not their primary language. As long as I can understand what they are trying to say I'm happy.
I agree , but if posters do want to run their posts through spell check this normally comes with your web browser & not with the site as stated earlier. On the op , surely honesty is the best policy in relationships no matter if the subject may be hard to discuss, and as the saying goes "A problem shared is a problem halved"
I would tell her, because life is about living every moment to the fullest, and that means living as you believe, and if you believe in truth, then you have to be truthful.
Honesty gives you the freedom to be completely yourself, and gives others this freedom also, to make choices that are made with thought and knowledge.
Love is a wondrous thing, and if she loves you too, or even not, true love is selfless and you must give it the opportunity to flourish, as a flower in spring. No matter the time, it is better that the world is enriched by its beauty.
By all means tell her. Grab every bit of happyness you can. We are all here for just a little while and we should take what ever love, beauty and happyness we can beg, borrow or steal. I hope i made no spelling misstakes........
Jillll: I realize there are many people here for whom English is not their primary language. As long as I can understand what they are trying to say I'm happy.
I agree, if someone makes an effort to connect with others on here this is great as the more the merrier.....
Good luck and best wishes, may all be well with you!
Jan 25, 2013 11:56 PM CST Wat wil you do wen you are in love with a women on cs,an you become sik an the docter says you have
sunshineseeker1Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa4 Posts
sunshineseeker1Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa4 posts
Sequoyahjya55: why is it that this person cant spell correctly.is it because this person lives in south africa and is a possible scammer?
Well the Dutch spelling and grammar are spot on. I am not able to spell in Dutch although reading and speaking it is a different matter. People from Europe do live in Africa you know.
Thanks for digging out an ancient Poll of a deleted Member
Before another hot discussion starts I'd like to point out that it's very unlikely the OP shared his truth with us in this Poll AND he never ever claimed it to be his truth. Native English speaker seem to be more challenged when it comes to comprehension. Not to mention common sense
However, nice to know I'm not the only member today bored out of her head
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As far as I know, CS doesn't have a spell check option.
Sure it does.
Jist spel sumthin rilly rong.
notis thuh rde underlyiningz?