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Aug 10, 2012 8:11 PM CSTAfter 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests

After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests(Vote Below)

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Say "BYE-BYE"
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Just go with the flow
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Trackhim down until yu know what his eyes say
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believe only his daughter can download the pic
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(my last resort)....MOVE ON!!!
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Other
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Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmmconfused
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Aug 10, 2012 8:18 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Come on Dove, you're a Jersey girl. You know what's going on.comfort
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Aug 10, 2012 8:20 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

sorry but, the title is just a hoot...you mean you did'nt get a clue after TWO weeks ???

grin rolling on the floor laughing

once again, sorry...rolling on the floor laughing hole
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Aug 10, 2012 8:20 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Nuuu Joyzee. << Did I get the accent right?

In all fairness, people are very naive. 8 weeks? If they haven't had a video chat after a couple of days it's bye bye. roll eyes grin
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Aug 10, 2012 8:27 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm

There's a reason a lot of people have a no pic - no reply line on their profile, I don't answer emails without pics anymore (other then from regular forum posters).
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Aug 10, 2012 8:33 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
sorry tgo state the obvious , but after 8 weeksdoh skype or a phone call! 2 days max
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Aug 10, 2012 8:35 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


Gees, after 8 weeks, a woman like YOU could already be planning the wedding!

But I would point out that either 1) He's a total dunce about computers and barely knows how to turn on the computer, let alone knows how to use a cam; or 2) He has something to hide that he doesn't want you to know about (a bad past, or physical/mental/emotional stuff, for example).
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Aug 10, 2012 8:40 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
KNenagh: Never got one, have only a limited area to get in contact with, must have been someone else.

You have a pic up, so it wouldn't have been an issue if your email was ok.
i'm horribly twisted...i assure you, my email would not have been ok...help uh oh

rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 10, 2012 8:44 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
jlw45: i'm horribly twisted...i assure you, my email would not have been ok...


Bummer, and I missed it... moping
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Aug 10, 2012 8:44 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
jlw45: i'm horribly twisted...i assure you, my email would not have been ok...


Bummer, and I missed it... moping
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Aug 10, 2012 8:47 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


don't you know that the best defense is a good offense....

talk to hand I think there is a "red flag" in this game..... leave it alone, cause he ain't genuine. .... I'm just saying.
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Aug 10, 2012 8:49 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Lucnyc
LucnycLucnycAlbrightsville, Pennsylvania USA1 Posts
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


If he is not sharing his picture, then you should be leery of him. There is no excuse in this day and age for him not to be able to manage at least 1 picture for you.
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Aug 10, 2012 8:49 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
MADDOG69: Nuuu Joyzee. << Did I get the accent right?

In all fairness, people are very naive. 8 weeks? If they haven't had a video chat after a couple of days it's bye bye.


yes if ur from new yorkrolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 10, 2012 8:50 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Lucnyc: If he is not sharing his picture, then you should be leery of him. There is no excuse in this day and age for him not to be able to manage at least 1 picture for you.
thumbs up

excellent response AND from a man - I'd listen to this!!! good post peace
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Aug 10, 2012 9:02 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
MADDOG69: Nuuu Joyzee. << Did I get the accent right?

In all fairness, people are very naive. 8 weeks? If they haven't had a video chat after a couple of days it's bye bye.



Yep, I agree.
It's absurd to think he's on a DATING site... and he won't manage a pic? or a video cam?? How does he expect to move "forward" (somehow)

Sweets.THe answer is clear.

He's hiding something for sure.
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Aug 10, 2012 9:06 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Lucnyc: If he is not sharing his picture, then you should be leery of him. There is no excuse in this day and age for him not to be able to manage at least 1 picture for you.


On the other hand, there are computer-challenged people like me who did not grow up with computers. It took me FOREVER to figure out how to upload even one picture, and then only after NUMEROUS poeple coached me on how to do it!! So please do not assume that "everybody" knows how to use a computer, because it's a totally false assumption. Computers weren't even AROUND when I was a kid. Just because the latest generation can use a computer doesn't mean everybody can. At 2 or 3 years of age, my kid could get online, do the Internet thing, and log off with no help at all, but that kid always had a computer around from day one. That makes a huge difference.
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Aug 10, 2012 9:17 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
WhistlingDixie
WhistlingDixieWhistlingDixieTramping Round, Cumbria, England UK8 Threads 338 Posts
Got to say to you Huggers , its true what you say ,, and its nice to think like you , giving peeps the benifit of maybe not being p.c. literate ,

But on these sites its a big Red Flag ,cause to many ungenuine peeps hide behind that excuse .
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Aug 10, 2012 11:20 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


most problems come from th " THOUGHT"try listenning to ur heart instead
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Aug 11, 2012 12:12 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
give him some time
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Aug 11, 2012 1:12 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
sirih
sirihsirihjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia50 Posts
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


Just forget it.
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Aug 11, 2012 11:24 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Wow...Thank you ALL for the excellent feedback and forward I go except a little smarter this time....Live and Learn...STILL!!! wink Have a great weekend everybody!wave
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Aug 11, 2012 11:29 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
2Whitedoves: Wow...Thank you ALL for the excellent feedback and forward I go except a little smarter this time....Live and Learn...STILL!!! Have a great weekend everybody!
handshake cheers
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Aug 11, 2012 11:30 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
2Whitedoves: Gosh, I thought this was one of the genuine men here, after MANY hours and hours of typing, when it came to the pic and me questioning it, he was really offended. I am a very peaceful woman...do I press on, or leaveit alone? Hmmmmm


O ye of little faith...grin
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Aug 11, 2012 3:27 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
NatashaKinksie
NatashaKinksieNatashaKinksiecity of angels, California USA2 Threads 131 Posts
Perhaps he has 4 eyes and 2 sets of lips one of which is on his forehead.
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Aug 11, 2012 4:07 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
I get the feeling that this guy has a major issue with low self esteem due to something involving his looks. He hates what he looks like and he feels that if you see him he will lose you for good and he just can't stand the idea. So he holds out as long as possible to keep the dream alive. I suspect this is not a new situation in his life but one that has played out for him many times before. Maybe you should make a point that you don't care what he looks like. Eventually he may send you a pic of himself.

















Then you can dump him.cool
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Aug 11, 2012 6:51 PM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
WhistlingDixie
WhistlingDixieWhistlingDixieTramping Round, Cumbria, England UK8 Threads 338 Posts
ooby_dooby: I get the feeling that this guy has a major issue with low self esteem due to something involving his looks. He hates what he looks like and he feels that if you see him he will lose you for good and he just can't stand the idea. So he holds out as long as possible to keep the dream alive. I suspect this is not a new situation in his life but one that has played out for him many times before. Maybe you should make a point that you don't care what he looks like. Eventually he may send you a pic of himself.Then you can dump him.


The Hunch Back of Notre Damme .

Now look what yea makin me writerolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2012 12:33 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
NatashaKinksie
NatashaKinksieNatashaKinksiecity of angels, California USA2 Threads 131 Posts
WhistlingDixie: The Hunch Back of Notre Damme .

Now look what yea makin me write



wink laugh
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Aug 12, 2012 12:57 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
virgosingle
virgosinglevirgosinglegreymouth, West Coast New Zealand10 Threads 347 Posts
chococherrie: sorry tgo state the obvious , but after 8 weeks skype or a phone call! 2 days max


the worst thing about skype , is finding out the women at the other only wants to get off , and nothing more


remember to do a re-verse ping on there email address to check-out their email addy to see if they are in the country they say they are in teddybear
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Aug 12, 2012 10:21 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
LILLYLADY
LILLYLADYLILLYLADYunknown, Ohio USA27 Threads 1,293 Posts
8 weeks and not showing you a pic. Has he even suggested meeting up and setting up a date, time and location? If not, then your getting your heartstrings tugged with a duping by this guy.
I didn't grow up in the computer generation either but eventually learned. There is the library where this guy can go to get some type of help.
There comes a point when you can give the benefit of a doubt for just so long until you realize that they probably aren't the right match for you anyway. Better you look for someone who is more up to your standards of courtesy and repect. 8 weeks and counting?....the writing is clear on the wall for the direction I would send this guy packing. As the song says, "Hit the road Jack, don't you come back no more, no more, no more, no more. Hit the road Jack....etc" BTW, is there no such thing as "snail mail....aka US Postal Service if you really think he is sincere and computer literacy is his problem?" To me, if he can email then he is somewhat computer literate. I think his problem is that he has "4 eyes and 2 sets of lips...with eyes and lips on his forehead and elsewhere on him" as to why he won't send his pic. JMHO!! You deserve better.
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Aug 12, 2012 10:33 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
init2010
init2010init2010Betzenstein, Bavaria Germany1 Threads 51 Posts
First you should accept his attitude. We are not to judge about others. And nobody should be forced to do anything. I think the best dates I had in my life were blind dates. When he calmed down, you could discuss the issue about picture with him again. comfort
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Aug 12, 2012 10:40 AM CST After 8 weeks He is still not sharing his pic after a couple of requests
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
I prefer not to see his picture until I get to the point of liking him for the way we communicate. You can learn a lot about a person when you focus on their personality and interests rather then focusing on what their face looks like.
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