Would you date someone who is unemployed?? ( Archived) (31)

Sep 28, 2012 7:11 AM CSTWould you date someone who is unemployed??
kmca1126
kmca1126kmca1126Loughrea, Galway, Ireland8 Threads 8 Polls 18 Posts

Would you date someone who is unemployed??(Vote Below)

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Yes, there's more to life than money
41
52%
Yes, but only if they are actively seeking work
24
30%
No, jobless are lazy
10
13%
No, I could use some extra financial support
4
5%
Total Votes
79
Would you date someone who is out of work?? Is it the money or the work life that's more important? What would your perception of a jobless person's character be?
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Sep 28, 2012 7:28 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Yep, I would date her tho it would depend on several factors
1. inheritage ( is she rich)
2.size of her heinie
3.how good can she rhyme after three mugs of beer
4.is she a member of the Olympic team in synchronized swimming
5.if she is 1m tall and has a square head
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Sep 28, 2012 7:40 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
kmca1126: Would you date someone who is out of work?? Is it the money or the work life that's more important? What would your perception of a jobless person's character be?

I wouldn't have a perception of a jobless person's character as unemployment can be a result of so many things.

I would however have a perception of the financial circumstances and I certainly wouldn't have a problem with dates involving a walk in the park carrying a bottle of tap water, or visits to free museums.

I tend to think unemployment can be good opportunity for making changes, gaining more skills and finding work which a person may enjoy than their previous employment, but then I do tend to be optimistic about creating something out of nothing.
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Sep 28, 2012 7:55 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
We have a TON of unemployed people over here right now and it's through no fault of their own. I think it would depend on the circumstances. In my age range, I would be less inclined to date someone if they have not built up any savings by now. Not because of the money itself, but because it tells me that the person probably has not made good choices throughout their life. The amount of money a person makes isn't nearly as important as what they choose to do with it. Living beyond your means is just not something I would be interested in. I've saved all my life even when I was dead broke and it wasn't easy - and I've always lived on a budget...I wouldn't be happy with someone who doesn't have the same discpline.
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Sep 28, 2012 7:57 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Been my experience that most won't give an unemployed person the time of day let alone go on a date
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Sep 28, 2012 8:06 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Of course I would. My last relationship was with am unemployed gentleman. Reasons why some are unable to work. As long as we are compatible and love being together why not?
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Sep 28, 2012 8:27 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
WhatUwish4: We have a TON of unemployed people over here right now and it's through no fault of their own. I think it would depend on the circumstances. In my age range, I would be less inclined to date someone if they have not built up any savings by now. Not because of the money itself, but because it tells me that the person probably has not made good choices throughout their life. The amount of money a person makes isn't nearly as important as what they choose to do with it. Living beyond your means is just not something I would be interested in. I've saved all my life even when I was dead broke and it wasn't easy - and I've always lived on a budget...I wouldn't be happy with someone who doesn't have the same discpline.


awww. it is much more than a ton
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Sep 28, 2012 8:44 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Its interesting that we feel the need the qualify "no fault" as the propaganda machine and prejudice works so well blaming poor people for their own poverty.
WhatUwish4: We have a TON of unemployed people over here right now and it's through no fault of their own.

That makes me think, however difficult times have been for you, you've not known abject poverty. You've not known starvation because there's nothing to put by in savings when you need every penny just to stay on your feet and keep functioning.
WhatUwish4: I think it would depend on the circumstances. In my age range, I would be less inclined to date someone if they have not built up any savings by now. Not because of the money itself, but because it tells me that the person probably has not made good choices throughout their life. The amount of money a person makes isn't nearly as important as what they choose to do with it. Living beyond your means is just not something I would be interested in. I've saved all my life even when I was dead broke and it wasn't easy - and I've always lived on a budget...I wouldn't be happy with someone who doesn't have the same discpline.

I think there are many people who would be thrilled to have a budget to work within. When you're rock bottom, its much harder to work your way up, as no doubt you know.
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Sep 28, 2012 8:53 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
kmca1126: Would you date someone who is out of work?? Is it the money or the work life that's more important? What would your perception of a jobless person's character be?


Wow, what a survey. So 33% think that just because a person is unemployed, they are lazy???? Sheesh! I had a full-time job for ten years, but was let go because of an on-the-job industrial accident. I was 63, and managed to find a food service job, but it turned out that I wasn't really cut out for that type of work. I searched for another job for at least three months, but was receiving so much age discrimination that I got discouraged and retired early the next year at 63 years of age. All those years of hard work, and this is what it comes down to. Employers claim they don't discriminate, but they lie through their teeth. Somebody needs to put some teeth into the laws so employers wouldn't dare discriminate against anyone who wants a job.

I wouldn't hesitate to date someone who's unemployed. After all, we would both be in a position to realize what it's like to be unemployed, so we would have something in common.
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Sep 28, 2012 8:57 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
kmca1126: Would you date someone who is out of work??

Is it the money or the work life that's more important? What would your perception of a jobless person's character be?


yes, hopefully he will have more time for me and do most of the house work too
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Sep 28, 2012 9:08 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
Rumple4skin
Rumple4skinRumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK4 Threads 1 Polls 980 Posts
In some ways I would find this preferable, as I neither require or want anybody else's money, but what I do want is my kids to grow up with at least one of us at home - I don't want a careerist upstart, unless she has a very respected and useful career, like a Doctor, in this case then maybe i'd look after the kids instead.
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Sep 28, 2012 9:14 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
When he's the right guy? In a heartbeat.
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Sep 28, 2012 9:16 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
kmca1126: Would you date someone who is out of work?? Is it the money or the work life that's more important? What would your perception of a jobless person's character be?

I unemployed by choice, so what?
dunno
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Sep 28, 2012 11:35 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Unemployed does not automatically mean lazy. Many times it's bad luck and stingy companies pulling up roots and moving to India so they only have to pay workers pennies compared to what they pay workers here.
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Sep 28, 2012 11:38 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
No, I don't think I would.
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Sep 28, 2012 11:42 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Nope I expect a partner to work as hard as I do ...simple as that wine
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Sep 28, 2012 11:47 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
HuggerMan4U: Wow, what a survey. So 33% think that just because a person is unemployed, they are lazy???? Sheesh! I had a full-time job for ten years, but was let go because of an on-the-job industrial accident. I was 63, and managed to find a food service job, but it turned out that I wasn't really cut out for that type of work. I searched for another job for at least three months, but was receiving so much age discrimination that I got discouraged and retired early the next year at 63 years of age. All those years of hard work, and this is what it comes down to. Employers claim they don't discriminate, but they lie through their teeth. Somebody needs to put some teeth into the laws so employers wouldn't dare discriminate against anyone who wants a job.

I wouldn't hesitate to date someone who's unemployed. After all, we would both be in a position to realize what it's like to be unemployed, so we would have something in common.


Retirement I hope is considered employed....

I think the better survey might be ask - would you date someone that is not productive or contributing to their community....

However there are a lot of reasons for unemployment - and what ever the reason.... I would not date a person who is unemployed.
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Sep 28, 2012 11:47 AM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
i worked24 hours a day since i was bornhug
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Sep 28, 2012 1:01 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Depends why and what their normal job/qualification/education is and how they finance themselves. (Some people work on the side, etc.) and what they're doing about their situation.
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Sep 28, 2012 2:58 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
I probably would if they had food stamps and one of those free obama phones. laugh Section 8 would be nice too. heart wings
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Sep 28, 2012 3:11 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
jac379: Its interesting that we feel the need the qualify "no fault" as the propaganda machine and prejudice works so well blaming poor people for their own poverty.

That makes me think, however difficult times have been for you, you've not known abject poverty. You've not known starvation because there's nothing to put by in savings when you need every penny just to stay on your feet and keep functioning.

I think there are many people who would be thrilled to have a budget to work within. When you're rock bottom, its much harder to work your way up, as no doubt you know.



"Only a fool pretends to know another or to measure the caverns through which we each individually wander."
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Sep 28, 2012 7:51 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pedro27: i worked24 hours a day since i was born
Eh, worked at what? dunno
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Sep 28, 2012 8:07 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
it would depend on the person.
everyone has strengths that they bring to a relationship.
how do we measure these?
it would sadden me to think that money would be the determining factor.
sigh
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Sep 28, 2012 8:15 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
jono7: it would depend on the person.
everyone has strengths that they bring to a relationship.
how do we measure these?
it would sadden me to think that money would be the determining factor.
Well said jono.wave
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Sep 28, 2012 8:34 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
funxsinia
funxsiniafunxsiniaButtholeville, Iowa USA9 Threads 2 Polls 328 Posts
Boban1: Yep, I would date her tho it would depend on several factors
1. inheritage ( is she rich)
2.size of her heinie
3.how good can she rhyme after three mugs of beer
4.is she a member of the Olympic team in synchronized swimming
5.if she is 1m tall and has a square head


Boban... 5. great place to put your ashtray! rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 28, 2012 8:36 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
LuckysEdge
LuckysEdgeLuckysEdgeMississauga, Ontario Canada18 Posts
I would prefer to date someone that has been or is unemployed for an extended period. When better times return, the hardship experienced will hopefully fosters compassion and empathy for others that find themselves in tough situation.
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Sep 28, 2012 8:49 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
Sk8ndnc
Sk8ndncSk8ndncAlbuquerque, New Mexico USA61 Posts
In the US:
Men would, women wouldn't.
In the Europe I remember, the lines were a little more blurry, but this may have changed.
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Sep 29, 2012 1:46 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
Simply_Pippa
Simply_PippaSimply_PippaDoha, Qatar11 Threads 1 Polls 49 Posts
He is most probably a victim of great recession..but dont dare to borrow money from me on the first date...
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Sep 29, 2012 1:51 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
dan_barry64
dan_barry64dan_barry64lucknow, Uttar Pradesh India10 Threads 199 Posts
bravo !!!!! thats a brave girl who stands apart from the herd !
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Sep 29, 2012 2:00 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
Simply_Pippa: He is most probably a victim of great recession..but dont dare to borrow money from me on the first date...


not even 100000 usd?sigh I thought u love megrin
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Sep 29, 2012 2:01 PM CST Would you date someone who is unemployed??
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
jono7: it would depend on the person.
everyone has strengths that they bring to a relationship.
how do we measure these?
it would sadden me to think that money would be the determining factor.


money, looks , nationality etc..are all factors unfortunately
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