Still, it's always the package, never just one or two qualities, imo.
Completely agree. I mean a hottie, even if he's honest, can't keep my attention and interest if he proves himself to be a complete moron, or has no sense of humor.... Am I asking too much?
SnarkyEmpath: Completely agree. I mean a hottie, even if he's honest, can't keep my attention and interest if he proves himself to be a complete moron, or has no sense of humor.... Am I asking too much?
And what is your definition of morrrrrrr…on? Perhaps some don’t measure up to your expectations placed upon them. Or, maybe it’s just easier to justify your dismissal by labeling them morons.
i think 'attractive' is many different things to different people. as well when you toss denial into the ring...honesty gets pretty subjective as well.
so i'm figuring having a heartbeat and being awake is a good place to start...
Well... there were only two choices, so I put "honesty" but you wouldn't be able to determine that from a first date anyway.
I know that it's an old cliche, but a good sense of humour is hugely important to me. It's what gets me through the day quite often! Someone could be really attractive, but if they have no sense of humour, we would have nothing in common.
but after that I guess would be a sense of humour and easy going which would help us just click and tho beauty on the outside is a part of it, it's whats in the heart that counts
jono7: i think 'attractive' is many different things to different people. as well when you toss denial into the ring...honesty gets pretty subjective as well.
so i'm figuring having a heartbeat and being awake is a good place to start...
Jono has no problem in the attractiveness department. And all it takes it being awake and having a heartbeat? If Jono ever finds herself free again, I got it made in the sun!
purr4mance: And what is your definition of morrrrrrr…on? Perhaps some don’t measure up to your expectations placed upon them. Or, maybe it’s just easier to justify your dismissal by labeling them morons.
A moron is a stupid person. A complete moron is dumber than a box of rocks, with no compliment to the rocks. Women do not want to look stupid, so women will not go with someone who continually exhibits moronic behavior and who embarrasses women all the time. Such men soon find themselves with few or no dates at all.
Although I am not into the "dating scene" anymore,...first and foremost I appreciate someone who is simply willing (and comfortable enough) to simply be themself. So, based on the two choices offered,...honesty,...to be honest and vulnerable and let their true self be presented,...and that is indeed, very attractive IMHO
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