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Aug 20, 2008 10:33 AM CSTYou've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England, UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts

You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...(Vote Below)

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You tell them that things are over
19
17%
You tell them they are not good enough for you
3
3%
You explain how you feel
84
74%
You try to change your mind
1
1%
You treat them badly or ignore
4
4%
Other - pls explain
2
2%
Total Votes
113
As for me chose 3 popcorn
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Aug 20, 2008 10:33 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
As for me chose 3 popcorn
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Aug 20, 2008 10:35 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Say it is over and explain why.
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Aug 20, 2008 10:35 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
gangel: As for me chose 3






thumbs up Yep, me too. Best to be honest about it...
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Aug 20, 2008 10:37 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Sommerauer71: Say it is over and explain why.


I agree. An explanation 'why' can give the closure needed for both parties involved...

conversing conversing conversing
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Aug 20, 2008 11:25 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
gangel: As for me chose 3


I never got that text! you mean it is all over between us? crying
lol

wave
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Aug 20, 2008 11:26 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I chose number one..SAY ITS OVER
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Aug 20, 2008 11:29 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: I chose number one..SAY ITS OVER



Ditto....wave hug teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 11:29 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Ditto....
teddybear hug bouquet heart beating
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Aug 20, 2008 11:31 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Jocelyn2008
Jocelyn2008Jocelyn2008Aire, Geneva Switzerland5 Posts
There's no other way but to explain how you feel then move on..
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Aug 20, 2008 11:40 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
If she says it is over, I will stalk her until A new victim girlfriend comes along . devil

I will tie her to the bed post with pantyhose and play with her all night long............oops... wait, That was the part she enjoyed

uh oh

But if I am the one that decides that it is over,
I will just treat her like crap till she leaves,,,,,,,,, NO....... never mind, then she would stay foreverdoh

I will treat her like a princess, buy her a nice home to live in, nice furniture, a new car, and 4 children,
then she will leave and take everything...problem solved!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 20, 2008 11:46 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Think honesty is always the best policy although it can be hard at the time
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Aug 20, 2008 11:49 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
superted
supertedsupertedmanchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 13 Posts
what happens if they dont take no for answer
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Aug 20, 2008 11:51 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
superted: what happens if they dont take no for answer



You get a restraining order!!!!!!!


professor roll eyes uh oh dunno grin
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Aug 20, 2008 11:51 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
superted: what happens if they dont take no for answer

Then tough luck to them..NO is NO
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Aug 20, 2008 11:54 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: You get a restraining order!!!!!!!


rolling on the floor laughing The cops have to be able to catch me long enough to serve one!tongue wink
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Aug 20, 2008 11:55 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
rasgumby: The cops have to be able to catch me long enough to serve one!



There you are...dialing 911.....professor scold uh oh rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 20, 2008 11:58 AM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
superted
supertedsupertedmanchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 13 Posts
its when there turn into a stalker thats scary
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Aug 20, 2008 12:01 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
I chose #3. I would explain my feelings to him face to face.
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Aug 20, 2008 1:19 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
jan45
jan45jan45Sofia, Sofia City Bulgaria12 Threads 6 Polls 480 Posts
There are people which don t worry from words.I should play hard-threat her badly and ignore.frustrated
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Aug 20, 2008 1:20 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
jan45: There are people which don t worry from words.I should play hard-threat her badly and ignore.


Then she be better of with out you
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Aug 20, 2008 1:59 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
Choice #1 is the best.

I tend to go with #3 because I am softy by nature. Choice #3 usually results into dragging it over a period of time (no good for both) or into hurt feelings (in addition to broken heart).
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Aug 20, 2008 2:00 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
jan45
jan45jan45Sofia, Sofia City Bulgaria12 Threads 6 Polls 480 Posts
vonney: Then she be better of with out you

But some girls treatened me in the same way I voted for and I didn t feel better without them ,cause I felt in love with them.very mad
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Aug 20, 2008 2:02 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
rasgumby: If she says it is over, I will stalk her until A new girlfriend comes along .

I will tie her to the bed post with pantyhose and play with her all night long............oops... wait, That was the part she enjoyed



But if I am the one that decides that it is over,
I will just treat her like crap till she leaves,,,,,,,,, NO....... never mind, then she would stay forever

I will treat her like a princess, buy her a nice home to live in, nice furniture, a new car, and 4 children,
then she will leave and take everything...problem solved!!!


grin make me your ex!
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Aug 20, 2008 3:44 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
I don't have much experince in this but I would try to give an explanation if I could.

Only time I ever broke it off, he lived 2 hours away and didn't want me calling him because he didn't want to "waste" his cellphone minutes. And he'd never return my email or texts. Then, he'd randomly show up one day and want to hang out for a week. Since I never got to talk to him unless he was in town, and he specifically said not to call him, I didn't and stopped returning his phone call. That's when he decided to move here - two blocks behind where I work no less, but I haven't seen or heard from him since. beer
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Aug 20, 2008 7:00 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Fallingman: I never got that text! you mean it is all over between us?
lol



I resent it, you got it now.laugh uh oh
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Aug 20, 2008 7:12 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
A combination of 1 & 3 is OK. Just explaining my feelings will clear the air so they will know how to deal with the situation we are in. But to also tell them that it is over would let them know that there is no romantic future between us.
professor mumbling
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Aug 20, 2008 7:13 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: You get a restraining order!!!!!!!







drinking there's ways to get around that, you know what's up baby...wink
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Aug 20, 2008 7:15 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
It's not you it's me. dancing
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Aug 20, 2008 7:15 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
gypsykisses: there's ways to get around that,




wave Yes there are aren't there...I suggest witness protection then....wink Oh...I'm feeling crappy and foggy from my cold....How's you doll?????


hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Aug 20, 2008 7:17 PM CST You've been dating someone for a while and realize that you don't want to date them anymore...
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes there are aren't there...I suggest witness protection then.... Oh...I'm feeling crappy and foggy from my cold....How's you doll?????





wave I'm well, I feel a bit bloated thoughrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


comfort hope you get to feeling better....teddybear hug bouquet
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by gangel (16 Polls)
Created: Aug 2008
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