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Aug 22, 2008 6:31 AM CSTwhy do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
whitelion37
whitelion37whitelion37carins, Queensland, Australia2 Threads 2 Polls 4 Posts

why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well(Vote Below)

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no yes or no
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just leave me a commet
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hi just want to see what you all think of this so leave me a commet byepeace
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Aug 22, 2008 6:31 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
whitelion37
whitelion37whitelion37carins, Queensland Australia2 Threads 2 Polls 4 Posts
hi just want to see what you all think of this so leave me a commet byepeace
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Aug 22, 2008 6:38 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
whitelion37: hi just want to see what you all think of this so leave me a commet bye


hi wave think you might see this topic covered in the thread 'why do guys want sex on the first date' ... so have a read of that and see what you think :-)
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Aug 22, 2008 6:43 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
rochy
rochyrochyhigh country, Victoria Australia5 Threads 212 Posts
Thats the difference between, man & boy !doh
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Aug 22, 2008 6:57 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
rochy: Thats the difference between, man & boy !


man or boy.. they still think with the harry humper (ask twodawgz.. he knows all about Harry the Humper rolling on the floor laughing )
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Aug 23, 2008 4:40 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 7,025 Posts
blondeaozichick: man or boy.. they still think with the harry humper (ask twodawgz.. he knows all about Harry the Humper )



Why not his big enough to think for two.. 8========================D tongue
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Aug 24, 2008 1:30 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
Twodawgz: Why not his big enough to think for two.. 8========================D


wow .. where do you live again? wink
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Sep 4, 2008 2:47 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
WANTU
WANTUWANTUHobart, Tasmania Australia3 Threads 12 Posts
ummm no... some men might think that.. not all everyone is different, but that also depends on how you have come across, eg were you flirty perhaps making him think he was in
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Sep 4, 2008 3:04 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia77 Threads 1 Polls 26,530 Posts
Well they can only sleep with you if you sleep with them roll eyes I have found more men are not like that, then what I have found are.
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Sep 4, 2008 3:38 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
Artythis
ArtythisArtythisCaboolture, Queensland Australia13 Threads 518 Posts
Indeed, boys generally think with their lower regions and generally want to sleep with the first person they see where as men on the other hand will take the time to get aquainted with the person of interest. I for one would not under any circumstances go to bed with anyone on the first date as i am a firm beleiver in not knowing what a person is like by a first meeting, a relationship of any sort takes time to grow and mature, if is to be rushed into then their is all the chance that you will end up with the results you don't want.

My 2 cencerolling on the floor laughing professor
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Sep 20, 2008 1:17 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
Pockets66
Pockets66Pockets66Kelmscott, Western Australia Australia2 Threads 2 Polls 258 Posts
Artythis: Indeed, boys generally think with their lower regions and generally want to sleep with the first person they see where as men on the other hand will take the time to get aquainted with the person of interest. I for one would not under any circumstances go to bed with anyone on the first date as i am a firm beleiver in not knowing what a person is like by a first meeting, a relationship of any sort takes time to grow and mature, if is to be rushed into then their is all the chance that you will end up with the results you don't want.

My 2 cence


My POV
A one night stand is m**turbating with someone else!!
No time
No knowledge
No connection
No emotion
No point!!
2.5 cents (rounded down)
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Sep 20, 2008 6:49 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
Luckylad2
Luckylad2Luckylad2Melbourne, Victoria Australia35 Posts
I couldnt agree with you more. Never done a one night stand, their is no point.

Not all men expect to sleep with a woman on the first date.

All men probabley want to ( we are men after all) and that is the difference between men and boys.
Pockets66: My POV
A one night stand is m**turbating with someone else!!
No time
No knowledge
No connection
No emotion
No point!!
2.5 cents (rounded down)
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Sep 20, 2008 7:24 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 2,019 Posts
i've had first dates with 3 ladies over the last fortnight. 2 were from sites like this one and one was met via normal daily life activity. 1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.
again it seems that women are quite able to do whatever men get criticized for.
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Sep 20, 2008 7:57 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia179 Threads 9 Polls 14,724 Posts
1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.



hairy?Smelly?Badbreath?Ugly?slutty?creepy?
or did you just have a headache?uh oh dunno confused
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Sep 20, 2008 8:00 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
kizzy27: 1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.
hairy?Smelly?Badbreath?Ugly?slutty?creepy?
or did you just have a headache?



rolling on the floor laughing


Bad Kizzyscold tongue

Actually I have to admit, I have never thought that I'd be having sex with anyone on a first date. It's not something anyone should "expect". It does occasionally happen though.
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Sep 22, 2008 5:18 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
kidatheart: Actually I have to admit, I have never thought that I'd be having sex with anyone on a first date. It's not something anyone should "expect". It does occasionally happen though.


Doesn't it depend on the person and the purpose of the 'date'?? confused

I mean if you have never met them or talked to them or know anything about them (ie as in blind date etc) then of course your not going to meet 'expecting' a root .. you have to see if you connect or if there is an attraction there first

If you have seen what they look like and have talked to them via email or phone or whatever and there is a definite s*xual attraction and the meeting is for the purpose of meeting to [email protected] each others brains out then wouldn't it be a bit silly if you didnt have sex??

dunno
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Sep 22, 2008 7:36 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 2,019 Posts
kizzy27: 1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.
hairy?Smelly?Badbreath?Ugly?slutty?creepy?
or did you just have a headache?




creepy i think
i went off her at about the half way point of the date when she told me she hit her kid when punishing him. i then spent the remainder of the time looking for an exit clause and i think she picked up on that and perhaps thought the "sex subject" might bring me back on track. wrong,
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Sep 22, 2008 11:44 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
relaxin
relaxinrelaxinsomewhere, Queensland Australia44 Threads 3 Polls 2,462 Posts
i think it really depends on where and how you met them.
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Sep 23, 2008 12:38 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
blondeaozichick: Doesn't it depend on the person and the purpose of the 'date'??

I mean if you have never met them or talked to them or know anything about them (ie as in blind date etc) then of course your not going to meet 'expecting' a root .. you have to see if you connect or if there is an attraction there first

If you have seen what they look like and have talked to them via email or phone or whatever and there is a definite s*xual attraction and the meeting is for the purpose of meeting to [email protected] each others brains out then wouldn't it be a bit silly if you didnt have sex??



In that context I suppose it would be different, but I've never had a date from the net. It's always been someone I met briefly somewhere, introduced by friends or even one blind date, it's been years since the last one.

Sooo, now that we've met......grin
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Sep 23, 2008 12:53 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
steve1964
steve1964steve1964sydney, New South Wales Australia1 Posts
Please don't generalise
whitelion37: hi just want to see what you all think of this so leave me a commet bye
scold
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Sep 23, 2008 2:48 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
DEEBROWN
DEEBROWNDEEBROWNNorth West, New South Wales Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 65 Posts
you have a way of dealing with things that i can totally relate to.

i say we wouldn't just jump at the offer of sex for the having self respect.. i mean im not bagging out anyone else and their views, but i would do the same thing if were in your shoes. thumbs up!

thumbs up see good guys exist.. psuedonym and deebrown lol
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Sep 23, 2008 3:12 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia179 Threads 9 Polls 14,724 Posts
see good guys exist.. psuedonym and deebrown lol



Ill second that!
thumbs up lips hug
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Sep 23, 2008 3:12 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
SHIT!! .. thought I'd walked into the 'I'm a goodie two shoes' thread by mistake then uh oh


*slipping quietly out the backdoor unnoticed... checking all the thread doors trying to find the .. 'I'm human and sometimes I just wanna screw someones brains out on the first date' thread*




laugh
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Sep 23, 2008 3:15 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia179 Threads 9 Polls 14,724 Posts
blondeaozichick: SHIT!! .. thought I'd walked into the 'I'm a goodie two shoes' thread by mistake then *slipping quietly out the backdoor unnoticed... checking all the thread doors trying to find the .. 'I'm human and sometimes I just wanna screw someones brains out on the first date' thread*



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Sep 23, 2008 3:28 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
DEEBROWN
DEEBROWNDEEBROWNNorth West, New South Wales Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 65 Posts
hey im not saying you should do differently.. to each their own...

where's that door located?? lol
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Sep 23, 2008 3:31 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia179 Threads 9 Polls 14,724 Posts
where's that door located?? lol

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Im coming too yay

Hi deewave
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Sep 23, 2008 3:46 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
psuedonym
psuedonympsuedonymadelaide, South Australia Australia15 Threads 1 Polls 2,019 Posts
blondeaozichick: SHIT!! .. thought I'd walked into the 'I'm a goodie two shoes' thread by mistake then *slipping quietly out the backdoor unnoticed... checking all the thread doors trying to find the .. 'I'm human and sometimes I just wanna screw someones brains out on the first date' thread*



if you'd had any idea of my younger years you'd hardly put me in the goodie two shoes category. but as i've aged i've realised that my behaviour in the past did not really put me into the "person anyone wanted to associate with" category. so you may say that i've done some soul searching and turned over a new leaf over the last 10 or so years. NO I HAVEN"T FOUND GOD, but i have found a more peaceful lifestyle, this time one that doesn't revolve around firearms, blades or baseball bats. or as we often used to refer to them as " sporting goods, your honour"
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Oct 5, 2008 12:20 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
SaTiZfacT
SaTiZfacTSaTiZfacTperth, Western Australia Australia1 Posts
Unfortunatley most of us think with our p*nis instead of our heads , we also use this tool to stop arguements , make serious buisness desicions and as something to rest our beer on when we go to the skimpy . Just jokin , no matter how true it sounds . I theenk its called lust honey . Kind o like the stuff that makes ya slip off your seat . Your right i guess , we should think with our heads instead of our willys jeeps . Not all men want to sleep with someone on there first date , but honestly babe , your so beautiful it makes me wonder how you got past your front gate let alone out on a date . Im into the friends first and romance thing . Im not old fashioned i just prefer making love with someone i know and really care about for hours and hours and weekends , than to wham bbam thank ya maam like a wombat . Eats roots and leaves . I think sometimes the build up before you make love to someone can drive you into fits of extasy when it happens and i go out of control and cant stop . Otherwise it all seems to easy . You both might as well smoke and read while yer doin the wheelbarrow . Anyway i hope you like my essay . Get back to me soon , would love to get you past your front gate sometime for a date . Your really sweet and thanks for the flower . It really made my Day . Douglas xprofessor cheers cheers
blondeaozichick: hi think you might see this topic covered in the thread 'why do guys want sex on the first date' ... so have a read of that and see what you think :-)
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Oct 5, 2008 5:04 PM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
phaedellis
phaedellisphaedellisBrisbane, Queensland Australia12 Threads 1,405 Posts
psuedonym: creepy i think
i went off her at about the half way point of the date when she told me she hit her kid when punishing him. i then spent the remainder of the time looking for an exit clause and i think she picked up on that and perhaps thought the "sex subject" might bring me back on track. wrong,
you should take the girlie advice and have a friend at hand, that can call you about 30 mins to an Hr into the date, and ALWAYS have an escape plan readyrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing See there are some decent guys on here, i take my hat off to you, personally i wouldnt sleep with a person who was admitting to me that they were heavy handed?especially with their childrenscold to me that would be the ultimate turn off!!! Good for youapplause applause applause
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Oct 6, 2008 1:57 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia110 Threads 3 Polls 7,759 Posts
SaTiZfacT: Unfortunatley most of us think with our p*nis instead of our heads , we also use this tool to stop arguements , make serious buisness desicions and as something to rest our beer on when we go to the skimpy . Just jokin , no matter how true it sounds . I theenk its called lust honey . Kind o like the stuff that makes ya slip off your seat . Your right i guess , we should think with our heads instead of our willys jeeps . Not all men want to sleep with someone on there first date , but honestly babe , your so beautiful it makes me wonder how you got past your front gate let alone out on a date . Im into the friends first and romance thing . Im not old fashioned i just prefer making love with someone i know and really care about for hours and hours and weekends , than to wham bbam thank ya maam like a wombat . Eats roots and leaves . I think sometimes the build up before you make love to someone can drive you into fits of extasy when it happens and i go out of control and cant stop . Otherwise it all seems to easy . You both might as well smoke and read while yer doin the wheelbarrow . Anyway i hope you like my essay . Get back to me soon , would love to get you past your front gate sometime for a date . Your really sweet and thanks for the flower . It really made my Day . Douglas x



conversing Is he talking to me??

I think he has me confused with someone else confused

laugh cos I didn't send him a flower dunno
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Oct 6, 2008 3:00 AM CST why do men think that if they go out with you on the first date they can sleep with you as well
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 6,101 Posts
blondeaozichick: SHIT!! .. thought I'd walked into the 'I'm a goodie two shoes' thread by mistake then *slipping quietly out the backdoor unnoticed... checking all the thread doors trying to find the .. 'I'm human and sometimes I just wanna screw someones brains out on the first date' thread*


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